One Product I Will NOT Be Buying

by Katy on November 3, 2010 · 27 comments

I made a quick trip over to Rite-Aide this evening to buy a tube of anti-itch creme and I came across this item:

Yup, it’s Chia Barack Obama, the very definition of clutter.

You can be assured that you will not be receiving one of these testament of bizarre-itude from me this year, or frankly any year. Even if I found it at Goodwill. And no, it’s not because of my political beliefs, as I neither want a Chia Al Gore, nor a Chia Jimmy Carter. (Even though he did put solar panels on The White House.)

What’s the most ridiculous item you’ve seen on the store shelves so far this gift giving season? Please share your stories in the comments section below.

Katy Wolk-Stanley

“Use it up, wear it out, make it do or do without”

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Simple Living, My Tuchus!

by Katy on November 2, 2010 · 23 comments

My days have been extremely busy lately. The responsibilities of parenting, daughtering, work and miscellaneous household duties have conspired to leave me with few free afternoons to practice my simple living wannabe activities. (Or is it inactivities?)

Today, which should not have been busy was instead overly full. Here’s the lowdown:

  • I set my alarm for 6:30 so I could rouse my 15-year-old son for school. He takes public transportation to school and needs to leave by 7:15 A.M.
  • I made two school lunches.
  • He had the worst time waking up and I ended up having to drive him to school. I could have let him be late, but I have a soft spot in my heart for kids with candy hangovers.
  • I drove home and scraped my 12-year-old son out of bed and pointed him in the direction of the school bus, which he made on time.
  • I checked in on the blog and moderated comments. Perhaps I took an online Scrabble turn or two.
  • I showered and then drove over to my mother’s rental cottage to help her haul unneeded supplies and baby furniture from the basement. (She put everything on Craigslist for free, and it was all gone within a few hours!)
  • Drove across town for my annual physical. I was told to fast and was super-duper not enjoying how groggy and hungry I was feeling. Seriously, a noon appointment is too late in the day when you have to fast, especially since I didn’t get home until 2:15 P.M.
  • Voraciously inhaled a peanut butter and jelly sandwich chased by a few tiny Snickers bars. Drank a cup of tea, but caffeine ingestion this late in the day was too little to late, and I was starting to seriously drag. (I guess the 1:10 A.M. bedtime was a factor as well. 😉 )
  • I drove across town to pick my son up from high school, as he had forgotten his bus pass. (No longer feeling that soft spot in my heart, as it had been replaced by sheer irritation.)
  • I then lay down for a few minutes with my copy of “American Wasteland.” I ended up crashing headlong into sleep. Sorry Jonathan, I’m loving your book, but nothing could have come between me and a nap. Not even a long lost Harry Potter book.
  • I drove to pick my son up from his Japanese tutoring and dropped him off at martial arts.
  • I came home and started rice in the rice cooker and set the table for dinner. I went next door and scooped their litter box, cleaned up some cat barf and fed the critters.
  • I walked to my son’s martial arts class in the pouring rain and brought him home.
  • I heated up leftover black bean chili and curried chicken. Our microwave is a huge paperweight at the moment, so I heated the curry in the neighbor’s microwave. (“Welcome back from vacation. Umm, no . . . I don’t know why your house smells like Calcutta.”)
  • I let my son play 15 minutes of video games and then sat down with him to do his math, science, Japanese and language arts homework.
  • Made egg salad for tomorrow’s school lunches.
  • Wrote this blog.

I am not proud of this day, and I actually felt close to tears when I was wiping up the neighbor’s cat barf. I kind of feel like the highlight of my day was getting a new inhaler, which is pretty pathetic.

But here’s the thing, tomorrow is a new day. The kids will not have candy hangovers, and yes, I have agreed to help my mother again with her rental cottages, but she pays me a delicious nepotism wage which will be 100% dedicated to debt reduction. The company will be good and I do believe that a restaurant lunch is included. (Seriously, nepotism rocks!)

Are you able to live the days you want or is life getting in the way? Please share your stories in the comments section below.

Katy Wolk-Stanley

“Use it up, wear it out, make it do or do without”

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Another week has snuck up upon us, which means it’s time for another Non-Consumer Advocate Monday Giveaway. This week’s giveaway is for a hardback copy of Jonathan Bloom’s American Wasteland: How America Throws Away Nearly Half of its Food (And What We Can Do About It). Yes, the Jonathan Bloom from wastedfood.com. 😉

Although I just started this book, I can tell it’s going to be great. And no, not just because yours truly is featured on pages 84, 85, 86 and 205. (Although really, including me in your book is a terrific way to get featured on The Non-Consumer Advocate.) This book’s in-depth look at the issues related to food waste from the farm to the kitchen is fascinating. And although I am the blogger behind the “Waste No Food Challenge,” I constantly feel like I’m the modern day version of Sisyphus, rolling that boulder of moldy food up the mountain only to have careen back down at me.

