Giveaway -- Gretchen Rubin's "Happier at Home"

This giveaway has ended. Congratulations to Erin and Elisa who both won copies of "Happier at Home."

I have a very special treat for you today, as Gretchen Rubin had her publisher send not one but two giveaway copies of her brand new book Happier at Home: Kiss More, Jump more, Abandon a Project, Read Samuel Johnson, and My Other Experiments in the Practice of Everyday Life. 

Two giveaway copies!

For those who have been enjoying time under a rock for the past two years, Gretchen Rubin is the #1 bestselling author of the fan-frickin-tastic The Happiness Project.

Rubin's new book explores how she works to bring more happiness to her New York City home, which she shares with her husband and two daughters. She declutters, beautifies her surroundings, hugs and kisses her family, designs art projects and embraces good smells. It's a wonderful companion to her previous book.

I saved my review copy of the book a few weeks ago for my non-stop flight from Portland to New York, and was happy to find that it held my attention and dare I say it, gave me an overall feeling of wellbeing that normally does not find me while flying. I didn't take notes, as I wanted to immerse myself in the book rather than analyze it. (Which explains why there are no quotes in this "review.")

She and I met up for dinner a few nights later, and I can testify that she's as honest and lovely in person as she presents herself in her books.

To enter to win Happier at Home, write one thing that makes you happy in the comments section. I will randomly choose a two winners Monday, September 10th at 9 P.M. PST. U.S. Residents only, please enter one time only.

Here, I'll start you out:

One thing that makes me happy -- Seeing my kids speak Japanese.

Now your turn, what makes you happy?

Katy Wolk-Stanley

"Use it up, wear it out, make it do or do without."

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376 Comments

  1. The sound of my old dog and my not-so-old sweetheart snoring in harmony in the middle of the night - that's happiness and comfort to me!

  2. I'd love the book!

    What makes me happy: seeing my dog Tica filled with joy running along in the waves at the beach.

  3. What makes me happy: Seeing the joy and contentment on my daughter's face when we spend time together as a family.

  4. "Unplugging" from TV, internet, email and phones for a day (or two) makes me happy. Of course, if I can be at the beach at the same time makes it even more enjoyable!

  5. Oh! This is on my to-read list!

    Recently, I'm happy for finding low-cost airline tickets, orange juice without pulp, leftover pound cake, and cherry wine!

  6. One thing that makes me happy.....having the whole family eating dinner at the same time, at the same table! (Hubby and I are empty-nesters, so when the kids are here at the same time, I get to cookin'!!)

  7. one thing that makes me happy - the moment i get to the top of my stairs and getting the mail. I love getting the mail and seeing what has come every day. when i was on maternity leave i knew when the mailman came everyday for my little piece of "me" joy

  8. I am a professional organizer and it makes me very happy to help others let go of clutter. I like letting go my clutter too. And yes, organizers have clutter from time to time.

  9. Nothing makes me happier than to hear my children playing together and getting along! Just the sound of it is amazing.

  10. Watching my 20-mo-old daughter run around in her pajamas, rainboots and random hats or other accessories while eating Cheerios and watching her Japanese language video as I have my coffee in the morning. How's that for specific? 🙂

  11. My nieces and nephews call me "Aunt KK" and I get tickled when they feel the need to shorten that down to "Cake" or "Cakes".

  12. Hearing my oldest son laugh with abandon at himself. He is so self-conscious and gets mad if we laugh at something funny that he does so it's a treat when he loosens up and see the humor in life.

  13. One thing that makes me happy is settling down on my loveseat in the corner near the window with a book (especially a free or borrowed library book!), cats arrayed nearby with a fresh cup of tea or coffee at my elbow. Bliss!

  14. I teach singing lessons in my home and the thing that makes me happiest is after a lesson sometimes I can hear them singing outside as they walk to the car 🙂

  15. Today's breakfast made me happy-a leftover potato and spoonful of roasted vegetables sauteeed up with local onions and kale and topped with a local egg. Half a bagel made in a local shop on the side, topped with homemade pluot jam. Love the triple play of eating locally, having a big serving of veg for breakfast , and cleaning a couple of odd bits out of the fridge!

