I am spending the weekend visiting my sister up in Seattle.

Today we:

  • Walked her dog three times.
  • Went to the main Seattle Goodwill and bought a dozen nice wooden hangers, a cool shirt for my 11-year-old son and three Japanese manga comics.
  • Stopped my sister from accidently buying pornographic manga for my older son.
  • Met up with an old college friend to see the movie “The Fantastic Mr. Fox” with the kids, (which was fabulous!)
  • Made a simple dinner.
  • Met up with another old college friend to see his new house.

What I didn’t do:

  • Write anything for the blog.

Have a great day, see you tomorrow.

Katy Wolk-Stanley

“Use it up, wear it out, make it do or do without.”

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A Love Letter To Audio Books

by Katy on November 28, 2009 · 13 comments

Hello there, you silver tongued devil. Your sensual whisperings compel me to fold that extra load of laundry, walk that extra mile, rake both back and front yards. Without you, the silence of taskery folds me into its dull realm, smothering me second by never ending second. Your stories flow through me, transporting me to worlds more interesting than that which float in dishwater.

Others may download you directly onto their iPods, but my outdated CD Walkman works perfectly well to bring you into my heart.

Some use you for motivational and self-help pursuits, but my needs are less serious and more joyful. British chick-lit, historical fiction and anything with the words Jane or Austen fill my innermost realms.

Some may say I’m not actually reading when you and I meet up for our literary trysts, but I beg to differ. We have nothing to hide. Our connection is deep and auditory, soaking deeply into my brain despite having never passed through my vision.

Your stories never seem to dry up. Randomly pulled from the library shelf or long awaited bestsellers, either way you always deliver the goods.

Soothing yet energizing all at once.

So thank you sweet, sweet audio books. Your words lift me beyond the sameness of household drudgery and into the lives of characters that enrich and entrance.

You had me at disc one.

Katy Wolk-Stanley

“Use it up, wear it out, make it do or do without.”

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It's "The Story of Stuff" Day!

by Katy on November 27, 2009 · 4 comments

Today is the day after Thanksgiving, which means it’s black Friday, The Story of Stuff day!

Never heard of this holiday? Well . . . that’s because I just made it up. The Story of Stuff is a wonderful and engaging 20 minute video produced by Annie Leonard that succinctly explains  the flow of stuff through manufacturing to landfill. This video has been viewed over seven million times and is a great substitution for rising at 3:00 A.M. for doorbuster deals.

Enjoy it and pass it along!

Katy Wolk-Stanley

“Use it up, wear it out, make it do or do without.”

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Happy Thanksgiving Non-Consumers!

by Katy on November 25, 2009 · 4 comments

Happy Thanksgiving to one and all!

May your meals be hearty and your table rich with friends and family.

Don’t forget to sleep in nice and late on Friday, because you don’t need to hit the Black Friday 4:00 A.M. sales. You’re a non-consumer.

Katy Wolk-Stanley

“Use it up, wear it out, make it do or do without.”

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I was driving to work the other morning when a story came on National Public Radio about carpooling and incentive programs.

This story was very interesting to me because the person being interviewed, (Cliff Winston of the Brookings Institution) said that a monetary incentive programs work well because:

“People are, in fact, more motivated to save a dollar than gain a dollar.”

Really?

I have found the opposite to be true.

People, (okay, my children) make fun of me for all the measures I go to in order to save money, but no one has ever mocked me for the money I have earned.

Whenever I have to point out to the clerk that I am bringing my own grocery bags and should get the nickel rebate, I try to think of it as five cents on the ground that I would bother to bend over for. Yes, it’s a little embarrassing, but ultimately worth it.

A bit of a mind trick, because even for me, earning a nickel may be more of an incentive than saving one. But on the other hand, I get such a thrill out of buying items for pennies on the dollar.

I know many people who are always picking up overtime shifts because their regular wages are not enough to cover their bills. If these people were to take that time to lower their expenditures, it would be a much better long term solution to their financial woes. But these people would rather earn a dollar than save one.

The words from the radio resonated with me as I found my mind exploring whether I prefer saving money or making money. As the Non-Consumer Advocate, I should prefer to save money, but I’m really not sure. I love coming across financial windfalls, but I also love it when I’m able to save a significant amount of money.

