Non-Consumer Photo Essay

by Katy on December 29, 2023 · 58 comments

I continue my efforts to pull meals together from the excess of my refrigerator contents. This here is a last half of a bag of spinach, the last of some smoked salmon, homemade sauerkraut and two eggs.

I put a few more things up for offer through my Buy Nothing group, including this needlepoint pillow that I thrifted a few years ago. Looking at the photo, I realize that it’s remarkably shaped like the state of Oregon.

You see it too, right?Today I stepped out of my car and looked down to find this soggy trampled rag towel at my feet. So I brought it home to launder and add it to my stash of cleaning towels. I hate abandoned objects that still have potential use.

Here’s the quicky and dirty painting I did for my mother, since her Christmas present wasn’t going to come until after the holidays. It turns out that she was genuinely worried that I’d bought her pair of Doc Martin boots!

That’s about it, as my week was far from aesthetic. Lots of dull errands and putting the house back to rights.

Katy Wolk-Stanley

“Use it up, wear it out, make it do or do without.”

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Five Tiny Frugal Things

by Katy on December 28, 2023 · 93 comments

  1. I was in a bit of a post-holiday slump today, so I decided to be extra productive to see if I could at best distract myself; and at worst check some dull tasks from my to-do list. Here’s what I did:

    • I raked the last of the soggy leaves from the backyard. Mostly.
    • I dropped plastics recycling off at New Seasons Market.
    • I returned a board game to Goodwill.
    • I took our two winning scratch-it lottery tickets to 7-11 for a whopping $6. I then had a nice long chat with the owner, who’s an old friend.
    • I stopped into Safeway to pick up my pre-colonoscopy prescription and a dozen eggs.

  2. We’ve been eating leftovers since Christmas and since the contents of our refrigerator resembles a tightly packed Tetris game, it’ll be a good long while until we need to do a proper grocery shop again. Eating what we’ve already bought is always the most frugal choice.

  3. I took down all the Christmas decor on the 26th, mostly prompted by the kitten’s aggressive tree climbing. I didn’t want my precious garbage picked Christmas tree to suffer irreparable harm, so it’s safely back in storage until 2024. A year when Chanukah and Christmas both start on December 25th.

    A free tree must be protected at all costs, as I’m unlikely to come across another one.

  4. • I registered all our losing scratch-it lottery tickets for a “second chance” on the Oregon lottery app. Please cross your fingers for us!
    • I listed a large basket and an antique throw pillow on my Buy Nothing group. Part of my never ending effort to rehome the “cool” things I bring home, but now just clutter the home.

  5. I didn’t thrift any tiny Lear Jets.

Katy Wolk-Stanley

“Use it up, wear it out, make it do or do without.”

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A Christmas Recap

by Katy on December 27, 2023 · 30 comments


Christmas is finally in the rear view mirror, so I can now safely share my gifts without spoiling things for family members who read the blog.

• I bought each of my kids a new pair of Doc Martins per their request.
• I also bought them both new sets of sheets, which I ordered through eBay to avoid enriching a certain Schmeff Schmezos.
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I filled each of their stockings with treats such as Toblerone bars, a Terry’s chocolate orange, a can of Boss Coffee and two scratch-off lottery tickets. One of my kids won $2.
• My husband and I don’t exchange gifts, but I did put treats into a stocking for him. This included two losing lottery tickets.
• I don’t normally exchange gifts with my father, but I gave him a “Purple Heart” that I rooted from my sister’s plant last August. This was a significant gift as my sister’s plant was rooted my father’s late sister.
• My husband and I gave his father a $200 Instacart gift card, (which I bought at Costco) as well as a basket of gourmet treats, mostly homemade.
• I gave my mother a goofy squirrel feeder, as well as homemade treats and a pair of Uggs from Zappos, which was a shared gift from both me and my sister.
• I gave my step father a 1949 Holiday magazine that I’d read about somewhere and bought on eBay. This particular issue was all about NYC, (his birthplace) with articles from notable writers such as E.B. White.
• I don’t exchange Christmas gifts with my sister, although I did buy her a pair of Doc Martins for her birthday last week. I then Venmo’d money to my niece and nephew. Because that’s what college kids actually want.

