Scratch Beginnings

I just finished reading Scratch Beginnings: Me, $25 and the Search for the American Dream by Adam Shepard. In this book, the young author chronicles a year spent in Charleston, South Carolina as he rises from life in a homeless shelter to a comfortable existence with $5000 in savings, a functional car and a furnished apartment.

Shepard’s foray into immersion journalism was prompted by Barbara Ehrenreich’s Nickel and Dimed: On Not Getting By in America, writing that:

“My story is a rebuttal to Barbara Ehrenreich’s Nickel and Dimed and Bait and Switch, the books that speak on the death of the American Dream. With investigative projects of her own, Ehrenreich attempted to establish that working stiffs are doomed to live in the same disgraceful conditions forever. I resent that theory, and my story is a search is a search to evaluate if hard work and discipline provide any payoff whatsoever or if they are, as Ehrenreich suggests, futile pursuits.”

And although I really enjoyed Ehrenreich’s classic investigation into America’s low wage workers, I too had problems with it. I remember wondering why she never pursued group housing options (she always lived alone) or why she never bought a thrift shop slow cooker to prepare her own meals from dried beans. (I recall that she ate at Arby’s a lot.)

Shepard was laser focused on meeting his self-set goals, and was smart about pursuing paying work, keeping expenses down and working hard even when that work was wholly unpleasant. (Think picking up dog poop during a hot South Carolina summer afternoon.) And while American policy makers comfortably debate the theoretical issues of poverty, Adam Shepard took the pragmatic approach and put himself, body and soul into his investigation.

Opposite spectrum politicians want you to believe that America’s poor are doomed because they’re set up to fail, or conversely  that America’s poor are that way because they’re not working hard enough. Of course, the answer is never so black and white. The answer lies left of center for some and right for others. There is no single answer. Not to mention the issues of layoffs, medical bills, divorce and life’s other unexpected goodies. And yes, Shepard is a healthy young white man, but that doesn’t mean that his experiment can or should be discounted.

Shepard was able to go from homeless with $25 to housed with $5000 in savings within the span of a single year. And he also writes about a fellow co-worker who at age 25 was able to buy a brand new house employing the same techniques of consistent hard work and sacrifice. He’s showing how the American Dream is still possible. It’s not easy, but it is attainable.

This is the kind of book that I love, that swirls around in my head after I read the very last word, challenging my assumptions.

I am curious to hear from others who have read this book, (it was published in 2008) or from those who also read Nickel and Dimed and felt that Ehrenreich went in with a defeatist mindset.

Do you think that hard work and sacrifice can still lead to success in life or do you feel that the decks are irreversibly stacked against America’s working poor? Please share your thoughts in the comments section below.

Katy Wolk-Stanley

“Use it up, wear it out, make it do or do without.”

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What Do You Have Too Much Of?

by Katy on May 13, 2013 · 46 comments

The following is a reprint of a previously published post. Enjoy!

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My name is Katy and I am a recovering packrat. It’s been two weeks since my last thrift store excursion.

I have spent the majority of my adult life stalking garage sales and thrift stores for diamonds in the rough. That perfect Fiestaware platter, that perfect vintage tablecloth. The thrill of the hunt, and the subsequent display of my fresh kill.

Rawwr!

Fast forward 20 years and that perfect Fiestaware platter is now in the way, and that perfect vintage tablecloth? Lost among a sea of other perfect tablecloths.

Whimper.

How much kitchenware does a girl need?!

I’ve slowly been winnowing down my collections, but I can still host a party for 30 without even entertaining the thought of a paper plate.

Letting go of belongings is not easy for me. I remember where the object came from and often how much I paid. But I have to remind myself that the important word here is “object.” It’s a thing, and it has no feelings.

The garage sale that I held a few weeks ago was extremely cathartic. To witness the clutter of my life leaving my house, with the added bonus of money in my pocket was an intoxicating blend. I am now viewing my belongings as potential moneymakers, (after years of Goodwill donations) and I plan on having another sale before too long. Because yes, I unfortunately have enough stuff to stage another big sale.

As my house has slowly decluttered, my life and frankly my time have become much more free. I’m spending less and less time cleaning and organizing, and more time doing, well . . . whatever I want.

Which brings me to the question:

What do you have too much of, and how does that affect you?

Is it books, thimbles or painted Mrs. Butterworth bottles? Is it ceramic owls, picture frames or comic books?

Please share how you’re dealing with your stuff in the comments section below.

Katy Wolk-Stanley

“Use it up, wear it out, make it do or do without.”

