Now is Not "The Worst Hard Times"

by Katy on May 27, 2009 · 8 comments

The following is a reprint of a previously published blog. Enjoy!

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Times are hard now. There’s no debating this fact.

As an RN, my job is pretty much recession proof. But that doesn’t mean that my retirement is doing better than anyone else’s. Or that food prices aren’t shockingly high.

We are in a recession, and the media keeps making comparisons to the great depression of the 1930’s.

But there’s one big difference between now and 80 years ago — the great dust bowl.

The great dust bowl of the American west will forever be entwined with the abject poverty of the depression. The mile high dirt filled clouds that swept through towns and country, demolishing both crops and dreams.

I’m currently reading an excellent book called, “The Worst Hard Time: The Untold Story of Those Who Survived the Great American Dust Bowl,” by Timothy Egan.

This gripping book follows the stories of a few families through the homesteading of Texas and Oklahoma in the early 20th century through the dust bowl. Before this, my knowledge of this disastrous time in America’s history was pretty much limited to a single high school reading of “The Grapes of Wrath.”

Trolling through the internet, I found the wonderful Dust Bowl Oral History Project out of Ford county, Kansas. Transcribed interviews with people who had lived through these times proved fascinating and riveting.

Tales of never ending grit and dirt that frustrated women fighting a daily losing battle against the dusters. The impossible goal to keep a clean house, despite the dust that seeped through every available crack. Memories of how they would cut worn-out sheets down the middle to transform the center into the outer part. Stories of dried out crops buried in sand and blowing silt. Death by “dust pneumonia.”

In answer to the question about “the greatest lesson learned” from the great depression, one woman answered:

“I learned how to do things, how to make things work, how to use things, how to appreciate things. Don’t throw anything away. I think, I had to know how to do things, know how to cope.”

The stories are heartbreaking, yet inspiring.

So I will not let myself compare our current economic crisis to the great depression.

I’ve got a good job, ability to live well on very little money, and fresh air to breathe.

Have you grown up hearing stories of how your parents or grandparents survived the great depression? Tell us about it in the comments section below.

Katy Wolk-Stanley

“Use it up, wear it out, make it do or do without.”

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Dearest Laura,

I know it’s been a few years since we were together last, but I have one thought I need to share with you:

I adore you, heart and soul!

From your early childhood in The Big Woods, to your First Four Years of marriage with Almanzo, I was there with you. Absorbing every word, every nuance, every lesson. When your family almost didn’t survive The Long Winter, I bundled up under the covers and ate warm buttered toast while absorbing every crumb.

When the Little House on the Prairie television show began in the 1970’s, I thought it was blasphemy. How could they sugar coat your childhood? I had seen the lean and hungry looking photos of you and your family, and they looked nothing like the apple cheeked actors cast for the show! Did they not look at Garth Williams’ beautiful illustrations that properly conveyed the hollow cheeks of your Pa?

When I took a From the Saloon to the Salon, Women’s Western Writing course in college, I was drawn to research your writing from an adult perspective. I read that your books were heavily edited by your daughter Rose, and that much of the message of the series was that of self-reliance. An elaborate argument against Roosevelt’s New Deal.

What?

How could that be? My beloved stories had a political undertone?

I chose not to read them in that manner.

Laura, I give your books a re-read every five years or so. And I feel special, pioneer-y, and lucky.

And if you’re looking for me, I’ll be snuggled under a quilt, reading The Long Winter and eating slice-after-slice of warm buttered toast.

Katy Wolk-Stanley

“Use it up, wear it out, make it do or do without.”

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The following is a guest post from Alison Wiley of diamond-cut life.org. Enjoy!

Katy Wolk-Stanley

“Use it up, wear it out, make it do or do without.”

Gasoline

The way we drive has a huge impact on what we spend on gas. The cool thing about saving money on gas by using less of it, from the perspective of the diamond-cut life, is that we reduce our carbon emissions at the same time. And all of us would prefer to subsidize our own bank accounts rather than the profits of oil companies.

Drive slower and smoother. A gentle right foot when driving around town can cut fuel consumption by 27-35%, according to Edmunds.com. This can mean getting 31 mpg instead of 22 mpg. Specific examples: accelerating slowly from green lights and decelerating slowly when approaching red lights. The smoother a car’s overall motion, the more gas money we save. The more herky-jerky the motion, with faster starts and stops, the more gas money we are throwing away.