Avoiding wastage in the home is near to impossible, but this book will open your eyes to the bigger issues at stake when it comes to the subject of food waste.

To enter to win a hardback copy of American Wasteland, just write something in the comments section about your relationship to food waste. I will randomly choose a winner at midnight on Wednesday, November 3rd. Please enter only once, U.S. residents only.

Good luck!

Katy Wolk-Stanley

“Use it up, wear it out, make it do or do without”

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Non-Consumer Mish-Mash

by Katy on October 31, 2010 · 5 comments

It’s time again for Non-Consumer Mish-Mash, where I write a little bit about this and a little bit about that.

Happy Halloween!

Happy Halloween to one and all! My kids both invited a number of kids over to hang out this evening for trick-or-treating shenanigans. (Seriously, I have no idea how many kids to expect.) We carved pumpkins last night as well as fine tuned our costumes. (The 15-year-old is “Dark Link” and the 12-year-old is going as Zombie Justin Bieber.)

I need to go outside and rake up the slimy leaves so that no ghost nor goblins slip and fall on our property.

The bought on sale candy is currently incarcerated in the next door neighbor’s house, and since tomorrow is my annual physical, I think I may go lightly on the sweets.

“Why Ms. Wolk-Stanley, I’ve never seen such a high fasting blood sugar!”

Yeah . . . definitely need to abstain from all the tiny Snickers, Kit-Kats, Milky Ways and Reese’s Peanut Butter Cups.

Compact Christmas Shopping is a Year Round Endeavor

I am coming up on my fifth year of following The Compact, which means I pretty much buy nothing new. This includes items for myself, as well as all gift giving. Unfortunately, this also means that I need to pick up gifts throughout the year, because trying to find quality appropriate last minute gifts is as likely to work out as Lindsay Lohan joining a 100 things challenge.

Over the last few days, I’ve bought a tiny $1.99 Chinese calligraphy set for my 12-year-old son that will make a perfect stocking stuffer, as well as a $2.99 Starbucks Bearista dressed as a ladybug. My son collects these, and we have a tradition of always having one peeking out from his stocking. These cost $15 new, so I keep an thrifting eye out to find one he doesn’t already have.

The To-Do List Hits Another Generation

I am a superfan of the to-do list, although I don’t do them on a daily basis, (which makes them all that much powerful when I do.) I’ve found that the key to a successful to-do list is to balance the things I need to do with the things I want to do. Otherwise, it’s just the daily tasks of the scullery maid. And if I learned anything from watching BBC’s Manor House, nobody wants to be the scullery maid.

My younger son has an somewhat overwhelming academic load this year, and he’s still figuring out how to stay on top of everything. Today I tutored him on how to properly write a to-do list.

On his list were:

  • Feed the neighbor’s cats
  • Twenty minutes of social studies
  • Carve pumpkin
  • World domination
  • Review Japanese

And guess what? So far, the neighbor’s cats have been fed, social studies completed, the pumpkin is being carved and I’m not sure how this happened, but “World Domination” has been checked off.

You might want to lock your doors.

100 Things, How About 57 Things?

The minimalist/simple living community is all atwitter this week with the CBS news story featuring Everett Bogue, whose home contains 57 thoughtfully chosen items.

Click HERE to watch the two minute video.

Katy Wolk-Stanley

“Use it up, wear it out, make it do or do without”

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I have recently learned a lesson on how to stay on top of eating my leftovers, which is to make sure that the microwave does not spark and billow smoke. Because I am fully on board with microwaving leftover spaghetti, but to spend time (and effort) heating it in a pan is apparently beyond me.

On today’s to-do list? Search Craigslist for a new microwave.

Katy Wolk-Stanley

“Use it up, wear it out, make it do or do without”

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I have written past columns about five things that make me happy. I like these mini-posts because they’re very to the point and keep the long winded side of me in check. It’s good to remind myself of the happy things, as life can get a bit zooey around here at casa Wolk-Stanley.

But today’s five things that make me happy list doesn’t seem complete without a chaser of two things that piss me off. It somehow balances the treacle-like quality of the cult of happiness. So, here goes . . .

