Non-Consumer Mish-Mash

by Katy on July 14, 2009 · 9 comments

Wyoming

Sometimes I have things I want to share with my readers, but are not enough to stand alone as entire columns. This time has come again.

Which means . . . it’s mish-mash time!

Here’s terrific post from unclutterer that I think I might actually print out to put on my fridge for inspiration. (Although . . . having a bunch of crap magnetted to the fridge isn’t exactly an uncluttered look.)

The British soccer coach we’ve been hosting drove off to his new family today. I do worry that our frugal and simple living ways, (read — there were no restaurant meals or boating trips) were a bit dull for a 21-year-old guy looking for fun.

I did check out the British version of The Office from the library though, which was a massive hit. He and his soccer coaching lads stopped by on most days to watch  a few episodes.

I guess I should feel good that our spare bedroom is really quite nice, and unlike his host family bedroom in Wyoming does not include a cabinet full of machine guns!

I hosted a large family get together the other night for 11 people and went to “The Grocery Outlet” for the first time. Holy crap, was that place cheap! Very nice gourmet items like seven ounce rounds of double cream herb brie for $3.29 and big packs of prosciutto ham for not much more. I baked four loaves of french bread from The Frugal Girl’s recipe using half white whole wheat flour which worked out very well. I then assembled large artisan sandwiches and sliced them up and arranged them on Fiestaware platters. It was a huge hit and super cheap to boot!

Thanks Kristen!

I had somehow gotten down to possessing only two respectable non-stained/ non-ripped T-shirts in my wardrobe and had even visited Goodwill last week to replenish, and was only able to find one $4.99 shirt I could stand to buy.

However, my son and I came across a garage sale on Saturday where I found five perfectly acceptable T-shirts in my size, plus two dressy tops for 50 cents apiece! I am so happy to have this task behind me, and even returned the $4.99 Goodwill top today, as it still had it’s tags on.

It would be very hard to ever go back to shopping in regular stores again!

My savings account is growing by leaps and bounds, which is a delightful surprise to me. I put any found, unexpected or bonus cash straight into my credit union about once every week or two.

Today I put in a $50 check that I received in the mail over the weekend from my friend Julie. I had joined the union recently and put her name down as a referral. This apparently meant she was sent a $50 check, which she in turn sent to me. I also had $25 my mother slipped me in gratitude for not having to host the family get together at her house.

I explained to the teller how I was putting any extra cashola into savings, and he showed me a secret spot in the free coin counting machine where change often gets stuck. There was nothing there today, but I know I’ll never be able to resist a peek on subsequent trips.

J.D. Roth over at Get Rich Slowly writes about his Frugal Weekend, which is quite interesting. Make sure to read through the comments, as it’s half the fun!

Walking home from buying Fred Meyer bulk spices with my sister and 13-year-old this evening, I was on a fresh high from finding 11 cents on the ground:

Me: “Coin-Girl strikes again!”

Son: “If you’re Coin-Girl, then I’m Cash-Boy. I find cash in registers, all I need is a gun!”

Me: (To self) “Uh-oh, maybe he’s been to Wyoming!”

Katy Wolk-Stanley

“Use it up, wear it out, make it do or do without.”

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Do You Have the Right to Dry?

by Katy on July 12, 2009 · 13 comments

White House Clothesline

Alexander Lee who heads up Project Laundry List was featured in a CBS news segment about clotheslines and the politics that surround them.

Click here to watch the video, which is great!

Katy Wolk-Stanley

“Use it up, wear it out, make it do or do without.”

P.S. The above photo shows a circa 1909 White House which includes a clothesline. (To the right of the building?)

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Number Five

I had written a column titled What are Five Things? awhile back, and the comments were so fabulous and inspiring that it’s now time for part II!

The idea is to write five things that you have done lately to live your life in a Non-Consumer manner.

Here are my five things:

  1. I went to Goodwill the other evening to try and find some T-shirts. I am somehow down to just a few tops free of stains or rips, so this had become a truly necessary errand. I only found one I liked and bought it even though it was $4.99, which I consider to be a bit much for a used top. I brought it home without trying it on, which of course meant that it did not fit. (Grr . . .) However, I came across a garage sale while on my way to the library today and bought seven T-shirts and tank tops in my size for 50 cents apiece! I still have my Goodwill receipt and can return the non-fitting/expensive used shirt. Yay!
  2. I am on my second round of week-long hosting of a British soccer coach. This not only saves us money (we get half-off the cost of the soccer camp) but is a very enriching experience for the family. These young lads bring a bit of international flair into our lives without the jetlag and exhaustion of voyages abroad with children. Plus the English don’t think it’s weird to have their pants hanging on a clothesline for all the neighbors to see.
  3. The Multnomah County Summer Reading Program is in full swing, which means I am donating the services of my 11 and 13-year-old sons. The minimum age to volunteer is ten, so my older son is on his fourth year and is completely independent, although my 11-year-old still needs a hand. So he and I sit together two hours every other week signing people up and helping them choose reading prizes. The library staff is already kept very busy, so the volunteers are greatly appreciated.
  4. I continue on my genteel freegan lifestyle. I have brought home both a very sturdy metal garden bench and a watering wand in the past few days. I have been keeping a keen eye out for garden furniture for the backyard patio, as we’re in prime barbeque season. It can be used either as a small table or for seating, which is perfect as space is at a premium. The watering wand does spray water a bit, but I think it’s fixable. If not, I’ll just send it on its way to a new owner who might possess mystical fixing skills that I do not.
  5. I have been adding money bit-by-bit to our savings account. My entire paycheck is dedicated to household expenses and debt reduction. So any savings is completely put together from the money I’m able to scrounge from here and there. I just today received a check for $50 in the mail that was completely unexpected, and I will pop it into our savings account on Monday. It’s officially an emergency fund, but my eighth grader has a trip to Japan next Spring that will cost a pretty yen, so it may go towards that. Either way, it is our no-more-debt insurance.

Sooo . . . what are your five things? Please share your stories in the comments section below, and make sure to check back to read the other comments for ideas and inspiration. I know I will!

Katy Wolk-Stanley

“Use it up, wear it out, make it do or do without.”

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So Sleepy

by Katy on July 10, 2009 · 2 comments

I worked both yesterday and today then had eight people over for dinner, (plus us four!)

I am too tired to write anything, so nitey-nite.

Katy Wolk-Stanley

“Use it up, wear it out, make it do or do without.”

P.S. I found a penny on the floor at work today.

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The following is a guest post by Leo Babauta of Zen Habits, (thanks to his uncopywriting policy.) Enjoy!

Katy Wolk-Stanley

“Use it up, wear it out, make it do or do without.”

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Simplifying can sometimes be overwhelming. The amount of stuff you have in your life and the amount of things you have to do can be too big a mountain to tackle.

But you don’t have to simplify it all at once. Do one thing at a time, and take small steps. You’ll get there, and have fun doing it.

In fact, you can do little but important things today to start living the simple life.
I was criticized a few weeks ago when I published the Simple Living Manifesto: 72 Ideas to Simplify Your Life, because many people felt the list was too long. I heard this point, and this post is my response: just the 10 most important things.

And these are not 10 difficult things, but 10 simple things that you can do today. Not tomorrow, not next week, not next month. Today. Choose one and do it today. Tomorrow, choose another.

If you do these 10 things, you’ll have made great strides with little effort.

1. Make a short list. Take out a sheet of paper and fold it into a small square, perhaps 3×5 inches. Or take out an index card. Now make a short list of the 4-5 most important things in your life. What’s most important to you? What do you value most? What 4-5 things do you most want to do in your life? Simplifying starts with these priorities, as you are trying to make room in your life so you have more time for these things.

2. Drop 1 commitment. Think about all the things in your life that you’re committed to doing, and try to find one that you dread doing. Something that takes up time but doesn’t give you much value. Perhaps you’re on a team, or coaching something, or on a board or committee, or whatever. Something that you do each day or week or month that you don’t really want to do. Now take action today to drop that commitment. Call someone, send an email, telling the appropriate person or people that you just don’t have the time. You will feel relief. I’d recommend dropping all commitments that don’t contribute to your short list (from Item #1), but for today, just drop 1 commitment.

3. Purge a drawer. Or a shelf, or a countertop, or a corner of a room. Not an entire room or even an entire closet. Just one small area. You can use that small area as your base of simplicity, and then expand from there. Here’s how to purge: 1) empty everything from the drawer or shelf or corner into a pile. 2) From this pile, pick out only the most important things, the stuff you use and love. 3) Get rid of the rest. Right now. Trash it, or put it in your car to give away or donate. 4) Put the stuff you love and use back, in a neat and orderly manner.

4. Set limits. Read Haiku Productivity for more. Basically, you set limits for things you do regularly: email, RSS posts, tasks, feeds, items in your life, etc. And try to stick with the limits. Today, all you have to do is set limits for a few things in your life. Tomorrow, try to stick with them.

