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1. I planted some propagated spider plant starts in a curb picked flowerpot for my daughter’s apartment. This is the third time I’ve replanted this exact pot, but I know she’ll eventually figure out how to keep her plants alive. This is how unconditional love works.

   

2. I took my daughter out to practice driving and we ended up at the Sellwood goats, where my daughter spent a good half hour communing with them. There was also a goat-happy toddler who pointed out at least a hundred times that there was a “mommy goat.”

   My daughter and I will now add “mommy goat” to the things we say to each other.

   

3. The two of us were unsurprisingly in need of a hand wash station, so we popped over to New Seasons Market to use their facilities. I remembered that I had a soon to expire coupon for a free case of seltzer. Perfect for Portland’s record high temperatures.

   

4. I finished reading my library copy of The Seven Year Slip, which was a delight from start to finish. I have more holds to pick up at the library, which I’ll do before today’s forecasted hail and tornados!

5. I didn’t create a treasonous group text.

Katy Wolk-Stanley

“Use it up, wear it out, make it do or do without.”

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1. Today is my niece’s last full day in Portland before heading back to college and we’re both feeling/not feeling the urge to make the most of it. She has a paper with a looming deadline, so we looped back to Tabor Space so she could focus enough to make her deadline. We brought our own coffee/tea, but slipped a couple bucks into the tip jar.

2. Breakfast was cheesy grits with sautéed spinach, topped with reheated frittata, which was so delicious I’ll definitely add it to the rotation. Frittata is no longer the Cheap Eats meal it once was, but it’s still cheaper than hitting a restaurant.

   Here’s my frittata recipe.

   However, last night’s dinner was pizza, courtesy of my mother and stepfather, which was full-on frugal as it was their treat and we ate at my house. We then watched a couple of vintage Twilight Zone episodes through my niece’s Paramount Plus subscription. Quality programming + pizza never grows old.

3. My niece complimented my kale pesto, (recipe HERE) so I grabbed a frozen jar for her to take back to school. She lives in an off campus rental and does her own cooking, so it’ll actually come in handy for her. I love having a jar of pesto in the fridge at all times as it’s infinitely versatile.

4. • We stopped by the library so I could pick up a book to read while my niece works on her assignment.
   • I put out a request on my Buy Nothing group for a travel mug, as my niece has a loooong travel day tomorrow and doesn’t actually own one. Our backup plan is to hit a Goodwill, but free is better for her every-dollar-counts budget. *Update — I got an almost immediate reply from someone who has “several to choose from!”
   • I printed out a page of official two-letter Scrabble words to keep with the game, which is an example of “other people have had this problem, surely there’s an easy solution.” Not every wheel needs to be reinvented.
   • I cut some forsythia from the garden for my mother.

5. I basically buy nothing, so it’s almost as if I’m joining Canadians and Europeans in boycotting American made products.

Katy Wolk-Stanley

“Use it up, wear it out, make it do or do without.”

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1. My niece and I took our laptops to Tabor Space, which describes itself as “A community gathering place.” Located in an historic church, (note the stained glass windows) this non-religious space is the perfect example of a “Third Space,” for when you need somewhere that’s neither home, work nor shopping. (Other examples would be a park or library that lets you exist without the weight of consumerism.) There is an adjoining coffee shop, but you’re not required to buy anything to use the space. I brought my own tea from home, but slipped a dollar into their tip jar.

   This reminds me of when I wrote about New York City’s Privately Owned Public Spaces (aka “POPS”) that allow New Yorkers to legally hang out in hundreds of specific places without the stigma of loitering. It’s easy in balmy weather to find commercially neutral places to hang out, but such is not the case this time of year.

   

2. I got a text from New Seasons Market with an offer for a free 16-ounce box of their pasta, so I picked up the box and nothing else. I guess rigatoni is in our future!

   

3. I thrifted a $4 faux midcentury dining chair when dropping off Goodwill donations the other day. (Minus my 10%-off senior discount, so it was actually $3.59!) I promptly listed it on Facebook Marketplace for $40 and have a couple people who’ve already messaged me about wanting to buy it. It hasn’t sold yet, but I’ve done very well with midcentury style furniture and fully expect it to sell.