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  1. Your favorite recent purchase was actually a curbside find.
  2. Your answer to your child’s question of “Why are our kitchen sponges so small?” is “What are we, Rockefellers?!” (This is because you cut sponges into half or even thirds!)
  3. You’re careful to properly care for your belongings because you know that your thrifted belongings are better quality than what you could buy new.
  4. The advent of sunny weather signals a mass laundry day.
  5. Your gardening decisions are based on what you can get for free.
  6. You mend items others would just throw away, like underwear.
  7. You have a hard time getting rid of stuff, because you see how most things can be repurposed.
  8. You look forward to leftover nights.
  9. You flip through fashion magazines and laugh at them.
  10. Your batched errands include such highlights as “the cheap gasoline” and “my favorite thrift shop.”

Now you. How do you know you’re a Non-Consumer? Please share your thoughts in the comments section below.

Katy Wolk-Stanley

“Use it up, wear it out, make it do or do without.”

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Remember my antique card catalog coffee table? Well I finally got around to addressing the dried out wood issue yesterday, and look at what a difference a coat of Restore-a-Finish makes! It supposedly needs a finish coat of Howard’s Feed-n-Wax, but for now I’m really happy with how lush the wood looks.

I didn’t take a full picture of the coffee table, as it deserves its own post. Also, because it’s currently enjoying time on the porch to off-gas. And yes, this drawer is where I keep my maidenhead. Thank you for noticing.

Dry:

Dry Wood

Finished:
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Winco grocery store gets a bad rap when it comes to produce. I bought this spinach a week ago, and just used up the last of it this morning. The key is to store your perishables properly when you get them home. For spinach and lettuce, I wash and prep them almost immediately, and then store them in a salad spinner in the crisper drawer. (Why a crisper drawer? Because it fits, no other reason.) Any moisture pools under the basket, so nothing ever gets slimy. This change in practice will rock. Your. World!

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I’m a sucker for thrifted glass storage jars, and I wanted to share how I recently labeled mine. Remember the gold paint pen that I used to freshen up a dull picture frame? It occurred to me that it could write on glass, and so I did.

Write on glass.

I am lacking the nice hand writing gene, but my second grade cursive did the trick.

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And this tip is not just aesthetic, as I dare any one of you to differentiate between glass jars of baking powder and glass jars of baking soda. It cannot be done. That empty glass jar? It’s for overflow rice, of which we have none.

Labeled glass jars

I wanted to share the perfection of my six matching $1.99 glass storage jars that I scored from Goodwill last week. Not too big and not too small, they’re the Goldilocks of the food storage world.

And if it’s wrong to get an endorphin release when looking at functional yet attractive food storage, then I don’t want to be right.

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I somehow forgot to share my thrifted groovy kitchen clock. It looks totally wrong in my kitchen, but I love it anyway. And at $2.99, there wasn’t a moment’s hesitation of whether or not to buy it. I’ll probably sell it,  but for now it’s funk-i-fying my kitchen, and for that I say:

“Outta sight!”

Groovy kitchen clock

And no photo essay of mostly kitchen stuff could be complete without a photo of drying Ziploc freezer bags. They are a constant presence in my life and have each been washed out at least a bajillion times.

Seriously.

Drying bags

Am I the only person who drools at the sight of thrifted storage solutions? Please share your thoughts in the comments section below.

Katy Wolk-Stanley

“Use it up, wear it out, make it do or do without.”

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  1. When Winco was selling two-pound packages of strawberries for $1.48, I made sure to buy the limit of four. I then whipped up a quickie batch of freezer jam. I don’t know about you, but I always run out of homemade jam sooner than I think I will. Slurp, yum, urp.
  2. I used a set of a dozen canning jars, which I bought at Goodwill still in their shrink-wrap. Not bad for $3.99. Because, duh . . . everything tastes better with Goodwill!
  3. I gifted a jar of jam to my next door neighbor, who returned the favor by giving us a big bowl of potato salad. And I learned that using large chunks of red potatoes and generous amounts of bacon make potato salad taste most very delicious!
  4. Yesterday’s work lunch was a combination of the Cinco de Mayo Mexican restaurant leftovers from myself and my two sons. When I mentioned this in the lunch room, one of my co-workers was completely disgusted and said that she “Never once has eaten from her kids’ plates.” I did not touch that one with a ten-foot fork.
  5. Portland, Oregon has been experiencing rare hot weather, so I walked down the boulevard on Sunday to treat the boys to Ben & Jerry’s ice cream cones. (Yes, my neighborhood is awesome!) I used a buy-one-get-one-free coupon and abstained from my own cone. Metabolism at age 45 is not very forgiving. Then again, it might be all the jam and bacon. Nahh . . . it’s probably just the metabolism.