I think I’m just going to have to come to the conclusion that I love both saving money and earning money. (It’s like my children — how can I prefer one over the other?!)

How about you? Are you motivated more by savings or earnings? Please share your thoughts in the comments section below.

Katy Wolk-Stanley

“Use it up, wear it out, make it do or do without.”

 

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The following is a reprint of a previously published column. Enjoy!

My ten-year-old son is very focused. But not necessarily on what you want him to be focusing on.

Iron Giant?

Focused.

Art?

Focused.

Drawing pictures of The Iron Giant?

Super focused.

Remembering to bring his lunch box home from school?

Not so focused.

Luckily, we have a few extra lunch boxes and water bottles. We can go three days before starting to send him to school with his lunch in a burlap sack.

So he was bringing home an armload of lunch boxes the other day, but had a super worried look on his face.

One of the lunch boxes had a broken handle, and horror of all horrors, it was his brother’s one.

He quickly blurted out the source of his worry.

“I broke Colin’s lunchbox, and he’s gonna go all Chuck Norris on me!”

A quick once-over told me the lunch box could be fixed with a needle and thread.

And sure enough, a few minutes with the sewing kit saw the lunch box as good as new.

Whew . . . .

No need for Chuck Norris.

Yet.

We’ve become a society where it’s often cheaper to replace an item than it is to have it repaired. Even so, the true price of a throw away culture is beyond the wallet. Our landfills are full of items that could have been fixed with a bit of ingenuity and elbow grease.

We should be proud of our old patched up belongings. Instead, we seem to only take pride in owning the newest and shiniest.

So next time a household item gets busted, think past that quick and easy replacement.

Or . . . The Non-Consumer Advocate is gonna get all Chuck Norris on ya’.

Do you repair or replace? What’s your proudest repair? Tell us all about it in thecomments section below.

Katy Wolk-Stanley

“Use it up, wear it out, make it do or do without.”

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Sustainable Holidays

by Katy on November 23, 2009 · 14 comments

I spoke over the weekend at the Vancouver, Washington library on the subject of “Reduce, Reuse, Rejoice: Sustainable Holidays,” which was a lot of fun.

Despite there being dozens upon dozens of chairs lined up for my hordes of adoring fans, only seven people came to hear my pearls of wisdom, (two of whom were library employees.) The low turnout was actually just fine, as this allowed for a more personalized discussion of the issues of sustainability during the holiday season.

The following is a slightly fleshed out version of my outline, which I followed quite closely.

Holidays present unique challenges because we are focusing our energy on gift giving and entertaining. The choices we make to live sustainably often go out the window when the stress of the holidays press down upon us. This doesn’t have to be.

Gift Giving

There are many ways to make sure that your holiday gift giving is within your goals of sustainable holidays:

  • Give second hand gifts (Can afford to give better quality.)
  • Give fewer gifts.
  • Give no gifts — Winnow down who you exchange gifts with.
  • Give experiential gifts – Doesn’t have to be pricey. Can be something as simple as a night of babysitting or teaching a skill to a friend.
  • Consumable Gifts – Can be as elaborate as dessert or dinner of the month; or as simple as a bottle of wine or a tin of cookies.
  • Handmade gift certificates –   Just must make sure to follow through.
  • Handmade gifts.
  • Gifts to charity in a person’s name.
  • Establish a system where everyone in the family is assigned a particular person to buy for. Just make sure to set a reasonable price limit.

If you are wanting to make changes with how your family exchanges gifts, the time to talk about it is now. Make sure to be clear and explain the reasoning behind the change and offer to replace what may have been events for gift exchanges with non-gift centric get togethers. Don’t simply present it as, “I don’t want to buy you a present anymore.”

Remember though, that many people are already in the full swing of holiday shopping, and it may be too late for any significant changes for the current year.

It is important to keep in mind that gift giving is a loving act, even if you are receiving items that are not to your liking. Be gracious.

Gift Wrapping

There’s nothing more depressing in my book than the massive mess of wrapping paper and ribbons that litter the floor on Christmas morning. Sure, some of it is reusable and recyclable, but it’s still a colossal waste.

