Five Frugal Things

by Katy on July 29, 2024 · 45 comments

  1. I continue to cook from scratch while visiting with my sister in NYC, even though her neighborhood has multiple tempting restaurants. Tonight was a taco/tostada buffet using pinto beans cooked in her Instant Pot and yesterday was okonomiyaki, inspired by a single cabbage that I found in the back of her refrigerator.

    Neither of us are rolling in dough, so this benefits both of us.

  2. My sister used her association with The American Museum of Natural History to arrange free tickets for my neighbor Laura and her son, (including a “special exhibit,” plus entrance to the Hadyn Planetarium!) This was a $63 value and I’m really pleased that I was able to arrange this benefit for my friend. She and I hung out a couple weeks ago and she happened to mention that she was taking her son to New York for a couple of days, so this worked out perfectly for them.

  3. Tonight was garbage night, so my sister and I took a slow stroll through her neighborhood and brought home a small metal shelving unit, (her) and two unused zip ties, (me.) Okay, the zip ties weren’t really a “garbage night” item, but I was still happy to tuck them into my purse for later usage.

  4. • I used the last of some plum sauce from last week’s Indian takeout over the okonomiyaki and the last of some spicy green sauce for tonight’s tacos. (Thank you Greta for schlepping takeout all the way from Jackson Heights, Queens to The Bronx!) Asian fusion?
    • My sister and I have been watching the Olympics through the Peacock app, which I get for free through my at home internet service.
    • I found a filthy penny on the ground today, so yes . . . I did recently come into some money.

  5. No Lear Jet and I didn’t pay $64.99 for a single ticket to Madame Tussaud’s.

Now your turn! What frugal things have you been up to?

Katy Wolk-Stanley

“Use it up, wear it out, make it do or do without.”

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I’m still visiting with my sister in New York City and we’re spending our time in the house that she bought in 2023. You may not aware of this, but my sister is a groovy and creative artist and her homes have always been a outlet for her personal style.

The previous owners of her house did not share her aesthetic. However, it’s all perfectly functional and like me, my sister forgot to be a trust fund baby.

Take her lampshade as an example. This antique floor lamp was a hand-me-down from a friend who moved to Germany and the standard lampshade was garbage picked. My crafty sister crocheted around it using yarn she already owned and then beaded the trim to create a unique and one of a kind shade.

 

 

This is my sister’s dining room light fixture and while it’s perfectly functional, it doesn’t match her style whatsoever. However, it’s functional and can work as a place holder until some random New Yorker sets an amazing vintage chandelier out on their front stoop.

It’s a “place holder” and place holders play an important role in frugality as they allow time to patiently source a second hand (and hopefully free) replacement. That process can take years, but since there’s no deadline, there’s no hurry.

 

 

My sister’s elaborate window treatments are another example of something in her home that are currently serving as a place holder. They came with the house and there’s nothing technically wrong with them, but they’re just not her style. Her plan is to sew less formal curtains, but she hasn’t had a chance to prioritize the project. Until then they’ll do.

 

These kitchen curtains are a better example of her personal style. She made them from a vintage tablecloth and even crocheted the cute trim onto the hem. Think HGTV Handmade Home instead of a ten-year-old Southern Living magazine.

Please note the lampshade, which she made using fabric from a garbage picked vintage flat sheet. Again, yes, my sister is both creative and groovy.

 


One of the key tenets of frugality is the art of patience. (Purchase in haste, repent in leisure?) This is because you rarely find a bargain when impulse shopping, plus it’s a more complicated process when your budget is “garbage picked” and your style is unique. I’m sure she’ll figure out cooler lighting and window treatments, but until then, she can “make it do.”

Katy Wolk-Stanley

“Use it up, wear it out, make it do or do without.”

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Under Consumption Core!

by Katy on July 25, 2024 · 32 comments

There’s a viral “underconsumption core” trend happening on Instagram and TikTok right now. It’s essentially non-consumerism, but rebranded for a savvy young audience. Buying fewer items, using up toiletries before buying new ones, repairing instead of replacing, buying used instead of new — essentially just being mindful of spending with an focus on sustainability.

It would be easy to dismiss underconsumption core as yet another superficial social media trend, but I see it as a reaction to the buy buy buy culture that so many were raised in. We’ve all witnessed recent examples of baffling overconsumption where people fight one another for Stanley cups, Trader Joe’s mini coolers or whatever else becomes the “it” thing to buy. It’s unsustainable and frankly, it’s crass and morally reprehensible to support this level of consumerism.

I made a decision in 2006 to stop buying anything new, and it’s about the best choice I’ve ever made. Not just financially, but also from a sustainability and minimalism standpoint. It forced me to critically think my own role as a consumer and how my personal choices effect the world I live in.

