When Free is Too Expensive

by Katy on August 1, 2009 · 21 comments

free-signIf there’s one things that unites all income levels, it’s getting something for nothing. Whether it’s garbage picking a perfectly good mop, (guilty as charged) or getting a swag bag while attend the Oscar ceremonies, it’s hard to turn down a freebie.

But in a society where one in every ten Americans has overflowed their belongings into a self storage unit, should we be looking for more, more, more belongings?

I live in a pretty big home, it’s four large bedrooms plus a full basement and a large unfinished room at the back of the house. There should be enough room for all of our stuff and still allow for a bit of an echo.

Such is not the case.

My husband used to have his own commercial photography studio which he closed down eight years ago, this meant a whole lotta stuff entered our house. He was pretty good about selling off the majority of the furniture, but there’s still a large amount of photography equipment gathering dust in that back bedroom. He’s also the equipment manager for our local soccer club, which has over 1000 players, which means that goals, nets, T-shirts, first aid kits and other flotsam spill forth from our basement.

Our great big house is filled to the brim.

So what does this have to do with free stuff being too expensive?

Our backyard neighbors moved out of their rental house due to the landlord not paying her mortgage, and left a lot of stuff, (okay — crap) behind. The landlord unceremoniously dumped all of it onto the parking strip in front of the house, and propped a “free” sign against it all.

I knew it was there but really felt like:

  • These lovely tenants got a raw deal, and I shouldn’t  look to benefit from their misfortune.
  • I have enough stuff in my house, and shouldn’t be looking to accumulate even one. More. Thing.

My steely resolve lasted until around 3:00 P.M. when I strolled over to check it out. I daintily picked through the stuff and found:

  • A snap-on lid for a Pyrex bowl.
  • A sprinkler.
  • A vintage wire basket, meant for flowers that is currently holding vegetables.
  • A vintage pressed glass creamer.
  • A dish towel.
  • A couple of Country Home magazines, which I secretly really like.
  • A plastic deck chair, which I will use in the backyard while we have house guests this week and then give away when they’re gone.

This may seem like I exercised little restraint, but I actually did. There was a decent couch, which would have been a nice addition to my 13-year-old’s band practice space in the basement, as well as countless other tempting tidbits.

As I browsed the piles, at least four people stopped their cars to have a look. I felt that most of the usable items would go home with those lucky enough to have chosen this route.

I could easily have found much, much more to bring home, because hey — it’s free! But what would be the actual cost of adding that much more crap into my life? A house that requires too much work to keep clean and tidy, that’s what!

I have worked very hard to declutter my home, and I am not going to let all that effort go to waste just because there’s an enormous free pile a few steps from my house.

That, my fellow Non-Consumers is a price I am unwilling to pay.

Make sure to watch Annie Leonard’s Story of Stuff as a reminder as to why the buy more, more, more mentality has got to change. It’s twenty minutes long, but worth every minute.

Do you have a hard time turning down stuff when it’s free? Please share your thoughts in the comments section below.

Katy Wolk-Stanley

“Use it up, wear it out, make it do or do without.”

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Best Way to Save on Shopping

by Katy on August 1, 2009 · 18 comments

ikea

Portland, Oregon underwent a grand transformation last year — we became an Ikea city. People slept outside the store in order to be one of the first to shop the famous and oh so popular housewares giant.

It was a big deal.

I have yet to make the pilgrimage across town to browse through what is most likely an enticingly laid out store. Why? Because I know that if I were to stroll through Ikea, (even if I decided ahead of time to buy nothing) I would find something I just had to buy. I really do love home organizing gadgetry, linens and such, but I find it a whole heck of a lot easier to not buy stuff if I simply don’t know about it.

Because the best way to avoid buying cool stuff is to stay away from the store in the first place.

Some might argue that the advent of internet shopping make staying away from stores near to impossible. I beg to differ. I am so overexposed to advertising at this point, so they really don’t faze me.

This is also true for thrift store shopping. If I pass the doors of a Goodwill, I am almost always going to find something great to buy.

Was it something I needed?

Eh . . . probably not.

Was it something I woke up that morning deciding I couldn’t live without?

Most definitely not.

I’m not a buy nothing ever disciple, I still shop. I just know to stay away from that which would definitely lure me away from The Compact, (buy nothing new.)

And that, my fellow Non-Consumers, would be a big fat Ikea.

Do you work to stay away from shops that are your siren’s song? Please share your thoughts in the comments section below.

Katy Wolk-Stanley

“Use it up, wear it out, make it do or do without.”