5. Simplify your to-do list. Take a look at your to-do list. If it’s more than 10 items long, you can probably simplify it a bit. Try to find at least a few items that can be eliminated, delegated, automated, outsourced, or ignored. Shorten the list. This is a good habit to do once a week.

6. Free up time. Simplifying your life in general is a way to free up time to do the stuff you want to do. Unfortunately, it can be hard to find time to even think about how to simplify your life. If that’s the case, free up at least 30 minutes a day for thinking about simplifying. Or alternatively, free up a weekend and think about it then. How can you free up 30 minutes a day? Just a few ideas: wake earlier, watch less TV, eat lunch at your desk, take a walk for lunch, disconnect from the Internet, do email only once today, shut off your phones, do 1 less thing each day.

7. Clear your desk. I can personally attest to the amazing feeling that a clean desk can give you. It’s such a simple thing to do, and yet it does so much for you. If your desk is covered with papers and notes and gadgets and office supplies, you might not be able to get this done today. But here are the basic steps: 1) Clear everything off your desk and put it in a pile (either in your inbox or on the floor). 2) Process the pile from top to bottom, one item at a time. Do not defer decisions on any item — deal with them immediately and quickly. 3) For each item, either file it immediately, route it to someone else, trash it, or note it on your to-do list (and put it in an “action” folder). If it’s a gadget or office supply, find a place for it in your desk drawers (or get rid of it). 4) Repeat until your pile is empty and your desk is clear. Be sure to get rid of any knick knacks. Your desk should have your computer, your inbox, perhaps a notepad, and maybe a family photo (but not many). Ahh, a clear desk! 5) From now on, put everything in your inbox, and at least once a day, process it in the same way as above.

8. Clear out your email inbox. This has the same psychological effect as a clear desk. Is your email inbox always full of read and unread messages? That’s because you’re delaying decisions on your emails. If you have 50, let’s say, or fewer emails in your inbox, you can process them all today. If you have hundreds, you should put them in a temporary folder and get to them one chunk at a time (do 20 per day or something). Here’s how you process your inbox to empty — including emails already in your inbox, and all future incoming emails: 1) process them top to bottom, one at a time, deciding and disposing of each one immediately. 2) Your choices are to delete, archive, respond immediately (and archive or delete), forward (and archive or delete), or mark it with a star (or something like that) and note it on your to-do list to respond to later (and archive). 3) Process each email like that until the inbox is empty. 4) Each time you check your email, process to empty. Ahh, an empty inbox!

9. Move slower. We rush through the day, from one task to another, from one appointment to another, until we collapse on the couch, exhausted, at the end of the day. Instead, simplify your life by doing less (see Items 1, 4 and 5) and doing them more slowly. Eat slowerdrive slower, walk slower, shower slower, work slower. Be more deliberate. Be present. This isn’t something you’re going to master today, but you can start practicing today.

10. Single-task. Instead of multi-tasking, do one thing at a time. Remove all distractions, resist any urge to check email or do some other habitual task like that while you’re doing the task at hand. Stick to that one task, until you’re done. It’ll make a huge difference in both your stress level and your productivity.

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When "Waste Not" Goes Too Far

by Katy on July 8, 2009 · 12 comments

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The Museum of Modern Art  is currently featuring an installation by artist Song Dong who meticulously laid out a lifetime of his mother’s hoarded possessions. These are not meaningful family heirlooms, but are squeezed out toothpaste tubes, worn out shoes and the like.

Apartment Therapy’s website described it as such:

The new installation on the main floor of the Museum of Modern Art is a public viewing of a hoarder’s life-long collection. Chinese artist Song Dong organized and displayed every item from his mother’s home, including numerous television sets, toothpaste tubes, plastic bottles, cardboard boxes, and shoes. Song Dong’s mother accumulated these items over fifty years — it was a common practice during in China when people lived the concept “waste not” (wu jin qi yong). The installation feeds our hoarder-fascination and explores cultural reasons for extreme collecting…

The impression of it all is very striking. This woman obviously had a huge problem letting go of her possessions, and one can only imagine how crowded and limiting her living conditions must have been.

I too adhere to a to a waste not philosophy, but am usually able to let go of possessions that have neither use nor meaning to me. It is part of a creative mindset to see potential in objects that others might see as garbage, and I consciously fight this inclination in myself.