Carpool. When I carpooled to work with five others, we each spent fifty cents per gallon of gas by dint of taking turns driving (based on current gas price of $2.48/gallon). Now that I’m in a vanpool, I’m also extending the life of my vehicle by driving it so little.

Streamline your vehicle. The aim is minimal wind resistance. Keep the windows and sunroof closed, especially at higher speeds. An engineer I know told me he gets 5-7 more miles per gallon when he takes the rack off the top of his Subaru Outback. “It’s the wind resistance, much more than the weight,” he reports.

Use your body for short trips: bike or walk. This is easiest and the most fun in nice weather. Treat most destinations close to you, whether groceries, social opportunities, dry-cleaning or restaurants, as your top picks. Even if they charge a bit more, using no gas to get there may make it the cheaper choice overall. To get a sense of how walkable your neighborhood is, use this “Walk-score ” website.

Use cruise control on the highway. The single, consistent speed can improve mileage by almost 14%. It’s easy to forget to use cruise control, if I am any example; I should put a post-it reminder on the dashboard.

Pick up the phone. The humble telephone is a powerful money-saving device. Does the Home Depot across town actually still have that item you want in stock, or are you just hoping it does? It takes a few minutes to call and ask them to check for you — but it takes much longer, plus several dollars in gas, to drive over and check yourself.

Try using public transit. In many cases, the fare is less than you’d pay for gas. If you like to read, work or knit while riding, you can come out ahead overall in time-use. In congested areas where parking is difficult, transit may be faster than driving alone.

Reconsider the air conditioning. Using it reduces fuel economy by 10-20%. However, that applies to in-town driving. At highway speeds it’s more cost-efficient to roll the windows up and use the a/c, due to the lowered wind resistance of being more streamlined.

Turn off the engine rather than idle for 20 seconds or more. I’m amazed by people leaving their engines on, burning precious gas, while waiting four minutes for a bridge here in Portland to let a ship through. Also, don’t “warm up” your vehicle for more than 20 seconds. It’s a myth that modern engines get any benefit from this.

Find places for privacy and solitude other than your car. Many people unknowingly use their cars for needs that have nothing to do with transportation. The needs are legitimate and human; using cars and gas to meet them is costly both to the person and our shared planet. Nature, libraries and a designated room in one’s home can be good places for privacy and solitude.

Make only right turns. Doing trips this way takes some forethought, but again, our gas-tanks literally pay us for using our brains. (I must modestly admit I had figured this trick out many years before UPS did :).

Build your collateral in things other than your car. Cars (unless they are hybrids, apparently) depreciate rapidly in value. Spending money on a car’s appearance, performance or accessories may not be in your best interest as much as if you were to invest in your relationships, education, character, spiritual life, home, garden, investing skills, etc.

Keep your tires properly inflated and your engine tuned. These practices improve your mileage by 3% and 4% respectively, according to fueleconomy.gov.

Declutter your vehicle. Less weight means less gas used to haul it around. I finally took our winter chains out of our trunk last Friday. (I left the first-aid kit and gallon of emergency water in, though.)

Photo courtesy of Sonny Side Up

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Garage Sales, Here I Come!

by Katy on May 24, 2009 · 10 comments

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I love garage sales. I love rummaging through other people’s trash to find myself a treasure or two. It’s addictive fun, pure and simple.

But I’ve been very disciplined about staying away from said garage sales because my house verges on the uncomfortably cluttered. 

I drove over to Trader Joe’s today to stock up on vacation style eats, (we’re currently enjoying a staycation) and could not resist the siren’s song of the multiple garage sales.

I roused the kids and packed their whiney selves into the minivan. 

“But mom, everything at garage sales is just old clocks or lamps!”

This is not actually a deterrent as I love old clocks and lamps. This had the opposite effect of making me even more excited for the thrill of the hunt.

The first garage sale didn’t look too promising, although I did spy a huge sage plant in a big, thick terra cotter planter priced at $3. There was also a sign up that the woman would dig raspberries, black eyed susan and shasta daisies from her garden for $2 per square foot. (An ingenious idea.) I already have raspberries, and hardly need more flowers, so I offered her $2 for the sage plant and made my way back to the car, treasure in hand.

The second garage sale yielded nothing I could live without, so I loaded the boys back into the car and continued on.

The third garage sale had a large pile of really nice carpet samples. I bought one in an oriental pattern that very much matches our colors and style for $2 to use as a welcome mat. I also picked up a handmade cribbage board for $1 that will make a nice gift when paired with a deck of cards.