It wasn’t a particularly cheap Christmas with all the new shoes, but I feel good with all my choices. Especially since I was able to avoid shopping from Schmamazon.

Schmuck that guy.

Katy Wolk-Stanley

“Use it up, wear it out, make it do or do without.”

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Five Frugal Things

by Katy on December 24, 2023 · 36 comments

  1. I ordered a gift for my mother that won’t come until after the holidays, so I painted a picture of the gift. Just like I did for my daughter’s Doc Martins a few years ago.

  2. I have these Pottery Barn velvet and silk pillow shams that I absolutely love. They’re the perfect weight and softness, but I acutely dislike the orange-y coral color, so I ordered a packet of Rit dye.


    I’d hoped for more of a darker burgundy tone, but the dark pink accidentally matches my handmade Marimekko lampshade so I’ll take the win.

  3. I thrifted this handmade Christmas stocking last year, as it was too spectacularly ugly to leave behind. I paid maybe a buck-ninety-nine.

    However I felt it was time to pass it along to someone new, so I put up a post in my Buy Nothing group saying “Offer: The world’s ugliest Xmas stocking. Perfect for a white elephant gift exchange or giving to your least favorite relative.”

    I quickly got a response from someone who needed something for a white  elephant gift exchange and she’s promised to let me know the response.

  4. • I gave and received Christmas treats with multiple neighbors.
    • I borrowed my next door neighbor’s fondue pot, which is my annual tradition.
    • I’m either wrapping all our gifts in pillow cases or not wrapping them at all. I hate the waste and don’t like having to store wrapping paper.

  5. I didn’t buy a Lear Jet.

Katy Wolk-Stanley

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Five Tiny Frugal Things

by Katy on December 22, 2023 · 41 comments

  1. I got a letter in the mail informing me that my credit union had “not yet received payment on your account.” My credit card account! My husband and I rarely use this card, as we prefer a different card with perks. This card is set to automatically pay off every month, or so I thought! I clicked into the account and found $55.30 in late fees, so I drove down to the brick and mortar branch and met with an employee.

    The credit union employee guessed that there’d been a “hiccup” with the account and was able to reverse the late fees. We once again have the account set to automatically pay off every month.

  2. The credit union is down the street from H Mart, so I nipped in to pick up various Japanese treats for the kids’ stockings. Batching errands for the win!

  3. I’ve reached the point of Christmas shopping where I’m panic shopping looser with my budget. However, I still want to buy used as much as possible. I decided to get each of the kids a new set of sheets, so I went on eBay and bought each of them a “new” set from an independent seller. In original packaging and for the low-ish cost of $19 and $23.99, including shipping. I can cross it off my list without enriching a certain bloated billionaire whose name rhymes with Schmeff Schmezos.

    These sheet sets are both brand new, yet purchasing them doesn’t prompt a replacement set to be manufactured. I call that an environmental win.

  4. Our minivan has been having issues with a phantom electrical draw that emptied the battery and had us stymied. My husband initially took it to Les Schwab, where we’d bought the battery four months ago, but they assured us that there was nothing wrong with it. My husband then researched how to check the alternator and was even convinced for a bit that we had a problem with one of the automatic side doors. We plunked down money for both a battery charger and a portable battery jumper.

    My husband finally brought it to the mechanic at work who tested everything and diagnosed it as . . .  a battery issue! Les Schwab finally confirmed and replaced it at no cost to us.

    My husband tried to pay the mechanic for his time, but he refused compensation. So instead I sent my husband into work today with a rather sizable tin of assorted Christmas cookies. Which probably cost $4 to make.

    I’m pretty irked about the time and expense spent trying to figure out what was wrong with the car when it was as simple as a faulty battery. I suppose I could raise a stink, but instead I’ll chalk it up to “shit happens” and move on.

  5. I didn’t thrift any tiny Lear Jets.

Katy Wolk-Stanley

“Use it up, wear it out, make it do or do without.”

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Non-Consumer Photo Essay

by Katy on December 21, 2023 · 25 comments

I accompanied a friend to Target and paused by an empty bank of self-checkout registers. Me being me, (unapologetically cheap) I glanced under the registers and was rewarded with a quarter, a dime and two pennies. The 2023 Found Change Challenge finish line is right around the corner, so I’m relieved to add an extra 37¢ to this year’s meager money haul.