Hoarding, whether it be squeezed out tubes of toothpaste, lamps or old newspaper is a serious problem that goes beyond housekeeping. Filling one’s home with excessive stuff is not only a deterrent to being able to have people over, (which then cuts down on a supportive network) but can also be a health hazard due to everything from tripping to rodentia to toxic molds.

Thank you to Fabulously Broke in the City for the info on the MOMA show.

Resources for hoarders (and those who love them) include:

Flylady.net

Buried in Treasures: Help for Compulsive Acquiring, Saving and Collecting, by David F. Tolin.

It’s All Too Much: An Easy Plan for Living a Richer Life with Less Stuff, by Peter Walsh.

Clear Your Clutter with Feng Shui, by Karen Kingston.

Has your life been affected by hoarding? Please share your thoughts in the comments section below.

Katy Wolk-Stanley

“Use it up, wear it out, make it do or do without.”

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Ravings for Savings

by Katy on July 8, 2009 · 13 comments

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I am an odd mixture. I feel that the pursuit of money for the sake of becoming rich is an empty goal, yet I’m also bizarrely focused on finding bits of money to stash in my savings account.

But such is the philosophy of any red-blooded Coin-Girl.

What’s my goal with my savings account? Supposedly, it’s to have an emergency/rainy day fund in the style of a Dave Ramsey enthusiast. Really though, I just think it’s cool to have a lot of money in the bank. I was like this as a kid, (I had over $3000 in the bank when I graduated from high school, and those were the days of $1 per hour babysitting) and I’m like this at age 41.

Yes, reading Dave Ramsey’s writings has plumped up my savings account faster than a Hollywood starlet’s lips. But really, I was just looking for an excuse that it was okay to have a savings account despite some money-pit-of-a-house related debt.

Logically, I should pick up extra shifts at work, as this would be the fastest way to destroy all debt while building substantial savings. But working more than part-time makes me miss my kids too much, and has the added bonus of burning me out on my somewhat high stress job as a labor and delivery nurse.

The way that I’m able to rationalize putting money aside when that action actually defers debt repayment, is to only put found, scrounged and unexpected money into my savings account.

My paycheck goes toward household expenses and anything extra goes straight into savings.

And it’s amazing how this simple mental trick has opened up my mind to finding small bits of money that really add up.

A garage sale kick started the savings, and I’ve subsequently been able to add significantly more by scrounging change from the Coinstar machines, selling some odds and ends in consignment shops and foisting a few items into a neighbor’s garage sale.

It may take me longer than necessary to get all debt paid off this way, but I know I’ve got that something extra put aside for a rainy day.

Do you put money into savings despite having debt? Please share your thoughts in the comments section below.

Katy Wolk-Stanley

“Use it up, wear it out, make it do or do without.”

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My Non-Consumer Lifestyle

by Katy on July 7, 2009 · 10 comments

Sometimes I wonder if there’s any separation between regular Katy and Non-Consumer Katy.

Is there anything I do that is unrelated to my Non-Consumer lifestyle?

My days off are spent cooking from scratch, hanging laundry, finding free or cheap entertainment, playing with my kids, puttering in my garden of free plants and partaking of the fine materials from the library.

Today I:

  • Took my 13-year-old son to soccer day camp. I packed his lunch in a non-plastic stainless steel tiffin container.
  • Pruned the maple tree in my parking strip, which is so dense and low as to make it hard to pass by on a wet day. The loppers were borrowed from a neighbor.
  • Received a thyme start from a neighbor as a thank you for letting her dig up some of my Bishop’s Weed.
  • Hung laundry on the line.
  • I went to go pick berries with my 11-year-old son on Sauvie’s Island. We were under a time constraint and ended up buying a whole pre-picked flat of raspberries and a half-flat of blueberries. This was expensive at $47, but the time spent picking berries with my son was priceless.
  • Stopped at the grocery store for limes, flour, an avocado and strawberries. I brought my own bags and found $2.50 in the Coinstar machine as well as a penny on the ground.
  • Tried to fix my vacuum cleaner and borrowed one from the neighbors instead.
  • Picked up my son at soccer camp. I also brought home the British coach who we’ll be hosting for the week. Not only do we get a nice chunk off the camp fee, but we get to meet another great person.
  • Marinated chicken to barbeque, made two raspberry-blueberry pies from scratch, and popped popcorn on the stovetop.
  • Set up an outdoor eating area on the brick patio. Used an old Goodwill tablecloth and my new Crate and Barrel creme damask cloth napkins that I bought brand-new at the Seattle Goodwill for 25 cents apiece. The silver wear was from a stuff swap that I attended a few months back.
  • Ate dinner.
  • Invited neighbors over for pie as a thank you for feeding the cats and watering the plants while we were in Seattle.
  • Gave my neighbor a bundle of scallions as my husband bought more than we can eat.
  • Hung a freshly washed throw blanket and my son’s soccer socks on the clothesline.
  • Picked up my 11-year-old’s friend for a sleepover.
  • Took the British soccer coach on a whirlwind tour of Portland as can only be seen from the interior of a mini-van.
  • Watched an episode of the English version of The Office with the soccer coach. This, of course was a library copy.
  • Finished up the dinner dishes and cleaned the kitchen floor with a garbage picked mop.
  • Wrote my blog.