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Cheap Eats — Pesto

by Katy on July 31, 2009 · 8 comments

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The following is a reprint of a previously published post. Enjoy!

I may be in a time warp, because I am freshly in love with pesto. I know that the rest of the world went pesto-crazy 10+ years ago. But here I am in 2009 trying to figure out how to work this magical green paste into everything I cook.

My sister Sara was over at the house all day prepping the backyard for a brick patio. She was doing some pretty serious manual labor and working up an appetite. I wanted to make a nice lunch for everyone. Here’s the thing though:

Sara is a vegan.

I had already made her a nice burrito the evening before with beans, peppers and onions. All seared in a cast-iron skillet. Yum. This is my vegan-for-Sara standby, and I’d served it way too recently to offer it up again.

I happened to notice a big basil plant, ($4) I had impulse purchased at Trader Joe’s last week and began to hatch a plan.

I had some pecans in the freezer that my mother had brought home from a trip to Texas. I know pesto is supposed to have pine nuts, but my cooking style is all about figuring out substitutions. How bad could it be?

So I threw a big handful of pecans into the food processor. (The frozen nuts were satisfyingly loud.)  I then added a handful of basil, and four cloves of garlic, olive oil, plus salt and pepper.

Wowie-Zowie, this stuff was good, really good!

I served it over spiral pasta, with a sprinkle of parmesan cheese on top and everyone scarfed it down.

The confluence of cheap, healthy, easy to make food that is actually enjoyed by the 11, 13 and 44-year-olds in my house is a depressingly rare. My sons can be picky, but in completely opposite ways.

Unfortunately, Sara’s boyfriend was craving burritos, so they missed out on our fabulous lunch.

Sad for them, delicious for us.

This cost this meal was: noodles, ($1) basil, ($1) garlic, (10 cents) olive oil (maybe 50 cents) and the pecans (free!). Plus, I have enough pesto leftover for a few more meals.

Cheap food does not have to be unhealthy and flavorless. So I will say this only once, Non-Consumers:

Stay away from the ramen!

Katy Wolk-Stanley

“Use it up, wear it out, make it do or do without.”

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What I'm Grateful For

by Katy on July 30, 2009 · 19 comments

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Today in Portland marked day two of unrelenting 106 degree heat, and day four of a heat wave. Because this is highly unusual weather for our neck of the woods, very few people have air conditioning. However, there is still much to be grateful for.

Here is my list of the five things for which I am feeling gratitude:

  1. I cared for a laboring couple from India on Monday, and asked them if they were laughing at us Pacific Northwesterners for freaking out about a few 100+ degree days. They answered that where they are from it’s not unusual to have 115 degree weather with high humidity. I am grateful not to be living in India.
  2. Our Safeway places a monthly ad in the local paper that includes a coupon for $10 off a $50 purchase. I always do a big grocery trip at the beginning of the week and then a big one at the end before this offer expires. I bought five big bags of groceries for $5o (I overspent) today plus a big watermelon. I am grateful that I can get great deals on groceries without fussing with a bunch of coupons. (I did use a few coupons, but didn’t have to join clubs or order anything off eBay to do so.)
  3. My mother’s guest cottages have been booked solid this Summer, so we haven’t had the opportunity to indulge in any pretend vacations, (my favorite kind, as they require a scant 15 minutes of travel time and zero pre-vacation stress.) My mother blocked out six nights next week for us, and we’ll be partaking in the air conditioned-cable TV watching-across the street from the library-three blocks from the pool-around the corner from a fabulous bakery luxury. I am grateful that my mother not only owns these guest cottages, but loves to host us.
  4. Many people live in communities that do not support energy saving measures such as hanging a clothesline or planting vegetables in the front yard. I am grateful that my neighborhood embraces people who make sustainable and energy efficient choices.
  5. I spent all afternoon and evening basking in the frigid splendor of my mother’s air conditioned home, eating her food, drinking her drinks and watching marathon on-demand episodes of Entourage. I then drove home to discover my house was still hideously hot and stuffy. My mother spelunked into the basement of the next-door guest cottage and pulled out two standing fans which she then drove over to my house. As I sit here with both fans selfishly trained on my me, I am grateful to have the best Mom in the whole wide world! (I am also more than a little bit grateful for Ari Gold.)

What are you grateful for? Please share your lists in the comments section below.

Katy Wolk-Stanley

“Use it up, wear it out, make it do or do without.”

