The Non-Consumer Advocate

1. My neighbor returned from her family’s NYC trip, so I walked her mail and packages back to her house. She shared that her plan is to make us some kind of frozen dessert, which is A-okay in my book! I’m happy that her thank you gift is something consumable, rather than a “thing” that I would have to either A) hold onto, or B) feel guilty about giving away.

2. Last night’s dinner was a big ol’ green salad that incorporated leftover garbanzo beans, the last of some mozarella pearls, a tiny avocado and a sprinkle of crunchy Dollar Tree panko crumbs. Of course I topped it with my Tea Towel Salad Dressing™  which I’ll never tire of. I love a meal that incorporates random bits and bobs from the fridge and bonus points when it’s healthy and tasty. Portland topped 100° F yesterday, which made “salad for dinner” an extra good idea.

3. I’m halfway through my “Lucky Day” library copy of Abby Jimenez’s Say You’ll Remember Me, which is just as good her other books, which is saying a lot!

4. My sister and nephew accidentally left behind a number of items, so I packaged everything up and sent it out in today’s mail. I used PirateShip.com instead of USPS.com, which saved $1.65.

5. My sisters, nephew and I went out for breakfast the last full day they were in town. I cobbled an order together from the “Sides and Such” portion of the menu, which made my food $15.50 compared to the $21 for most entrees. I ordered a double order of $5 cheesy grits, a single $2 over-easy egg and a $3.50 biscuit. The meal was my sister’s treat, but I’ll still attempt to hack the menu.

Katy Wolk-Stanley

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1. I brought a carabiner to the beach the other day, which meant I didn’t have to hold my thrifted Crocs while walking in the surf. I always think about how I should do this, but actually remembered to bring one along as I recently creating a carabiner storage tin. I’ve had these Crocs since they were like-new and they normally live on my back porch for gardening and such, although they do get to accompany me on trips to the Oregon coast.

   I love a little life hack, especially when it’s using something I already own in a new and clever way.

2. My sister and nephew are back in NYC after a 15-day trip to Oregon, which means my home and routine shift back to normal. We ended up enjoying a fair number of restaurant meals, although we all took turns footing the bill. Although I’ll miss their company, It’ll be nice to sit in silence for a bit.

   

3. Having time to myself means I can direct love towards my neglected stack of library books!

4. We went to our favorite BBQ  joint with my mother and step-father last night, and I gifted my leftovers to my daughter, who’s always happy to give them a home.

5. I haven’t supported Amazon, Target, Home Depot or My Pillow.

Katy Wolk-Stanley

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Having the ability to enjoy simple and low cost things in life goes a long way when it comes to living a joyfully frugal life. I may not be flying off on an internatioal vacation, but that doesn’t mean that I can’t luxuriate in a day trip to the Oregon coast while munching on a food cart burrito.

I have no sense that I’m missing out on anything, no envy of others’ conspicuous consumption. 

No FOMO, (“Fear of missing out”) here. Just me and a couple family members, contentedly enjoying our takout burritos.

Katy Wolk-Stanley

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Today I turn the tables and ask you, dear readers to share your favorite non-consumer hack. That clever little thing you do to:

• Save money

• Make something last longer

• Repurpose

• Repair

• Help your life run smoothly

• Etc.

Here, I’ll get you started. My favorite nonconsumery thing I do is to live with a less than ideal item until I can source a higher quality replacement for free or almost free. Call them “place holders,” but this mindset has saved me thousands of dollars over the years. Whether it was cheap-o plastic outdoor furniture or a dining room light fixture. I practice the art of patience and end up with solutions that might not have occurred to me had I shelled out the big bucks from the get go.

Now your turn, what non-consumer hacks are you most proud of?

Katy Wolk-Stanley

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1. I stopped at Fred Meyer (Kroger) to grab salmon for an extended family dinner and naturally looped past the random produce clearance shelf. (What am I, a Rockefeller?!) Sadly the price has increased from $1 to $1.50 per bag, although that’s still a decent price. Today the shelf provided a yuuuge bag of string beans, as well as four heirloom tomatoes. Oddly, the string beans provided two single brussel sprouts, which I found pretty funny.