Now you. What frugal activities have you been up to lately?

Katy Wolk-Stanley

“Use it up, wear it out, make it do or do without.”

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Work Perks

by Katy on May 6, 2013 · 32 comments

The following is a reprint of a previously published post. Enjoy!

monthly-passes

I work for one of the largest private employers in the state of Oregon, and with this job comes some great benefits. Deals on cell phones, gym memberships, discounts for local businesses and my favorite – a free all-zone adult public transportation pass. To buy this privately, (as many people do) would set me back a whopping $946!

That is one mighty fine work perk.

Although I’ve been in the same job for 14 years, I have enjoyed employment by many different companies throughout the years. I’ve worked everything from retail in Idaho, shoe sales in London, (note to self — DON’T ask customers if they’re planning on wearing their shoes with a skirt or “pants.”) cinemas and restaurants in Portland, Oregon and even as an elf at Macy’s in Herald Square, New York.

Yeah, I moved a lot.

The jobs varied from interesting to tedious, poorly paid to semi-poorly paid. But they all had one thing in common – work perks.

Working retail meant an employee discount on merchandise, which could be quite sizable, other jobs provided handy perks as well:

  • The variety store in Ketchum, Idaho gave a “cost plus 10%” discount, which sometimes translated to 90% off. Got my holiday shopping done early that year!
  • The shoe store in London not only offered a discount on shoes, (the amount of which I’ve forgotten) but customers would occasionally purchase new shoes and leave the old ones in the store. As gross as this may sound, I got a new looking pair of super cool shoes this way, which I held onto for at least ten years.
  • Work in restaurants always provided free food and drinks, and working at a movie theater meant I was able to see free movies at all the theaters in town for myself and a guest. This last job was during my senior year of high school, and my best friend and I took great advantage of the viewing opportunities, often seeing multiple movies in a single day!
  • Oddly, the stint as a Christmas elf at Macy’s was one of the worst employee discounts, as it was for only 15% off products that could be worn on the body. (clothing, jewelry, make-up, etc.) Although, Wearing a head-to-toe sparkly elf costume meant I didn’t have to dress professionally, which I considered to be a huge plus. Not to mention, it was simply a lot of fun!

My current job as a labor and delivery nurse also provides my work wardrobe, (although there is certainly less bling than your average elf costume) which has probably saved me thousands of dollars through the years. Some nurses on other floors have to provide their own scrubs, but ours are provided by the hospital as we circulate through the operating rooms and need to have certifiably clean outfits. Infection control and all.

These work perks can be a huge part not only in making a job worthwhile, but in employee retention. My friend’s husband works in management at AT&T, and got free box seat tickets to take their  daughter and her friends to see a Miley Cyrus concert last night.  (This probably won him the daddy-of-the-year award at his house!)

The main work perk that attracts employees and then keeps them in place are health care benefits. How many of us have stayed in a  job simply because we needed the benefits? Or even left a job we loved because it didn’t provide those essential health care benefits?

Have you ever taken a job because it came with fabulous work perks? Was it an employee discount on merchandise or comprehensive health care coverage? What was your favorite work perk you’ve ever had? Please share your stories in the comments section below.

Katy Wolk-Stanley

“Use it up, wear it out, make it do or do without.”

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I grew up in an enormous house. And because the house has almost endless amounts of storage space, my father and step-mother have been pretty tolerant about how much stuff we adult children keep at the house. However, my younger sister Sara took it upon herself to address some of the attic boxes and invited me along for the adventure.

Unlike an episode of Hoarders which takes multiple days of filming, we were able to get through most everything in a matter of hours. Yes, I left a huge box of my books to be dealt with later, (it was too heavy to lift!) But I made decisions about childhood clothing, (send to a textile shredder) my coin collection, (keep!) and boxes of my wealthy and fashionable grandmother’s hats, (try on and defer any decision making until our older sister hits town this summer.)

Of course, we had to snap a couple of pictures. (Funny, nobody on Hoarders ever seems to put stuff on their heads. . . )

But you know I did take a cleansing shower the moment I got home.

Decluttering is dirty business, but it can also be a stylish business.

Katy Wolk-Stanley

“Use it up, wear it out, make it do or do without.”