  16. It makes me happy to have the freedom to decide how to spend my time in the pursuit of raising DS / taking care of DH / practicising self sustaining and low consumer lifestyle.

  17. An organized home, calm surroundings, spending time with those I love, a kind word from a stranger, finding a penny heads-up on the street!

  18. Spending the an evening in Boston with my best friend, eating good food, catching up, wandering around and laughing. Priceless!!

  19. My DH, our paid-for house (as of last year), and the Jane Austen Society of North America. (Hey, I can't keep it to just one thing.)

  20. The smell of rain when it falls on the ground after a hot summer, the sound of thunder and watching lightening from a safe location.

  21. Seeing my husband and our children interact, play and goof around with each other makes me SO happy........just about "teary-eyed" happy!!

  22. I love going to a garage sale, finding a "Free" box, and discovering something in it that I can really use. My last "free" box find was a large jar of hand soaps!

  23. Dropping off spare reams of looseleaf paper at the aid center that my daughter left in her room after she moved out. Also shopping for school supplies to bring to the aid center so no child will go to school without pen and paper.

  24. One thing that makes me happy is my kids' laughter. We have had enough hard times in our lives to make the sound of their laughter simply beautiful.

  25. I'm happy when both of my babies are asleep at the same time, like right now. However, I'm also happy when the infant smiles at me and the toddler tells me, "I wuv you very much."

  26. Flying airplanes makes me very happy. Seeing the ground from that height and knowing you have the ability to go there... there's nothing like it!

  27. One thing that made me happy today was making a non-dairy ranch-style salad dressing using herbs we grew on our balcony. Well, the basil, anyway... I guess it doesn't have to be perfect to make me happy!

  28. When my children get along and hang out together. My daughter is 15 and my son is 10, that doesn't happen as often as I wish it would! 😉

  29. That my 2 boys & daughter, all over 20, still hold my hand when we're shopping. AND, never are embarrassed when I start singing.

  30. Doing crafts with my two granddaughters makes me happy. They are both so creative and come up with some really amazing ideas!!

  31. At the end of the day, sitting in my own bed, reading a book or doing a crossword puzzle. Perfect introvert downtime!

  32. My six year old b/g twins playing together. I own and have read "The Happiness Project" many times and have really enjoyed this book.

  33. Getting emails from far away friends makes me happy. I just moved to a new city and making friends is slow, but knowing old friends still think of me makes it all so much easier.

  34. I like to end my days satisfied that I've done something worthwhile during the day, even if it's so simple as ironing a few shirts or maybe having accomplished some long-put-off chore. These make me feel good.

  35. Spending time with my grown daughters and with my aging parents makes me happy. Life is too short not to spend as much time with them as possible. They all live in other states so opportunities are rare.

  36. The Saturday swim up in the mountains at Ellison Creek..a cool emerald green pool hidden about a half hour hike back in the woods.

  37. I'm thankful for children who give hugs and kisses and tell you that you're a great mom and you know they don't have any hidden motives. ;-). It's just because.

  38. Baking makes me happy--taking ingredients that look like nothing special, and turning them into treats that make people smile!

  39. My kids making awesome chalk maps and drawings on our driveway this week. My son decided to draw NYC and "live" there and my daughter decided to live in the country. Of course they drew a road between their two homes so they could visit with their hot wheels cars!

  40. Finding a Hello Kitty cashmere sweater for my daughter that originally sold for $300, and I only paid $1 at our local thrift store! 🙂

  41. Having the freedom to travel with my children and husband when he has to travel for work makes me happy! (We're homeschoolers.)

  42. The thing that makes me most happy is when I see something "click" in my children's heads - when that concept I've been trying to teach them finally makes sense. Love it!

  43. Ice skating makes me happy--three strokes and all I can think about is the joy that comes from feeling of gliding effortlessly across the ice.

  44. Spending time with my family. We have four kids ages 4-16, and work, school, sports, and other activities often get in the way of family time. I'm most happy when we can all sit around together. Even if it's just for a quick drink at the Starbucks before volleyball or soccer.