4. My mother and stepfather took us to dinner, which was a treat as I’m otherwise sticking to No Spend March as much as possible. We’ve had them to dinner the past few nights, so I feel A-okay accepting their generosity.

5. I didn’t buy a Lear Jet.

Katy Wolk-Stanley

“Use it up, wear it out, make it do or do without.”

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1. We hosted another family dinner, which culminated in a rousing game of Scrabble. (Thrifted of course!) The frozen enchiladas from last week anchored the meal and we assembled a big green salad to round things out. I’m really trying to spend as little money as possible this month, which makes me a slightly unfun hostess, but this is the third time that I’ve hosted out of town guests this year and it gets pricey.

2. I took a four day break from my daughter’s driving lessons, due to the aforementioned flat tire and hostess duties. However, we put it back on the schedule for today, but I was worried that my daughter might’ve taken a step backwards during the hiatus, she actually drove better than ever! She’s gone from zero driving experience to driving on busy streets in just two weeks. I’m incredibly proud of her, plus proud of myself for serving as her driving teacher. It apparently costs between $50 and $200 per hour for one-on-one instruction in the Portland area!

3. I donated a big load of books to Goodwill, a few of which were from my recently reorganized shelves, but were mostly from our little free library. This may sound mercenary on my part, but there’s someone in my neighborhood who must work (have worked?) for a defunct small publisher, because she crams every single library full of the rejects from her company. This means that we’re not able to put books into our own library. Her books sit stagnant, so Goodwill it was!

4. My fridge is crammed full at the moment, which puts us at risk for food waste as things get forgotten or pushed to the back. However, I’m happy to report that today I ate the last serving of lentil soup, the remaining bits of some cottage cheese and then used up a jar of homemade salad dressing. Plus I got both kids to take big servings of leftover enchiladas home with them. I call all of this a win!

5. My kids love me and don’t give interviews where they refer to me as a  “Pathetic man-child.”

Katy Wolk-Stanley

“Use it up, wear it out, make it do or do without.”

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1. I picked my niece up at the airport and we immediately hit IKEA for a bite to eat, which meant $1.15 veggie dogs for the two of us. She did add on a $1.99 Plantball Sundae, but only because I was feeling generous. I kid, kid — $4.29 for lunch is far from a splurge!

2. We invited my mother and stepfather over for dinner and served a burrito buffet, which was on frequent rotation when my kids were growing up. Super easy to please a large group of people, as everyone creates their own personalized burrito; and cheap since the base is rice and beans. Extra toppings are whatever you have on hand, but mine were queso fresco, shredded mozzarella, tomatoes, lettuce, waffle iron cooked tater tots, sautéed peppers and onions, broken tortilla chips and cilantro. I also set out various salsas and sour cream to complete the yumminess.

   I know that once trendy Instant Pots now sit abandoned on the shelves of thrift stores, but I use mine multiple times per week to cook beans from scratch. As easy as adding the beans, water and salt to the pot and just pushing the button that says “bean!”

3. I finished The Lathe of Heaven and started listening to George R. Stewart’s Earth Abides, which is one of my favorite books. This is my first time experiencing it as an audiobook and it’s making me feel that I’m reading it for the very first time. I wouldn’t of had time to read a physical book yesterday, but I did get through an hour and a half of the audiobook while grocery shopping and driving to the airport. For those who look down on audiobooks as a lesser literary choice, I have a few choice words for you.

   Earth Abides is 1949 post-apocalyptic novel that takes a hopeful look at humankind, without lazily written bad guys or cliché tropes. Of course, I’m listening through the library’s free Libby app.

   There’s a new TV series based on the book, but I thought I give the original a reread before watching a show that’s unlikely to live up to its source material.

4. I did a big Winco grocery shop yesterday morning before heading out to the airport, spending $130.42 on 52 items. (Grocery shopping fully supporting my No Spend March!) I’m not too mad about it though, as I stocked up on multiple items and splurged on various luxuries such as eggs and eggs. (Seriously though, I spent $20.40 on 42 eggs.) I doubt I’ll need to food shop again during my niece’s spring break and we should be able to create multiple nice meals from these ingredients. I’d normally snap a photo of my haul for the blog, but I needed to be efficient with my time to get to the airport on time. Instead, please enjoy the receipt!