Five Things That Make Me Happy, and Two Things That Piss Me Off

  1. Having get togethers with friends to look forward to. (Grown up play dates?)
  2. Finding out that a task I’ve been avoiding took care of itself.
  3. Discovering cool free entertainment for my family.
  4. Knowing that my neighbors do not judge me for storing our Halloween candy at their house until 5:00 P.M. on October 31st. (And it’s more to keep myself out of the Snickers bars than the kids.)
  5. Being able to walk almost all my errands in my urban neighborhood.
  1. Finding out that the child I put to bed an hour ago is not only out of bed, but is out of his pajamas and now wearing jeans and a long sleeve T-shirt.
  2. Getting to the end of a library audio book and discovering that the very end of the very last disc is scratched.

Okay folks, what are your seven things? Please share your lists in the comments section below.

Katy Wolk-Stanley

“Use it up, wear it out, make it do or do without”

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Thank you to everyone who entered to win one of two different $35 TisBest charitable gift card giveaway packages. Your comments about how you incorporate charitable giving into your lives were both inspiring and thought provoking. Congratulations to Erin G and Jennifer whose comments were randomly chosen to win this week’s Non-Consumer Advocate Monday Giveaway. And a great big thank you to Non-Consumer Advocate reader Tegan, who set up this week’s giveaway!

Here’s just a small sample of the comments about how readers give both their time and money towards charitable giving. Click here to read them all. And make sure to check back in next Monday, when I’ll be doing a giveaway of Jonathan Bloom’s American Wasteland, which is his fantastic exploration of the issues related to food waste.

Katy Wolk-Stanley

“Use it up, wear it out, make it do or do without”

Erin G

“I help my church feed the school kids across the street. A lot of them rely on school lunches for food, so we give them a bag lunch to take with them over the weekend.”

Jennifer

“It’s hard to give back with two young kids, I hope when they’re a little older we’ll be able to volunteer as a family. I’d love to work in an animal shelter–though it would be hard not to take all the animals home. I do donate old towels & blankets to animal shelters when they start to go thin & I always participate in food drives. We always bring our outgrown clothes to Goodwill or other charities/thrift stores.”

Barb @ 1 Sentence Diary

“Giving is a part of life in my household. Two examples:

– Our synagogue collects cereal and pasta for the local food bank (each institution collects different items, so that there will a variety). My kids and I donate cereal and pasta, as well as bring all the donations monthly to the food bank. We also volunteer at the food bank sorting and organizing food for other volunteers who deliver it.

– The 8th night of Hanukkah, in my household, is charity night. The kids pick a charity they want to support, and donations are made in lieu of gifts that night.

I love the idea of these cards. I’m going to look them up right now to consider as gifts. Thanks so much for letting us know about them!”

Sarah

“I give my time (and money through buying supplies) to my local elementary school my son attends. I’m not into the PTO/PTA volunteer situation. I actually spend my time, at least 10 hours a week, inside the classroom. I take care of anything I can for the teacher so she can focus more on the students such as; grade papers, make copies, gather and send out homework, etc…

In addition, I work a lot one on one with the kids. I tutor the children that are having difficult times. Some kids just need that little one on one attention and a quiet atmosphere to learn. Yes, they excel but I literally get a high when they progress. It is the greatest feeling and I get so excited for them.

I give money as well. Actually, I had a New Year’s resolution to never say no to people raising money. I give a minimum of $10 everytime I am asked. Funny thing is, karma is such a good thing. We have been financially blessed beyond belief this year unexpectedly and I truely believe it is because we opened out hearts and wallets to others in need.”

Lucy

“How do I give back to the community? Well, I help people with fundraising projects when they ask! I do a lot of grant proposal writing… paid and as a volunteer.”

Tammy

“I work with a friend of mine and her Mom to provide loaned prom gowns and accessories to local girls who might not get to attend their Jr/Sr proms. We collect donated and thrifted gowns, shoes, accessories, toiletries and if available dinner certificates, hairdo certificates, etc. We ask for the gowns back and cover cleaning, etc. My friend and her Mom are great seamstresses and have been known to hem, tuck, etc. to make a girls dream gown “fit” and I provide handknit ribbon shawls, custom beaded jewelry, etc. We have some local beauty pagent participants help the girls as their personal shoppers to put together that special look. We’ve done this 2 years so far and everyone who has participated has seemed to really enjoy it as we try to make it a really fun shopping event from which the girls leaves with everyone she needs or a plan on how to achieve her dream prom. It’s truly one of the best experiences of my life and we hope to continue for years to come.”

Alicia

“When I had a job, I would donate to the food pantry if I had extra money left over at the end of the month. It didn’t happen very often, but three or four times a year. When I was younger and had no money, I would volunteer to take donations at the local public radio station. Now that I’m a mom, I have little extra money or time — if we do have extra money, I wind up feeling guilty if we don’t add it to our son’s college fund. So I recently decided that for his first birthday (and probably for the first few birthdays) we will ask our guests for no gifts — he has enough stuff already — and instead put out a call for donations to a local charity. If we decide to donate to the food pantry, then I’m going to have my sister make robot decorations out of canned food cans. If we decide to donate to a different kid-centered charity, we will try to find a way to make that part of the party theme.”