The fourth garage sale offered up pair of new looking $1 Ann Taylor Loft sunglasses with case, that are so sharp they almost correct my vision. I also bought an 50 cent ornate scrolled metal and crystal drop candle stand for my neighbor Nancy to use as a plant stand. It completely matches a few other pieces she has on her patio.

At this point the kids were getting super cranky and whining to go home.

Luckily, the fifth (and last) garage sale had some really nice brand new looking men’s short sleeve Docker’s brand shirts for 50 cents apiece. I bought one for my husband and one for my thirteen-year-old, who was suddenly a whole lot less negative about garage sale-ing. 

In total:

  • $2 sage plant with thick terra cotta Italian planter
  • $2 oriental carpet sample
  • $1 cribbage board
  • $1 designer sunglasses
  • .50 plant stand
  • $1 for two men’s shirts

$7.50 was spent, which I consider a bargain for an afternoon of entertainment.

With the exception of the cribbage board, (which was a soft call) I feel great about all these purchases. I was hoping to come across a small patio set, but I’m patient and can wait until the right one comes my way.

I feel all the more excited about my garage sale for next weekend.

I just hope it doesn’t rain.

Have you been to garage sales this Memorial Day weekend? Or maybe you’ve been holding your own sale? Please share your thoughts in the comments section below.

Katy Wolk-Stanley

“Use it up, wear it out, make it do or do without.”

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A Fabulous Blog to Check Out

by Katy on May 23, 2009 · 4 comments

Fellow compacter Angela Barton, over at myyearwithoutspending has put together an impressive blog that bears checking out. 

I just spent a few minutes catching up, and want to make sure others are aware of this inspiring resource. 

My favorite piece? The Thrifty Threads series “where readers model their favorite secondhand clothes.”  Why didn’t I think of that?

Enjoy!

Katy Wolk-Stanley

“Use it up, wear it out, make it do or do without.”

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When Frugality is Not Enough

by Katy on May 22, 2009 · 17 comments

Money

I am the Jedi-master of frugality. I only buy used, cook from scratch, find free or almost free entertainment and even give home haircuts.

But spending wisely is only half the equation, the other half being income.

Sometimes you need to make more money. This might be because you are saving up for something special, paying down debt or simply don’t make enough money. Whatever the reason, there are a number of ways to increase your income.

The traditional method of asking for a raise is less likely to succeed in today’s economy, but it still might be worth a try. People I’ve talked to are getting creative about bringing in more income without the commitment of a second job. Garage sales, selling on eBay or Amazon; hawking of crafts, and even taking the census takers’ test.

There are many opportunities for supplementing your income, even in today’s challenging times..

I am guilty of not earning as much money as I should. There is a labor and delivery nurse certification test I should take. If passed, it would earn me an extra $1.25 per hour. However, the test (last time I checked) costs $350 to take, and the hospital where I work will only refund the money if you pass it. I’m pretty confident I could pass the test, but have been lazy about making it happen. I shudder to think how much income I’ve missed out on in the the last 14 years that I’ve been in my job.

I am also in the midst of organizing a garage sale for next weekend. A few items will solely get craigslisted, and my goal is to bring in $1000. (Another hope is simply to get rid of all the stuff in the house that clutters our lives, but that’s another column.)

Which brings me to the question — What are you doing for extra money? Are you walking dogs, babysitting or selling your excess belongings?

Please share your money making ideas in the comments section below.

Katy Wolk-Stanley

“Use it up, wear it out, make it do or do without.”

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The following is a reprint of a previously published column. Enjoy!

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Exotic foreign vacation, close-by camping, obligatory family visits?

It may sound a tad early, but now is the time to start thinking about your summer plans. 

Whether you do an elaborate vacation or something simpler, the key to frugal, well organized summer trips is to plan ahead.

My family’s “exotic” family vacation last year was to housesit for my sister who lives up in Seattle, while her family took a week-long Alaskan cruise. We had a free place to stay, separate bedrooms, toys for the kids and most importantly, a Seattle library card. What more can a girl want?

Because I knew ahead of time that my sister’s place would be available, I didn’t plan any other vacations. Had her plans been last minute, then we probably wouldn’t have been able to take a week off to goof around in Seattle.

This year’s vacation will probably be about as frugal-minded, as our current income is somewhat miniscule due to my husband’s career change. (It will increase significantly after he finishes his first year.)  However, this doesn’t mean we won’t be able to pull together a respectable vacation.

They key to a budget minded vacation is to either fly somewhere you can stay for free, or not go too far and stay somewhere cheap.