I saw an Instagram reel about how it’s become a mid-winter tradition to read Susan Cooper’s The Dark is Rising during the winter solstice. (There’s even a BBC podcast!) I love this series, but hadn’t thought about it since I read it aloud to my daughter when she was a kid. Luckily our copy survived multiple rounds of decluttering and was easily located. Officially the group read starts on the solstice, but my day was completely open due to an ill behaved car battery. In other words, the perfect opportunity to lose myself in a book.

And on a frugal note . . . the replacement battery was covered under the warranty.

You may remember that I gave butternut squash soup to my neighbors in Bonne Maman jars last week. Well . . . they boomeranged back with Almond Roca in them. An honorable trade.

My father gave me an envelope of family photos and memorabilia to look over, which included a piece of my great grandfather’s letterhead. Nat Sanger was a successful businessman, with multiple menswear stores in Pittsburgh, Pennsylvania. It took maybe two minutes to find this photo of his “O.P.O.” (one price only) store from 1915 on the internet. The “one price” was a reference to his no haggling policy, which was a modern concept at the time.

Note his name and logo in the tile vestibule.

I also found this postcard of his lake house, which I mostly know from stories of how it burned down without insurance. (Also how a panicked maid threw a phonograph out a second story window to “save it!”) Somewhere I have a photo of my teenage grandmother lounging on that wraparound porch, which has always been a special picture.

I never met the man as he died in 1929, but it’s still amazing to find these photos.

Katy Wolk-Stanley

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Five Frugal Things

by Katy on December 18, 2023 · 80 comments

  1. Now that Chanukah is over, it’s time to pull out my two bins of Christmas stuff, which means our enormous garbage picked artificial tree and the hodge podge of hand-me-downs and thrifted decor. Cheap and irresponsibly manufactured holiday products have somehow become a normalized component of the holiday season; and it’s downright depressing to witness the store to landfill waste stream.

    I just want you to know that it’s okay to decorate lightly with what you already have.

    Sometimes it’s best to just tape a red nose on your existing decor!

  2. I took the last of a gallon of slightly sour milk and made a bit of ricotta cheese by simmering the milk and adding a splash of white vinegar. I then strained it through a dish towel to separate the whey from the milk solids. The whey can be saved for bread baking and the “ricotta” paired  with pasta. Easy and without food waste.

  3. I made a big pot of chicken soup using just a single frozen leg quarter. Of course I also added onions, garlic, dried chives, carrots, potatoes, peas, herbs and spices. I love using my Instant Pot for soups and beans, as it’s as easy as pushing the buttons that says “soup” or “beans.” I know that Instant Pots are a trend that came and went at this point, but having a pressure cooker that doesn’t require babysitting is a game changer. Game changer!

  4. • I sold a thrifted University of Portland diploma cover to someone in Guam. Thanks, eBay!
    • I carpooled to Trader Joe’s and the hardware store with my friend Lise. I hadn’t planned on shopping on a weekend so close to Christmas, but I couldn’t turn down the offer to combine an unpleasant task with socializing. Plus, I needed a fresh gallon of milk.
    • I held off on buying a couple items from my grocery list at Trader Joe’s as they were significantly more expensive than Winco. Example? $3.29 for a bag of onions, versus $1.29 at Winco.
    • I listened to Jennette McCurdy’s I’m Glad My Mom Died through the free Libby app.
    • My across the street neighbors let me set our yard debris can out with their pickup, so I raked their front yard as a thank you. We share garbage service with other neighbors, which means we our yard debris turn is only every other week.
    • I made a double batch of ginger snaps to give as gifts and immediately put them in the freezer so we wouldn’t be tempted to snack on them.
    • My next door neighbor accidentally bought two bags of rosemary crostini bread, so he gave them to us. I stuck a bag in the freezer and grilled and served the rest with the chicken soup. I gifted him a jar of homemade butternut squash soup as a thank you.
    • I went to watch my husband play hockey and found a quarter, two dimes and a penny outside the rink. That is my idea of a spectator sport!

  5. I didn’t buy a Lear Jet.

Katy Wolk-Stanley

“Use it up, wear it out, make it do or do without.”

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Non-Consumer Photo Essay

by Katy on December 16, 2023 · 19 comments

Today’s photo essay is a bit hodge-podgey, but just how life is this time of year.