Some alternatives to wrapping paper are:

  • Reusable gift bags.
  • Wrap your gifts in the Sunday comics.
  • Use a solid color pillow case for larger gifts, and tie with a pretty fabric ribbon.
  • Wrap gifts in decorated craft paper, (ahem . . .  inside out grocery bags.)
  • Use your kid’s artwork to wrap a gift.
  • Sew your own gift bags. I am not a crafty type, but even I can sew a straight seam.
  • Reuse last year’s wrapping paper.

Entertaining

Even if you’re not the type to throw huge holiday shin-digs, chances are you’re involved at some level with entertaining. This can be in the home or even an office party.

Here are a few tips to not let that holiday get together automatically fill your garbage can to the gills:

  • Use non-disposable dishes and silverware. This may cost more initially, but it’s worth it. Area thrift shops bulge with extra dishes, and you can even borrow, freecycle, or craigslist. Ask around and put the word out.
  • Make ice instead of buying it. Just start making ice for your party a few days early and you can eliminate the errand of buying ice in a big ol’ plastic bag.
  • Use cloth napkins and tablecloths. Not only is this the more sustainable choice, but it’s also so much of a festive look. Cloth napkins and tablecloths cost a pittance in thrift shops.
  • Using a free online service such as e-vite for the invitations rather than snail mail.
  • Give thought to your food waste. Try to make sure unused food is refrigerated in a timely manner and freeze what you can’t eat in the next few days or send home with guests. You can even let guests know to bring empty leftover containers.
  • Use holiday parties as an opportunity to help out those in need. This can be as simple as making your party into a canned food drive. This is an easy thing to do and people are usually happy to find opportunities to be generous. This is an especially good idea for work parties.
  • Make sure to clearly label your garbage, recycling and compost. (I’m sure we’ve all experienced helpful guests who throw everything into the regular garbage.)

Thank you very much to the Fort Vancouver library system for inviting me to come and speak. I had a great time!

Katy Wolk-Stanley

“Use it up, wear it out, make it do or do without.”

 

 

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Sustainable Holidays

by Katy on November 22, 2009 · 1 comment

I spoke over the weekend at the Vancouver, Washington library on the subject of“Reduce, Reuse, Rejoice: Sustainable Holidays,” which was a lot of fun.

Despite there being dozens upon dozens of chairs lined up for my hordes of adoring fans, only seven people came to hear my pearls of wisdom, (two of whom were library employees.) The low turnout was actually just fine, as this allowed for a more personalized discussion of the issues of sustainability during the holiday season.

The following is a slightly fleshed out version of my outline, which I followed quite closely.

Holidays present unique challenges because we are focusing our energy on gift giving and entertaining. The choices we make to live sustainably often go out the window when the stress of the holidays press down upon us. This doesn’t have to be.

Gift Giving

There are many ways to make sure that your holiday gift giving is within your goals of sustainable holidays:

  • Give second hand gifts (Can afford to give better quality.)
  • Give fewer gifts.
  • Give no gifts — Winnow down who you exchange gifts with.
  • Give experiential gifts – Doesn’t have to be pricey. Can be something as simple as a night of babysitting or teaching a skill to a friend.
  • Consumable Gifts – Can be as elaborate as dessert or dinner of the month; or as simple as a bottle of wine or a tin of cookies.
  • Handmade gift certificates –   Just must make sure to follow through.
  • Handmade gifts.
  • Gifts to charity in a person’s name.
  • Establish a system where everyone in the family is assigned a particular person to buy for. Just make sure to set a reasonable price limit.

If you are wanting to make changes with how your family exchanges gifts, the time to talk about it is now. Make sure to be clear and explain the reasoning behind the change and offer to replace what may have been events for gift exchanges with non-gift centric get togethers. Don’t simply present it as, “I don’t want to buy you a present anymore.”

Remember though, that many people are already in the full swing of holiday shopping, and it may be too late for any significant changes for the current year.

It is important to keep in mind that gift giving is a loving act, even if you are receiving items that are not to your liking. Be gracious.

Gift Wrapping

There’s nothing more depressing in my book than the massive mess of wrapping paper and ribbons that litter the floor on Christmas morning. Sure, some of it is reusable and recyclable, but it’s still a colossal waste.