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106 Degrees and I'm Ready to Bolt

by Katy on July 28, 2009 · 19 comments

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Portland, Oregon hit 106 degrees today which no matter how you slice it, is just too darned hot.

Yes, I worked a nine hour shift in the air conditioned loveliness that is my hospital, but I’m home now and it’s currently 90 sweat inducing degrees in my living room.

So in the spirit of frugal daughters everywhere, I called up my mother and told her that yes, I would like to come over for dinner. (Never mind that there had not actually been an actual invitation.) My mother, ever the quick thinker asked if I’d like to bring the kids over for pizza and cable TV?

Yes, that sounds lovely. Thank you very much.

So stay cool fellow Non-Consumers. Enjoy your Summer, even if it takes a bit of moochy creativity.

Katy Wolk-Stanley

“Use it up, wear it out, make it do or do without.”

P.S. Thank you very much to Nadine, who is the dealer to my zucchini habit. You are very much appreciated!

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Recession Unworthy Products

by Katy on July 27, 2009 · 9 comments

Senior Discount

With any difficulty comes great commercial opportunity. I saw this with September 11th, (9/11 T-shirts were printed up within days!) and I’m seeing this with the current recession.

A startling example of this jumped out at me from the ice cream case this evening:

ice creamDreyer’s/ Edy’s Red, White and No More Blues flavor ice cream. With a medallion that reads, “Recovery never tasted so good!”

Hmm . . . interesting way to milk our country’s economic woes in the name of a creamy sweet profit.

Another recession era product that caught my eye was the Don’t Forget my Senior Discount” baseball cap: “The cap that saves you money!”

Let’s just move past how butt-ugly the cap is, and go straight to ask the all important question:

Are they suggesting that seniors can’t remember to ask for their discount, and that they’ve lost all sense of pride?! At age 41, I’m only nine short years away from my own AARP discount. And let me tell ya’, there’s no way, shape or form that I will be wearing this cap any more than I could wear a cap reminding grocery store checkers to ask me for my coupons.

Ain’t gonna happen.

Are you noticing retailers hopping on the recession products bandwagon? Are there any products or specials that have caught your eye? Please share your observations in the comments section below.

Katy Wolk-Stanley

“Use it up, wear it out, make it do or do without.”

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Nickel and DimeJ.D. Roth over at Get Rich Slowly wrote a few weeks back about his frugal weekend, in which he described the days he spent scoring cheap plants, cycling to a book club and hanging his laundry. He also wrote that he’s savings towards a trip to Italy and France, a new bike purchase as well as a new mattress.

This mix of frugality with large purchases made me think about how penny pinching and big spending dovetail quite nicely.

Sometimes I feel like I’m scrimping and savings towards nothing, that I am nickel and diming myself at all times — saving a dollar here, twenty cents there. But when I really think about it, nothing could be father from the truth.

I work my tuchus off to save money on the myriad of daily expenses, (movie rentals, meals, clothing for the family, entertainment, etc.) so that I can free up our income for the things that matter.

For instance, my 13-year-old son will be going on a school trip to Japan next Spring. Despite years of fundraising, this trip will set us back at least $2000 plus approximately $300 in spending money.

One could argue that since it’s going to cost so much money for the trip, it’s hardly worth sweating saving one dollar here or twenty cents there. Nothing could be farther from the truth.

I will have the cash because I consistently save small amounts of money.

Conversely, spending an extra dollar here and an extra twenty cents there would mean I wouldn’t have enough money to send my son to Japan for this terrific opportunity.

I am nickel and diming my way to the top!

Do you work to save small amounts of money or only put your efforts into the larger payoffs? Please share your thoughts in the comments section below.

Katy Wolk-Stanley

“Use it up, wear it out, make it do or do without.”

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clothesline

How many times has this happened to you? You’re in your backyard minding your own business when suddenly you’re guillotined by your clothesline?

What . . . never? Then I guess you’re lucky to have dodged this oh-so common bullet.

Greenwich, Connecticut has enacted a clothesline ban for their senior public housing due to this very safety concern.

“At night, it’s very dark over there. You can’t see anything,” said Anthony Johnson, the Housing Authority’s executive director. “If somebody’s running through there, they could really get clothes-lined, football clothes-lined. It wouldn’t be a pretty thing.”

The Right to Dry movement has stalled in image-concerned Connecticut:

“Connecticut Attorney General Richard Blumenthal, a Greenwich resident, said he is solidly behind the effort to pass a “right to dry” law and will push the bill during the next legislative session. The bill stalled due to opposition from condominium associations that were concerned about aesthetics of clotheslines.”