Christine

“One of the ways we like to help out our community is with the homeless. During the winter, we always have some blankets in our trunk to give to those who need them. And when we see someone asking for food, we stop by the grocery and buy bread, peanut butter, fruit, and a hot deli item like chicken for them to eat for a few days. We also try to take a few minutes to listen to the person. Its a hard life out there and sometimes people just need to have someone care.”

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The following is a reprint of a previously published post. Enjoy!

suitcase

Summer is a time of travel. Your journey might be to far flung locales, or as close as a weekend at the beach. Either way, you’re going to need to fill a suitcase with the necessaries of life.

My family has had a few high stress travel events that streamlined our packing routine. Mostly, it was a two week trip to Japan in 2007 which my husband Dale, and then 11-year-old son went on. The packing list was very specific and everything (including host family gifts) had to fit into a standard 29″ rolling suitcase. We didn’t actually own any rolling suitcases, (29″ or otherwise) and I was unsuccessful at scoring one from a thrift store.

So, did I shell out the cash for a somewhat poor quality suitcase that would fit within our stretched budget?

No way! I found suitcases to borrow instead.

I have since scored a high end Sampsonite brand rolling suitcase in a thrift store for only $6. (I checked, and to buy it new would have been $150+.)

What’s the lesson here?

If there’s something you need and aren’t able to find an acceptable used version of, then perhaps you should look to borrow one. (It goes without saying that keeping good care of it is a priority, and that you should look for an opportunity to do a favor for the lender.) Putting off this purchase saved us over $140 had we bought a high end suitcase, and saved us from spending $40 on a poor quality one.

We now have enough nice luggage for most travel situations, but that doesn’t mean we don’t borrow a few things here and there. My ten-year-old wants his own rolling suitcase, but there’s no hurry on that. I’ll just keep an eye out.

Do you feel comfortable borrowing from others, or does it make you feel uneasy? Please share your thoughts in the commentssection below.

Katy Wolk-Stanley

“Use it up, wear it out, make it do or do without.”

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A Gallery of Decluttered Items

by Katy on October 25, 2010 · 9 comments

I have been working hard to declutter my big ol’ house over the last few years, and lately have been putting in an extra va-va-voom into the effort. Here’s a short gallery of a few of the items that have left my life through Criagslist and consignment shops over the past few weeks. I think I may need to apologize in advance for some bad Star Wars puns.

Katy Wolk-Stanley

“Use it up, wear it out, make it do or do without”

My cute Goodwill Dansko Mary Janes. I wanted you to fit, yet you never really did. You are now for sale at an expensive consignment store for $45.00.

Hello 50 cent Hanna Andersson thrift store jammies. I sold you on Craigslist for between $10 and $12 apiece.

So long painted game table. You were a free coffee table that my sister and I painted up cute for my older son. I was sad to see you go, but the $50 I got from a Craigslist buyer soothed my wounds.

Farewell dear Darth Vader cardboard standup. You were the centerpiece of three different birthday parties. My husband will miss you the most, but the $15 we received in exchange brought us over to the dark side.

Be gone Darth Vader cookie jar. You collected greasy dust on top of the refrigerator. The $10 you brought us will be better than any Wookie Cookie.

Sayonara Darth Vader voice changer masks. You took up way too much room in my sons' closet, and he was happy to make room for the $30 you brought into his life.

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Not Too Proud For Messed Up Cake

by Katy on October 24, 2010 · 10 comments

Today’s post will be pretty short. I’m actually stealing a moment during my 15-year-old son’s birthday party. It’s a casual party, with just a handful of friends, a lot of snacks and an excursion over to an old-timey arcade. (They have Skee-Ball!)

As easy as this sounds, I ended up making the cake not one, not two, but three times! The first batch of homemade chocolate cupcakes turned out all collapsed in the center, which I attributed to undercooking them. (I was preparing a meal for nine people at the time, so my mind was elsewhere.) The second batch was a cake, not cupcakes as I no longer had enough paper liners. This cake also collapsed and refused to budge from the pan, and then came out in pieces. At this point I realized that my oh so brag worth organic, fair trade unbleached sugar was not to be used for baking! So this morning I went out into the rain and bought a can’t screw it up cake mix.

Luckily, the assembled masses devoured last night’s mess up cupcakes, and I’m saving the ugly but still tasty cake for the party guests. (seriously, they are 15 and 14-year-old boys not Martha Stewart!)

Anyway, gotta go!

Katy Wolk-Stanley

“Use it up, wear it out, make it do or do without”

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