Some alternatives to wrapping paper are:

  • Reusable gift bags.
  • Wrap your gifts in the Sunday comics.
  • Use a solid color pillow case for larger gifts, and tie with a pretty fabric ribbon.
  • Wrap gifts in decorated craft paper, (ahem . . .  inside out grocery bags.)
  • Use your kid’s artwork to wrap a gift.
  • Sew your own gift bags. I am not a crafty type, but even I can sew a straight seam.
  • Reuse last year’s wrapping paper.

Entertaining

Even if you’re not the type to throw huge holiday shin-digs, chances are you’re involved at some level with entertaining. This can be in the home or even an office party.

Here are a few tips to not let that holiday get together automatically fill your garbage can to the gills:

  • Use non-disposable dishes and silverware. This may cost more initially, but it’s worth it. Area thrift shops bulge with extra dishes, and you can even borrow, freecycle, or craigslist. Ask around and put the word out.
  • Make ice instead of buying it. Just start making ice for your party a few days early and you can eliminate the errand of buying ice in a big ol’ plastic bag.
  • Use cloth napkins and tablecloths. Not only is this the more sustainable choice, but it’s also so much of a festive look. Cloth napkins and tablecloths cost a pittance in thrift shops.
  • Using a free online service such as e-vite for the invitations rather than snail mail.
  • Give thought to your food waste. Try to make sure unused food is refrigerated in a timely manner and freeze what you can’t eat in the next few days or send home with guests. You can even let guests know to bring empty leftover containers.
  • Use holiday parties as an opportunity to help out those in need. This can be as simple as making your party into a canned food drive. This is an easy thing to do and people are usually happy to find opportunities to be generous. This is an especially good idea for work parties.
  • Make sure to clearly label your garbage, recycling and compost. (I’m sure we’ve all experienced helpful guests who throw everything into the regular garbage.)

Thank you very much to the Fort Vancouver library system for inviting me to come and speak. I had a great time!

Katy Wolk-Stanley

“Use it up, wear it out, make it do or do without.”

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I gave an interview yesterday for an article about The Compact, (buy nothing new movement) and holiday gift giving.

The reporter wanted to know what my Compact exceptions were, and I gave her my memorized list which is:

  • Bras
  • Underwear
  • Socks
  • Cat litter scoops
  • Pyrex
  • Harmonicas

This isn’t to say that I haven’t occasionally bought other items that were brand new, but this is the core list of my get out of Compact free things. The bra, socks, and underwear are pretty self explanatory, but the cat litter scoop and harmonica are from specific occasions. The Pyrex is the one category where the big picture, (want to move away from storing food in plastic) outweighs the buy nothing newgoal. I would certainly buy used Pyrex leftover containers (with snap-on lids) used, but they’re hard to find.

The journalist wanted to know what other people’s Compact exceptions were, and I kind of drew a blank. I posted a query on the Compact Yahoo group and the answers are starting to trickle in.

Home improvement items, unmentionables, office supplies and shoes are showing up on the listserve, which brings me to the questions:

What would you never even consider buying used?

Are you okay with used shoes, but need your pillows to be new? Would you have no problem with used books, but magazine have to be fresh from the news stand?

Please share what your Compact exceptions would be in the comments section below.

Katy Wolk-Stanley

“Use it up, wear it out, make it do or do without.”

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I will be speaking this Saturday, November 21st on “Reduce, Reuse, Rejoice: Sustainable Holidays” at 12:00 P.M. at the Vancouver, Washington community library.

This is a great opportunity for Vancouver area residents to come together and discuss working your Non-Consumer life into the somewhat consumer-tastic holiday season.

We will be discussing:

  • Low cost gift giving.
  • Green gift giving.
  • No and low impact gift wrap.
  • Holiday entertaining that fills the spirit, not the garbage can.
  • How to discuss Non-Consumer holidays with your family.
  • Working experiential gifts into your bag of tricks.
  • Incorporating charitable giving into the holiday season.
  • And much, much more!

See you there!

Katy Wolk-Stanley

“Use it up, wear it out, make it do or do without.”

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