Whether you refer to it as underconsumption core, nonconsumerism or just minimalism, it’s a trend I can get behind.

#underconsumptioncore

Katy Wolk-Stanley

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Five Frugal Things

by Katy on July 22, 2024 · 65 comments

 

  1. I went for a brief stroll around my sister’s NYC neighborhood and came across a yard debris container filled with pruned scraps from someone’s Limelight Hydrangea shrub. I helped myself to a few and brought them home for a delightful bouquet of flowers.

  2. I also found a quarter and a penny while out and about, so I stuck my hand through a slightly nasty chain link fence to compose a pretty photo for the blog. If you look really carefully you can see the Manhattan skyline in the background. And not to brag, but I found another penny later that evening!

  3. I garbage picked a pair of outdoor side tables for my sister’s back deck. Not as nice as the patio chair I curb picked in Brooklyn last year, but they’ll work as place holders until her neighbors set out something nicer.

    If nothing else, the price was right. Plus, they follow the current “under consumption core” trend.

  4. I learned that The Multnomah County Library offers Book Club Kits, which allow patrons to check out tote bags filled with ten copies of a specific book. There are 141 options at the moment, including The Heart of Horses, by Molly Gloss and A Wizard of Earthsea by Ursula LeGuin, both Portland authors.

    As they explain it:

    “Let us support your book club by providing 10 copies of a highly-discussable book on a six-week loan. We have titles in fiction, nonfiction, memoirs and large print available so you and your fellow readers can explore a variety of stories. “

    I absolutely love this Pageturners To Go  program, as it can be cost prohibitive to participate in a book club, especially as new releases have insanely long library wait lists. I looked it up and it appears that many other library systems offer the same or similar programs for their patrons, so hopefully this’ll help readers outside the Portland area.

  5. No Lear Jet. No Amazon Prime Day “deals.”

Katy Wolk-Stanley

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Five Tiny Frugal Things

by Katy on July 20, 2024 · 28 comments

  1.  We made “nacho bean dip” for dinner last night, which was a big hit with everyone. This involved cooking up black beans in her Instant Pot and then layering it with Trader Joe’s soy chorizo, sautéed onions and peppers, Tillamook cheddar cheese (my hostess gift) and then baking it all together. We then topped it with tomato, avocado and sour cream. Needless to say, there were tortilla chips for scooping.

    My sister’s family used to make this meal on the regular when her kids were growing up, so it was very much a sentimental hit. This was super duper yummy, plus healthy and frugal! I suppose it could also serve it with warmed corn tortillas, but the crunch of the tortilla chips really make the meal.

    Fun fact: My sister didn’t realize that her microwave was also a convection oven. Now she does.

  2. My sister just got a free convection oven!

  3. My sister needed more washcloths, so she’s crocheting them from yarn she already owns.

  4. We haven’t gone anywhere or done anything outside the house since our single day in Manhattan. I have walked her dog around the neighborhood which resulted in me finding a single penny. Frugal?

  5. No delayed Lear Jet flights.

Katy Wolk-Stanley

“Use it up, wear it out, make it do or do without.”

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Five Frugal Things in NYC

by Katy on July 18, 2024 · 46 comments

I’m still in New York helping out my sister, which explains why my “frugal things” are all NYC based.

1) My adult nephew and I had an entire day to kill in the city, but needed to stay within a specific neighborhood. We’d already had coffee and free pastries at Paris Baguette, but we still needed a third space where we could park ourselves. Our first thought the NY Public Library for the Performing Arts, but my nephew had an online class, which would be too noisy for a library environment. Instead we chose to hang out in the Lincoln Center lobby.

They provided a climate controlled space, immaculate bathrooms, comfortable seating options and an infinite loop of digital interpretive dancers.

I kid you not.

My nephew also told me about NYC Privately Owned Public Spaces, which are:

“Privately owned public spaces, also known by the acronym POPS, are spaces dedicated to public use and enjoyment and which are owned and maintained by private property owners, in exchange for bonus floor area or waivers. More than 590 POPS provide a myriad of opportunities to sit, relax, people watch, eat, meet others – in other words, to partake and enjoy in urban life in one of the world’s greatest cities.”

You can find a “POPS” location by clicking HERE.

To clarify, I don’t think that the Lincoln Center lobby was an official “POPS” spot, but we were far from the only people using this beautiful space to hang out or meet up with friends.

 

2) I walked to the grocery store to pick up a couple nights of dinner ingredients. It’s always interesting shop at regional food stores when away from home, even when that travel is within your own country. My sister’s standard grocery store has frozen Arthur Avenue (“Little Italy in the Bronx”) frozen ravioli, fresh pickles and a permanent display of everything needed to make tiramisu. They also had fresh bagels, (duh!) and multiple non-corporate brands of ricotta.