   

5. No swasticars, no gold plated domiciles, no Lear Jets. Just a normal Wednesday.

Katy Wolk-Stanley

“Use it up, wear it out, make it do or do without.”

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You might think that my life is just one frugal win after another, but life catches up with me as much as anyone else. So instead of a normal “Five Frugal Things” blog post, today you’ll a theme of two steps forward, one step back.

1. I had a thick pile of unwanted bubble mailers from organizing my buffet drawers and it pained me to think of them going to the landfill. I do reuse envelopes for eBay sales, but I haven’t been thrifting much, which translates into almost no sales. I then remembered that my next door neighbor pays for Ridwell recycling service and has offered to let us put our things in her bin, so I texted and asked if she’d take the mailers. She quickly responded in the affirmative and I was able to hopefully put the mailers into the recycling stream instead of the landfill.

   This neighbor borrows from us on a regular basis, (snow shovel, muffin tin, last minute ingredients, etc.) so I felt fine asking for this moochy favor.

   Frugal win.

2. I walked out of my house yesterday and discovered that my front passenger side tire was a complete and utter goner. Luckily I didn’t have any urgent driving errands, although I had been planning on a Winco grocery trip and on a driving lesson for my daughter. My thought was to fill the tire with air from our compressor and slowly drive the car to the Les Schwab tire store. Unfortunately, they’re closed on Sundays, which brought my plans for the day to a halt. Instead my husband filled the tire today and drove it to the store, where the plan evolved into “The front tires were pretty bald, so I’m having them replaced.” I’m not going to argue to drive on bald tires, but it’s still a bummer.

   Frugal Fail to the tune of $560.91, as we had to buy two new tires, plus get a front end alignment.

   

3. I walked a Buy Nothing container of thumbtacks to a teacher’s house, as I’d already offered to drop them off for her. Maybe a half mile each way and it didn’t even rain, which is rarity this time of year in Portland! I certainly could have space for this small item in my house, but I’d rather that they went to someone who actually needed them. I still have an Altoid tin half filled with tacks, which should last me the rest of my life.

   Frugal win.

4. My son dropped by the house to hand wash a couple items, as he doesn’t have a laundry rack. I sent him home with a pair of work lunches and a hug. I moved away from Portland immediately after high school and didn’t come back until ten years later. Although I value the perspective from living in Israel, Ohio, Idaho, New York and New Mexico, I appreciate that both my kids live close enough to spend time with them on a regular basis.

   Frugal win.

5. I didn’t have access to my car today, so I ended up paying $18.96 with tip for a Lyft to drive me across town this morning.

   Frugal fail.

Katy Wolk-Stanley

“Use it up, wear it out, make it do or do without.”

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1. I finished organizing all the drawers from our built-in buffet, which was deeply satisfying. I found a lot of things to recycle, a few things to throw away, one thing to gift through Buy Nothing (the above clothesline) and a handful of random bits and bobs to donate to Goodwill. I then gave my husband a tour of the drawers and he commented on how it’ll be so much easier to find certain things from here on out. Goal achieved!

   Having things organized is a money saver, as you won’t end up buying things simply because you can’t locate them. Just yesterday my husband picked up a six-pack of button batteries, when we actually had two in reserve. Now he knows where to look instead of assuming we’re out of a certain type of battery.

2. I assembled and froze two 9×13 pans of rice and bean enchiladas as a favor to my future self, as I know I’ll be busy while my niece visits next week. She’s a vegetarian, my daughter can’t eat gluten and everyone else just wants a tasty meal. Me? I just want to make sure I have a plan in place for hosting multiple family dinners.

3. I used a coupon for a free pint of Haagen Dazs ice cream, which served as our dessert last night. Fred Meyer (Kroger) mails out personalized coupons once a month or so and for some reason, (maybe I was good in a past life?) mine always includes a coupon for free ice cream. Not mad about it.

4. I continue my No Spend March economic boycott, which means no shopping beyond groceries.

5. I didn’t gold plate my oval office.

Katy Wolk-Stanley

“Use it up, wear it out, make it do or do without.”

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