   

2. I also picked up two boxes of Fred Meyer brand powdered dishwasher detergent, as I worry they’ll discontinue this bargain item. The big box is just $5.99, yet holds enough for at least six months of daily dishwasher use. Unlike dishwasher pods, the powder allows me to decide how much product to use. I decant it into a cute canister and keep a tablespoon in it, which helps to not use too much. It’s hard to get ahead financially when all your money is tied up in dishwasher detergent.

3. My step mother gave me an extra basil plant, plus some apples and lemons. Thanks, Lindy!

4. Although I spent $46.45 on salmon, it fed seven people for dinner (including seconds) and provided enough leftovers to send home with my daughter; as well as a couple bonus servings for the fridge. The sticker shock was painful in the moment, but that’s actually not too shabby when you consider how much it would cost to treat seven people to a restaurant meal. Luckily it was somewhat balanced out by the bargain green beans.

5. I continue to buy almost everything my family needs through thrift stores, eBay or marketplace, thus bypassing idiotic vindictive tarriffs.

Katy Wolk-Stanley

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1. My free garage sale rug has proven itself to be a keeper, so I hauled the old one out to the curb and stapled a “Free” sign onto it. I checked back a few hours later to find it gone. It’s the circle of life!

2. I fell prey to a pair of yellow jackets, so my sister took pity on me and pulled a dinner together from a variety of random bits and bobs. She titled it “Hearty Peasant Food” and I was more than happy to accept her silly meal. By the way we dined on cole slaw, cucumbers, hamburger buns and Tillamook cheddar cheese. It would’ve been easy to order a pizza, but I’m glad we didn’t.

3. We added another out of town guest to the house today, but did so without buying anything to ready the room. A lot of people look around their houses and imagine how it’s perceived by others, then use that  imagined criticism to fuel unnecessary purchases. Please don’t do this to yourself.

4. Our guest beds are set up with thrifted mismatched sheets, but rich with welcoming spirit.

5. I didn’t go on Amazon.com to browse for false “Prime Day” deals.

Katy Wolk-Stanley

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1. My friend texted asking if I’d water her garden, as she’s in NYC and the person who’d agreed to do so backed out at the last minute. She doesn’t live too far away, so I let her know I was happy to lend a hand.

   I then offered to connect her with my sister, who works with the American Museum of Natural History. It turns out that it’s a full family trip and my sister was able to hook her up with eight free tickets, which’ll save her $328! As I’ve written before, I love saving money but I especially love when I can help other people save money!

2. My sister and I took a long evening walk through the neighborhood. There were lots of people hanging out at the local bars and restaurants, but we were happy to just get out of the house without spending any money.

3. We invited our mother over for an afternoon of Scrabble and snacks, which was great fun. We munched on crackers and cheese; hummus, pretzels and spicy pickles. All from the fridge and pantry, but still tasty.

4. I helped myself to a handful of raspberries from my friend’s garden when I went over to water her plants.

5. I continue to live my life without sending my money to that Schmeff Schmezos guy!

Katy Wolk-Stanley

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1. My father’s sweet dog Buddy passed away last week and everyone is understandably sad. I went ahead and printed a nice photo of the family with Buddy and placed it in a curb picked frame for him. The total cost was 39¢ for a Walgreen’s print.

2. I sprayed out and repaired my yard debris wheelie bin, which was both revolting and deeply satisfying. The lid was a repeat repair, but I’m happy to do the work if it keeps it in circulation and out of the landfill.

3. Tonight’s dinner was what we jokingly call “after school snack for dinner.” Think carrot sticks, hummus, crackers and cheese. We did add a salad a couple hours later, but a frugal affair either way.

4. My sister and I have been watching episodes of Buffy The Vampire Slayer through her Hulu account.

5. I have zero-point-zero plans to buy anything from Amazon during Prime Day, or really any other day. Morally bankrupt billionaires don’t deserve a penny from me.

Katy Wolk-Stanley

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