I thrifted this American Girl doll (with A.G. branded clothing and shoes)for just $2.99. I’ll try to sell her locally on Facebook Marketplace.

I also thrifted a brand new Schlage doorknob lever set for just $4.99, which was a perfect find as the previous basement doorknob is the literal worst. Too small, hard to grip and a special kind of ugly. Yes, the door is dirty, it’s not visible unless you’re standing directly in front of it, which apparently I don’t do all the often.

I’d been wanting to switch to a lever style handle, as I often have my hands awkwardly full of heavy laundry and struggle to open this door. The lever handle makes it 72.6% easier to open the door.

I even had it on my to-do list to stop by the Habitat ReStore to shop for a better knob.

Another example that there’s almost nothing that can’t be thrifted. By the way, I’m fine with the brass/brushed nickel combination. It doesn’t matter.

My husband and I stopped  by Costco for a few items and we bought six 2-1/2 pound bags of coffee as it had a $7 instant savings rebate. I don’t drink coffee at home, but my husband does, so this’ll keep him inexpensively caffeinated for a good long time.

Being able to spend $89.94 at one go without blinking an eye is a privileged place to be, and don’t think for a moment that don’t appreciate where we are in our financial journey.


Katy Wolk-Stanley

“Use it up, wear it out, make it do or do without.”

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Five Tiny Frugal Things

by Katy on December 12, 2023 · 43 comments

  1. I thrifted a full box of menorah candles for 99¢, which beats the $18 ones I bought (and promptly returned) from Powell’s Books.

  2. I also picked up a Land’s End Christmas stocking for $2.99 and promptly took it home to pick out the stitched name and put it up on eBay for $50.

  3. I stepped outside of Goodwill to be immediately greeted by the shiniest 2023 penny! Why yes, I did recently come into some money!

  4. My son and I baked up and decorated a batch of Chanukah cookies, including some components from a “Chanukah Sweater” cookie kit that I bought on clearance last year. My son made a “Seinfeld” sweater, which inspired me to make a “Festivus” cookie, complete with a decorative Festivus pole.

    Festivus, for the rest of us.

  5. I didn’t thrift any tiny Lear Jets.

Katy Wolk-Stanley

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Five Frugal Things

by Katy on December 11, 2023 · 34 comments

  1. I walked to Powell’s Books to return the pricey menorah candles I didn’t end up needing, as well as a bag of books to sell. They’ve switched to only buying books Friday through Sunday, so I patted myself on the back for remembering this fact on a random Saturday. I then detoured to pick up a Buy Nothing item and meandered home. Lastly, I found a quarter on the ground.

    • Returned something.
    • Sold something.
    • Got something for free.
    • Found some money.
    • A bit of exercise.

    My kind of day.

  2. We’re starting to tighten up our gift giving plans, which includes an Instacart gift card for an elderly family member who uses the service for all his grocery shopping. (Don’t worry, he doesn’t read the blog!) I checked Costco.com and discovered that we’d save $40 buying the gift card through their website!

    Purchased. Printed. Done!

    Remember to check Costco for discounted gift cards!

  3. I was in the mood to rewatch the 1988 movie Crossing Delancey, but it wasn’t available through any of our current streaming services. However, I did find a “Free With Ads” version on Youtube, which was a perfectly acceptable compromise. Such a sweet movie and an acceptable number of invasive advertisements. I even convinced my son to watch it with me.

    My husband and I lived in the Lower East Side neighborhood of New York City around the same era as the movie and there were still open barrel Jewish pickle vendors, which made me feel like a time traveler from the turn of the century.

  4. • I mixed up another batch of latkes, this time making them all cute and tiny. I topped the above ones with sauerkraut and pickled red onion, furikake and everything but the bagel. Plus sour cream — always sour cream!

    • My husband worked EMS for a hockey game and came home with a coupon for free curly fries from Carl’s Jr as the team scored a certain number of goals. It doesn’t expire until next June, so I stuck it in my wallet for some later time.
    • I used a coupon for a free pint of Haagen Dazs and then scanned the receipt into Ibotta* for an extra $1.50 rebate.

  5. I didn’t buy a Lear Jet.

Katy Wolk-Stanley

“Use it up, wear it out, make it do or do without.”

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