There was nothing I did simply because it was cheap or sustainable, yet most everything slanted in that direction. I did spend a lot of money on berries, but they’re healthy and we can afford it.

When I get interviewed, journalists always want to know how much do I save by living a Non-Consumer lifestyle? This question is so hard to answer, because I am unsure who to compare myself to. Should I compare myself to someone who pays full price for camp, rents movies, eats in restaurants, ignores free mops, is afraid to borrow from neighbors and doesn’t compulsively check the Coinstar machine? Or perhaps I should compare myself to an Upper East Side lady who lunches?

Either way, there really can’t be a proper comparison, because the choices of how I live my life are too ingrained to separate. Because Non-Consumer Katy is the same as regular Katy.

Katy Wolk-Stanley

“Use it up, wear it out, make it do or do without.”

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Back to School Clothes — Why?

by Katy on July 5, 2009 · 22 comments

The following is a reprint of a previously published post from last Summer. Enjoy!

-Katy

Is the stress of back-to-school clothes shopping getting to you?

I ask this one question:

Do you buy all your clothes for the year in one fell swoop?

No, of course not. You buy your clothes one piece at a time when you come across something you like.

So why should kids get a whole bunch of brand-new clothes for the first day of school deadline?

It makes no sense.

Americans are expected to spend an average of $231.80 per child for back-to-school clothing and accessories for the 2008 school year. With many spending much, much more.

I buy clothes for my 11 and 13-year-old sons all year long. That way I’m able to pick up great deals at the thrift shops, when I come across them. (I am part of The Compact, and only buy used.) If I were to try and put together an complete wardrobe of clothes at one time, it would be impossible.

Because I’m constantly keeping an eye out for their clothes, I’m able to be very picky and choose only like-new, high quality stuff. For pennies on the dollar.

I don’t think having sons changes the issue, if anything it makes it more difficult. Used boy clothes are often beat to death, plus my 13-year-old has cultivated a very distinct style. (Rocker dude.)

So don’t let Madison Avenue convince you that it’s necessary to blow hundreds of dollars on back-to-school clothes.

Buy all year ’round and you’ll be better off.

Want to add your two cents on the back-to-school clothing issue? Add it in the comments section below.

Katy Wolk-Stanley

“Use it up, wear it out, make it do or do without.”

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Hello From Seattle

by Katy on July 4, 2009 · 5 comments

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I am currently on a mini four day vacation in Seattle visiting with my sister and her family. And like life it’s been somewhat imperfect, yet still fun.

We decided we would rent canoes over at the University of Washington, but it turns out we were not the only ones to come up with this fabulous idea. The harried looking canoe-checker-outer woman informed us that it would be at least a two hour wait.

Yeah . . . that wouldn’t probably be a good idea to sit in the hot sun for hours with four progressively cranky kids. So we walked the twenty minutes back to my sister’s house to regroup and come up with a new plan.

My brother-in-law Dmitry has a small sailboat, so we bullied him into taking us out onto Lake Washington despite his insistence that there wasn’t enough wind. And you know what? There wasn’t enough wind.

So we took the boat back into dock and I bought popsicles for a number of cranky people, both large and small.

But the day was not a total bust. We stopped at the Medrona Farmer’s market on the way home and bought a couple pounds of cherries and enjoyed a nice long (shady) walk in the Arboretum.

Dinner was a barbeque of yummy sausages enjoyed with the company of my old college chum Ed.

Tomorrow will hopefully not be so thwarted, but I’m not worried. My sister and I plan on waking early and sneaking out to Goodwill before everyone is up. (The child-free aspect of this journey will greatly increase the enjoyment.)

But no freaking way am I even going to entertain the thought of getting in a boat. That, I believe is cursed.

Katy Wolk-Stanley

“Use it up, wear it out, make it do or do without.”

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