Tony Wolk

by Katy on October 22, 2025 · 30 comments

 

You may have noticed that my blogging has been a bit sporadic lately and it’s because my father has been very ill, especially over the past few months. He passed away over the weekend and we’re all so tremendously sad. 

There’s so much that I could say, but I don’t have it in me to write up a post that could do him justice. 

Instead I’ll leave this video from 2011 for you to get a glimpse of who I grew up with. 

I’ll be back to regular blogging in time, but there’ll be a few days here and there without new content.

Katy Wolk-Stanley 

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Michelle October 22, 2025 at 3:08 am

My deepest sympathies to you and your family. I’m very sorry for your loss, Katy.

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Jeana October 22, 2025 at 3:26 am

I’m so sorry for your loss. Holding your family in love during this hard time.

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Melissa N October 22, 2025 at 3:28 am

My condolences to you and your family at this time. My dad passed in 1976 (I was 12), one of my sisters in 2007 (I was 43), and my mom in 2010 (I was 46). No matter how young or old you are, it isn’t easy. I’ve thought about my dad more this year as I am now the age he was when he passed (61). The years go ny anf, even years later, something can occur that triggers a memory that can either make you feel good, or sad. With my dad, I didn’t really experience the “bad” feelings until I got married and he wasn’t there to walk me down the aisle. My sister that was married got married at the JP and our parents weren’t even invited. Then, again, when I gave birth to my daughter – my parents’ only biological grandchild.

Fortunately, the good memories, the funny memories, outweigh the bad. Hold on to those. People say it gets better with time…it doesn’t, at least in my experience.

Take all the time you need to grieve…we’ll still be here, patiently waiting, until you return.

With deepest sympathy…

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Cherie Moore October 22, 2025 at 3:36 am

My heart goes out to you and your family.

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Tracy October 22, 2025 at 3:44 am

I am so sorry for your loss.

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Linda M October 22, 2025 at 3:44 am

My sincere sympathy! Prayers for comfort! You’ve sure had lots to deal with if late. Hugs ❤️

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Dianne October 22, 2025 at 3:45 am

Katy, praying for you and your family. Cherish the memories you have of your father.

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K D October 22, 2025 at 3:52 am

Katy,

I am so sorry for your loss. I watched the video and your father was an amazing man.

I am glad you had him in your life and sad for you.

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Audry October 22, 2025 at 4:01 am

I’m so sorry. Losing a parent is so hard. Many prayers for you and your family.

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Mar October 22, 2025 at 4:02 am

I am so sorry for your loss.

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Karen A. October 22, 2025 at 4:04 am

Katy, may his memory be eternal. How blessed he was to have you in his life.

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AZ Lynn October 22, 2025 at 4:04 am

Prayers that your precious memories outnumber your moments of sorrow. What a gift your friends and family have in the video. You can still see him, hear his voice, and listen to his thoughts. Your father really is a legend, and passes on an incredíble legacy. God bless during this time of grief and healing. <3

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VE in MN October 22, 2025 at 4:35 am

Wishing you love and comfort at this sad time.

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Barbara October 22, 2025 at 4:36 am

Thank you for sharing the video. Your Dad was amazing – gentle, funny, smart and kind. What beautiful gifts he shared with the world. Sending you and your family love and peace.

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Beth October 22, 2025 at 4:44 am

I am so sorry for your loss. The video is wonderful. Take your time with your family.

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Jane October 22, 2025 at 5:01 am

Oh Katy, so sorry for you and your family. Your Dad sounds like a great guy.
That video shows that he’ll be missed by many.

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A. Marie October 22, 2025 at 5:07 am

Katy, I add my sympathy for you and your family to everyone else’s. You’ve often mentioned over the years what a special man your father was, and I know what a hole his passing must have left in your life. May his memory be for a blessing, always. And take as much time away from the blog as you need to. We all understand, I’m sure.

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Jean C October 22, 2025 at 5:09 am

I am so sorry for your loss. I often wondered about what remarkable and wise parents you had that helped shape you into the remarkable and wise person you are. I watched the video and could see a glimpse of that. Thank you for sharing.

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Katy @ Practical Walk October 22, 2025 at 5:29 am

I’m so sorry for your loss.

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Ringo October 22, 2025 at 5:32 am

May his memory be a blessing for you and your loved ones.

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Kathy October 22, 2025 at 5:43 am

Sending healing thoughts and prayers

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kris October 22, 2025 at 5:45 am

I’m so so sorry Katy! It’s very tough losing our daddy, no matter our age. Sending peace and comfort your way.

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GK October 22, 2025 at 5:48 am

Heartfelt condolences to you all.

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Jill A October 22, 2025 at 5:50 am

I’m so sorry. He sounds like a wonderful man and from your past comments a great father.

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gina October 22, 2025 at 5:51 am

Katy,

I’m very sorry you lost your father. May memories of him carry you through the days forward. Praying for peace for you and your family.

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Cindi October 22, 2025 at 5:54 am

I am so sorry to learn of your loss. Gentle virtual hugs and much sympathy to you.

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Fru-gal Lisa October 22, 2025 at 6:07 am

Katy and family,
I am so sorry for your loss. Sending you a great big hug.
May his memory be a blessing to you all.

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Hawaii Planner October 22, 2025 at 6:08 am

I’m so very sorry for your loss. Sending good thoughts to you & your family.

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Diane October 22, 2025 at 6:08 am

I am sorry for your loss. The video shows him to be thoughtful, kind, & gentle. Sending peace & comfort

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Joanie Ruppel October 22, 2025 at 6:12 am

May your father’s memory be eternal! When you can, I know your words will be beautiful. In the meantime, I watched the video on your blog and the short glimpse did provide quite the view into your dad and his values.

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