Our ace-in-the-hole is that our friends own a three bedroom cabin on the Oregon coast that rents out for $65 per night. It’s a bit grotty, but I’ve learned to live with that. I also have a unique situation. My mother runs three smallguest cottages in town that she rents out fully furnished, with towels, dishes, fancy cable, etc. We’ve been known to spend a few nights stay-cation-ing in them. The upside is that they’re free and it’s nice to get away from the responsibilities of one’s own home. The downside is that the houses are only a few miles away from said home.

For those who don’t have mothers who rent out vacation cottages, (that, I imagine would be most everyone except my sister) I’ve heard of people who do house swaps. There are certainly official house swap sites likehomeexchange.com. but it doesn’t have to be so formal. Maybe you and a friend can coordinate vacations to stay in one another’s houses.

The classic budget friendly vacation for many people is camping. If you already have the equipment, or have access to some that can be borrowed, then camping is a great option. (I camped once since becoming a parent, and it made me cry hysterically. It’s not my thing.)

I’m kind of crushing on The Great Wolf Lodge, (a swim resort) that is dab-smack halfway between Seattle and Portland. It’s not cheap, but I could split a room with my sister, and I might be able to rationalize how close it is to Portland as free ticket to spend a bit. (Or . . . maybe they want to comp The Non-Consumer Advocate and family in exchange for a bit of publicity?)

Are you starting to make your summer plans? Will this year’s vacation be a scaled back version? Please share you summer vacation plans in the comments section below.

Katy Wolk-Stanley

“Use it up, wear it out, make it do or do without.”

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Sneakers

Here is a question posed by Mary on The Non-Consumer Advocate Facebook group:

Hello I am new to the group, my question, how do you not feel guilty when you do buy something? Sound silly, but I have been needing new sneakers, I have been putting off buying, but I need them does that constitute consumerism?

Mary, 

I hope I haven’t given the impression that I advocate a complete cessation of all purchasing, both necessary and otherwise.

Shoes are a necessity, and I’m a firm believer in high quality shoes. Poor quality shoes not only fall apart, but cause foot pain and don’t breathe well. 

If you “need” a new pair of sneakers, then by all means buy yourself a pair. Yes, it’s consumerism; but unless you’re going to live in the woods wearing a suit made from bark and leaves, there will be some consumerism in every life.

There should be no guilt involved in buying shoes. Shoes are important. A good pair of sneakers will encourage you to be more active, thus encouraging a healthy lifestyle.

If the issue is that you feel you can’t afford the shoes, then find some other area to cut back. Use the library, cook from scratch, bring your own work lunches, but please — buy yourself the shoes you need.

Tell them that Katy sent you.

What advice do you have for Mary? Do you experience guilt when making purchases, even those that others consider necessary? Please share your thoughts in the comments section below.

Katy Wolk-Stanley

“Use it up, wear it out, make it do or do without.”

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Enjoy my favorite vintage Sesame Street video about “The Alligator King” who was a bargain shopper and Non-Consumer back in the day.

The seventh alligator wins the crown not with rubies or diamonds, but by giving his dad a helping hand. Although personally, I feel the fourth son got shafted.

Katy Wolk-Stanley

“Use it up, wear it out, make it do or do without.”

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When Craft and Income Combine

by Katy on May 17, 2009 · 19 comments

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I am an island of uncrafty surrounded by a sea of talented and artistic women. My sister Jessica can’t sit still without knitting or crochet hooks, a malady shared by many of my friends. 

Me?

I know how to knit, crochet, sew and embroider; but it’s no compulsion for me.

I was at a family gathering this evening, and my sister and cousin were ooh-ing and ahh-ing over a pair of hand-knit felted baby slippers. Cousin Christa mentioned her Esty store where she sells her gorgeous handmade jewelry, and my sister started talking about a neighborhood art sale where she had marketed her fuzzy crocheted creatures.

Jessica Wolk-StanleyBoth women were also talking about how they rarely have to buy presents, as they have a convenient stash of homemade goodies ripe for gift giving. 

This got me thinking.

Americans are doing more and more hand crafting, and this is at a time when it’s easier than ever to sell one’s goods to the world at large. Etsy, “Your place to buy & sell all things handmade” is a fantastic resource for the home crafter/artist.

Which brings me to:

Are you doing more sewing, knitting and crafting in general? If so, are you selling on Etsy or some other site? Please share your wares and links in the comments section below. Because if we are buying gifts, let’s buy them from each other.

Katy Wolk-Stanley

“Use it up, wear it out, make it do or do without.”

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