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A Happy Saturday

by Katy on May 4, 2013 · 9 comments

Clean towels billowing on the clothesline, book holds waiting for me at the library and a pantry full of bulk purchased (and attractively stored) foodstuff.

It’s a happy Saturday.

Clothesline

Katy Wolk-Stanley

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Green Machine!

Five Things That Make Me Happy:

1) Reading and hearing about the soccer game between Mt Tabor Soccer Club’s Green Machine and Major League Soccer’s Portland Timbers. This was a Make-a-Wish Foundation event between an eight-year-old boy’s team and Portland’s popular soccer team. It was attended by more than 3000 fans and treated like a real game. Sadly, I had to work, but my husband Dale was front and center screaming, chanting and rooting for The Green Machine. Although he was not directly involved with the planning of the game, he is on the board of Mt Tabor Soccer Club, and a lot of the connections he’s forged through the years were. Portland soccer fans and The Timbers really came through on this one.

2) Being told a story by one of my co-workers about a conversation between her three-year-old daughter and another little kid at the park :

Girl: “Do you have any brothers and sisters?

Boy: “I got an older brother and we’re getting a baby from China.”

Girl: “Well yeah, all babies come from vagina!”

Gotta love kids who understand the human body and know the correct names!

3) Finding six matching glass food storage containers at Goodwill. I always keep an eye out for nice glass food storage when I thrift, and this has been intensified since I started doing the Zero Waste Challenge. However, the one from here and one from there-ness can lead to a disjointed aesthetic, so I was giddy appropriately pleased to come across six $1.99 matching jars at Goodwill. (To say I am a “cheap date” would be an understatement.)

4)  Pretty much everything about the DIY Network show “Rehab Addict.”  Living in my own never ending fixer-upper rehab project pretty much requires constant inspiration. And I am super-duper enjoying watching old episodes through On Demand. With a focus on fixing instead of replacing, selling instead of trashing and finding new uses for old household supplies, Nicole Curtis is my kind of woman!

5) Looking forward to using up our current stash of Costco cat litter. I learned that Petco sells scoop-your-own cat litter, and that there’s a location not too far from our house. Although I will have to buy the initial plastic container, I’ll be able to fill it from their bulk bin afterwards. The huge and thick plastic bags from Costco have always been a thorn in my side, so I’m happy to have found a Zero Waste solution.

One Thing That’s Pissing Me Off:

1) Nothing. I worked the last two days and and happily relaxing at home today after an embarrassingly long night of sleep. Life is good.  

Katy Wolk-Stanley

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Although I had a number of tasks on my to-do list yesterday, I was able to nip into a couple of thrift shops on my way to Winco. (Hello, $10-off $50 coupon!)

I’ve been keeping an eye out for a low dresser for awhile, as I want to reconfigure our bedroom for better feng shui to work a bit better. (My husband keeps a TV on a rolling cart, which I constantly bump into at night.) My thinking is that this style of dresser could accommodate a TV and eliminate a hazardous piece of furniture from our lives.

I liked this groovy mid-century dresser, but it was actually a pretty low quality specimen. Yes, it had dovetail drawers, but the top was actually laminate covered particle board, and the back piece was some kind of chipboard. I would have considered the purchase at $40 or less, but the $70 price tag was beyond my comfort zone.

Dresser

And no visit to a thrift shop is complete without the requisite vase-covered-wth-florist’s-marbles.

These projects are ugly, they have always been ugly and they will always be ugly. So enough already!

C’mon people . . .

Marble vase

This statuette caught my eye, as her hands over ears positioning make her look like she’s about to start recording a power ballad.

Statuette

You know, like this:

Puppies

Oh, sorry. Got that wrong. I meant like this:

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I try to not give gag gifts, but I know that others lean heavily in this direction. And if there ever was a product manufactured for no other reason than to be a joke it’s the “Freeloader Fork.” With telescoping handle, “The 2-ft. fork that lets you enjoy your meal, and everyone else’s too!”

Uh . . . pass.

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The one thing that both caught my eye and came home with me with this vintage doggie change bowl. It’s meant to be on a man’s nightstand for his watch, spare change, etc. And although this one has seen better days, I couldn’t resist. And I couldn’t help but start humming this vintage ditty:

“How much is that doggie in the Goodwill?”

$2.99.

Dog Dish

Do you think I should have bought the dresser? I’m pretty much in the camp of only buying the stuff that is exactly what I want. The style is super on-trend right now, but I’m simply a snob about solid wood.

Katy Wolk-Stanley

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