” ‘Well, everyone should be entitled to dry their laundry outside as a cost-saving measure and as an energy-saving measure, which also happens to be great for the environment,’ Blumenthal said.”

Call me a dreamer, but if it’s so dark out there, perhaps an outdoor light would come in handy. And seniors running in the dark through the communal clothesline area? Now that’s an image!

Click here to read all the juicy dry details.

Want to know more about the Right to Dry movement? Make sure to check out Project Laundry List.

Want to write to the Connecticut Public Housing Executive Director? (Sorry, I couldn’t find an e-mail address.)

Anthony Johnson

Executive Director, Public Housing Authority

249 Milbank Avenue

Greenwich, CT 06830

Katy Wolk-Stanley

“Use it up, wear it out, make it do or do without.”

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Non-Consumer Mish-Mash

by Katy on July 24, 2009 · 7 comments

blueberry-box

Here’s another piece in my Non-Consumer Mish-Mash series, in which I write about a little of this, a little of that.

I was chatting over the fence with a new neighbor, a retired gentleman from Northern New Jersey. He joked that he was going to call the “sustainability police” on me for having such a lush and healthy lawn. I argued that since my backyard is deeply shady and unable to grow food that I was exempt. I pointed out that we live in Oregon, hardly a desert environment, but he just wouldn’t let it go. (He doesn’t know about my status as The Non-Consumer Advocate.)

Don’t suggest that my life is not green just because I have a small patch of lawn.

You might just wake up Soprano style.

New Season’s Market, our local swanky natural foods chain had two pound boxes of blueberries on sale for $6.99 this week that were both locally grown and organic. So I stopped in on my way back from swim classes today only to find that unlike the ad, which featured cardboard boxes of berries, these ones were encased in clamshell plastic.

What the heck?!

Why, why, why are so many foods that never used to be packaged in plastic suddenly so? Any benefit from choosing local and organic foods is completely negated by being boxed up in a petroleum product that lives forever. Even if I were to recycle the plastic, (which I would) the process of shipping the plastics to a recycling plant to be melted into a new product is hardly earth friendly.

So what did I do?

I stopped in at Safeway and bought a five pound box of locally grown/ non-organic blueberries packaged in yes — cardboard also for $6.99.

I found out today about a local movie first run theater whose matinees are only $4, and is currently playing the new Harry Potter movie. Hooray!

Thank you very much to Dawn, my new favorite N-CA reader!

I spied a really nice large formal flowerpot lying on its side in the yard of one of my mother’s rental cottages. I brought it home and filled it with scrounged potting soil. I then bought one of Trader Joe’s $2.99 pots of basil and divided out the basil plants and voilá, I now have a super lovely potted herb garden that looks fabulous on the brick patio.

Thank you Mom!

I’ve given two interviews in the past three days, one for a book the other for a print article. I love having the opportunity to reach new audiences.

If you are enjoying The Non-Consumer Advocate, please forward posts to like minded friends, (or even non-like minded friends who might be in need of a bit of inspiration to see frugality as a joyful rather than punitive choice.)

Thank you to everyone who reads my blog and especially those who take the time to post comments. It’s the feedback from readers that keep me writing and inspired. I ♥ you!

Katy Wolk-Stanley

“Use it up, wear it out, make it do or do without.”

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Is Your Freezer a Frozen Wasteland?

by Katy on July 23, 2009 · 17 comments

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If you are anything like me, you are good to utilize the freezer compartment of your refrigerator.

Good about putting food into it, less good about taking food out.

We buy individually frozen chicken breasts from Costco which take up a lot of room and try and keep a few extra loaves of bread in there as well. Add to that the remains of a couple dozen half eaten meals, as well as a number of frosty mysteries. It’s not a pretty sight.

Martha Stewart would not be impressed.

My friend Barbara recently me sent this NY Times article by Mark Bittman that outlines precisely how to store foods in the freezer. Bittman makes some very good points, including this:

“The idea of freezing is to prolong the life of food that you’re going to eat, not to postpone discarding it.”

Few of us could claim to never have committed this offense. Jonathan Bloom of wastedfood.com calls the storage of food never to be eaten “delayed waste,” and I’m certainly guilty of it myself. Hopefully less so than in the past, but still far from perfect.

The article also outlines the best ways to freeze specific foods, which is very helpful.

Is your freezer a frozen wasteland? Please share your ideas, tips or confessions in the comments section below.

Katy Wolk-Stanley

“Use it up, wear it out, make it do or do without.”

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