My favorite souvenir to bring home from traveling is regionally specific food, as it makes a great gift and doesn’t contribute to clutter.

3) I might meet up with a couple of my NYC based friends while I’m here, but they’ll need come to me which’ll simplify my trip.

4)   • I bought a bagel and cream cheese at the grocery store, but added my own tomato and cucumber            at the house.
• My nephew and I picked up $9 halal cart lunches and brought them back to the Lincoln Center lobby.
• It rained with might and fury last night and I consequently didn’t need to water my sister’s extensive garden today.

5) I didn’t waste money on gauze for a non-existent injury.

Katy Wolk-Stanley

“Use it up, wear it out, make it do or do without.”

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Five Frugal Things

by Katy on July 16, 2024 · 55 comments

  1. I recently rediscovered the British TV show Money For Nothing on Amazon Prime, which might’ve been produced specifically for me as their sole audience. The show’s format is to take items being dumped into the “tip” and transform them into “bespoke and valuable pieces” for resale. The host then returns any profit to the original owners.

    So . . . a woman who takes stuff about to be thrown away and upcycles it back into functionality? Yes, please!

  2. Edit: For clarification I took this photo at 6:55 P.M., which I do not consider to be “night.”

    I took public transportation from Newark airport to my sister’s house in The Bronx over the weekend. Normally this is a fairly straightforward (if lengthy) process, but there was confusing signage about a subway line change, which resulted in an extra hour-and-a-half to get to my sister’s doorstep.

    Both these signs were on the same subway platform. This one made me think that the “E” train would only be diverted during “overnight” hours:

    This sign, (again on the same platform) clarified that it was “overnight and all weekend!”

    Please validate my experience and tell me that you would’ve also been confused!

  3. Of course I travel with frugality in mind. Here’s how I’m enjoying my trip so far without breaking the bank.

    • I bought my plane ticket using credit card points, although I did have to pay $200 or so to consolidate “miles” from one account into another.
    • I brought my own food and water on the airplane and made sure to book a direct flight to avoid layover shenanigans.
    • My nephew and I both downloaded the Paris Baguette app to earn free pastry rewards with purchase. I chose the ham and cheese croissant with a medium drip coffee, and it was both fresh and perfectly flaky!
    • I used my sister’s NYC library card to check out a copy of A Tree Grows in Brooklyn, which was displayed as part of their “Read Banned Books” display. I’m having fun with my Powell’s Summer Reading Challenge bingo card and “read a banned book” is the upper lefthand square. 

  4. I sold a curb picked Ikea lighted mirror for $15 through Facebook Marketplace. So yeah . . . I recently came into some money!

  5. No legal fees to escape prosecution for treason.

Katy Wolk-Stanley

“Use it up, wear it out, make it do or do without.”

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Frugal From Morning ‘Til Night!

by Katy on July 13, 2024 · 44 comments

Yesterday was weird, as it started with a blow out pity party, (please refer to exhibit A) but ended up being productive and enjoyable by day’s end. I’d already planned on taking my daughter to lunch as I won’t be seeing her until next month and I’m too much of a helicopter mom to let that happen.

I had a bit left on a restaurant gift card from Christmas, which guided where we ate. The total with tip was $17, which I consider to be a bargain. We then stopped by my mother’s house for a quick but satisfying visit and called it good.

 

My next stop was the Powell’s Books on Hawthorne Boulevard to see if they wanted to buy any of the books from my after garage sale adventures a couple weeks ago. They chose enough for $29.50 in store credit, which I held onto for a future purchases. I’ve used Powell’s credit to buy Stumptown coffee beans at the downtown location in the past. I like the idea of transforming people’s discarded books into groceries, as it feels naughty but clever.

I also found a quarter on the sidewalk outside Powell’s!

 

I then slotted unsold books into a Little Free Library.

 

 

I also stopped by the library to pick up my hold copy of Alisa and Ian Karmel’s  T-Shirt Swim Club, which I’m now saving to read on the airplane. I’m friends with the authors’ proud mama and have heard terrific buzz surrounding this book.

 

 

My last stop was Fred Meyer to have keys made and pick up a couple pints of ice cream. My late in-laws have a sizable (and pricey) storage unit filled with stuff and there was just a single tiny key for the lock. I worried that this is a dangerous game to play, so I offered to get a pair of backup keys made to save the future cost and annoyance of hiring a locksmith.

 

 

You might be asking yourself, “Yes, but why is this errand ‘keys and ice cream?!’ “

I present exhibit B:

 

I can’t let these puppies expire!

I knew I’d be running these errands, but I did have one surprise, which is that Powell’s is hosting a “Summer Reading Challenge” for both kids and adults!

 

 

I don’t know if this is new to 2024, but I’m definitely going to play! After all, you get a $5 voucher for getting five-in-a-row on the bingo card. Plus you can enter to win a bigger prize if you achieve a “blackout.”

 

 

Free ice cream and a game to play? Turned out to not be too shabby of a day.

Katy Wolk-Stanley

“Use it up, wear it out, make it do or do without.”

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Brain Dump — Feeling Unmotivated

by Katy on July 12, 2024 · 51 comments

Today’s blog post is a straight up brain dump (foot dump?) as my mind is scattered and I don’t have it in me to focus my thoughts into a coherent frugality post.

My Left Foot

Let’s start with my left foot, although not in a Daniel Day-Lewis way. I have a plantar fibroma, which took a couple years to diagnose as not being plantar fasciitis. I finally got an ultrasound guided steroidal injection in April of 2023, which helped tremendously, although it did take a week or so to fully take effect. Well it’s back, so I made an appointment this Wednesday with the same sports medicine doctor (sports, me?!) and got a repeat treatment.

Smart plan, right? Long term — yes, short term — OWWWW! Now I feel I’m both stepping on a Lego and that my left foot is acutely cramped. Am I explaining this well? Who knows, I’m just a hobbling self pitying woman with a long to-do list and a looming trip to NYC. Send strength and bagels.

Travel

This NYC trip is to help my sister with a project, but I’m feeling very unmotivated in the here and now. I am doing a couple loads of laundry at the moment so I can travel with clean clothing instead of day-three summer shorts, which I guess counts as productivity. I’ll unload the folded laundry directly into my suitcase which I consider to be a clever plan.

My husband is staying here in Portland, so I don’t have to button up the house and I’ll be traveling to my sister’s home, so I don’t need to worry about bringing random comfort items such as playing cards, a backup book, etc. These details make this trip easier to prepare for, so I suppose I should actively appreciate these aspects.

My thoughts are on my foot.

C’mon, Katy — End on a Positive Note

I did have a nice couple days, despite my foot.

• I socialized with two different neighbors, one of which included an almond croissant.
• I stopped by my father’s house and enjoyed a nice visit on the porch, which was pleasant as we’re finally past our heat wave. This included some Greek salad.
• I have a direct flight to NYC, so I won’t be stomping 10,000 steps through the Denver airport as I do when I fly to Nebraska.
• I continue to cook from scratch and not buy anything as I already own pretty much everything I need in life. I don’t require a cute new look for NYC and my thrifted suitcase’ll do the trick.
• A mother and baby raccoon crashed my backyard neighbor date, which was adorable but mildly frightening as I was worried that A) the mom would feel the need to protect her young, and B) rabies. She hiss/gurgled at us and went on her way. Still cute.

 

Brain dump. Sorry.

Katy Wolk-Stanley

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Five Tiny Frugal Things

by Katy on July 10, 2024 · 53 comments

  1. I sold a second pair of Adidas sneakers* from my evening of aprés-garage sale freebies. Not a fortune at $18, but still 100% profit since I got them for free. For those keeping track, this is what I’ve sold so far:

    • IKEA outdoor table — $50
    • Tempered glass coffee table — $20
    • REI suitcase — $50
    • Adidas Samba sneakers — $45
    • Random stuff to a consignment shop — $11.70
    • Adidas Sam Smith sneakers — $18

    Total — $194.70

  2. We avoided the temptation of takeout during Portland’s beastly heatwave, even going so far as to plug the Instant Pot into an outdoor outlet at one point. Front porch black beans? Yes, please!

  3. I’ll be going to NYC next week to help my sister with a project, so I’ve pulled out my Master Travel List™, which helps keep me from forgetting important items or tasks. I won’t actually need everything on this list, as my sister’s house is fully stocked, but it should help me avoid buying things I left at home.

    It’s currently sitting on the coffee table so I can jot down thoughts as they come to mind.

  4. • I chopped and froze four purple onions that were on the verge of retirement. This unfortunately flavored our ice cream, but we’re eating it anyway. Would not recommend.
    • My husband and I are keeping meticulous track of the money we’re spending for his father’s estate, to make sure we can be promptly (and properly) reimbursed when his house sells.
    • I ordered a pair of used Allbird sneakers from eBay and paid just $31 including shipping. They came and look brand new!

  5. I didn’t accept the airline’s offer to upgrade to first class for a mere 1,150 extra dollars.

Katy Wolk-Stanley

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