  45. What makes me happy? Puppy snuggles, chocolate chip cookies, reading, Sherlock (the new BBC series!), date night w/ the hubby, and after-dinner walks. And getting into a bed with clean sheets after a shower and shaving my legs...does anything feel better than that? I'm a fairly low-maintenance gal. 🙂

  46. When the grands come to visit and leave their fingerprints on the glass doors, I'm not in a big hurry to wash them off. I take a few days to enjoy the evidence that children have been in the house.

  47. Two things that immediately come to mind when I think about what makes me happy are a good glass of wine and hearing my 3 year old daughter laugh (not necessarily in that order).

  48. I am happy when I can sit on the front porch and drink my coffee. Last weekend was especially nice because it was a teensy bit cold!

  49. Seeing my 11 year old son play with kids of all ages at our homeschooler park day makes me happy.
    Thanks for the chance to win the book!

  50. Laundry day makes me happy: stripping the beds, washing the sheets and hanging them on my line, then putting them back on the beds before the sun sets. The smell is fantastic, and it always feels like a day well spent.

  51. Having my 3 adult children home around the dinner table with wine and my son's home-raised beef and good conversation makes me very happy.

  52. One thing that makes me happy is seeing my seven year old daughter devour her stack of library books before we even make it back home!

  53. Having all my children home for Christmas and doing our traditional Christmas craft even though they are all grown up.

  54. Blowing mental kisses (so no actual sounds or facial movements, because that would just be creepy) to people while riding the subway or while stuck in traffic. A nice momentary feeling of connection with total strangers and a jolt of happiness for the mental kisser.

  55. Sitting on my screen porch enjoying nature - the birds and squirrels do not know I am there and watching them shows me that life is good if I just follow my instincts and God-given abilities.

  56. A perfect day "up north" in Michigan, a walk along Traverse Bay on Old Mission peninsula, some gardening, a stop at my favorite consignment shop called Zany's and a quick trip to Glen Arbor for lunch outside at the Cherry Republic.......all with perfect sunny weather.

  57. Canning produce from our garden and fruit from local orchards makes me happy. Putting food by is a way to ensure smiles in the middle of winter, too!

  58. Ooh, yay! My library doesn't have this yet and I'm eager to read it.

    I'm happy when I look back over the photos of my daughter's first year. We've been doing a picture-a-day thing since age was born and age just turned 10 months. There have been some amazing changes!

  59. My daughter's smile makes me happy. Especially the smile when she's sleeping that is prompted by whatever she's dreaming of.

  60. Spending time with my beloved man. It doesn't matter what we do or where we go; just being with him makes me happy.

  61. My two sons make me happy. My husband and I struggled with infertility and multiple miscarriages, so these two little miracles are such blessings to us.

  62. Spending time with my two 4 yr old grandchildren. I love those two more than anything. Watching them play together is so much fun!

  63. One thing that makes me very happy is painting in my nook at home. I've painted my way out of several unhappy situations!

  64. As cliche as it sounds, my kids make me so happy!!! I will say, though that I also love cooking from scratch - saves money and my family loves it!

  65. Just hanging out with my husband--not doing anything special, having no agenda for the day, just letting the day unfold. It's the best!

  66. spending one on one time with each of my kids and just letting them talk. Its amazing how they'll open up and share when provided the opportunity.

  67. Riding my bike to work!
    And the rare moments when my 15 year old son leans his head on my shoulder while watching a movie. 🙂

  68. Spending time with family, traveling the world and baking make me happy . I love learning about other cultures and the everyday life of people. For some reason baking calms my mind, it's my meditation.

  69. When my dog discovers a new place to hang out in, like our cozy window seat or by the stair bannister to say hello to me as I go down the stairs, this makes me happy. Thank you Katy.

  70. Just one? Gee that's hard. Today it's sorting through things to give away. Nice to see them go elsewhere and get used.

  71. The big smile on my 5 yr old daughter's face during her dance class. As a former dancer, I am so glad that dancing gives her such joy as well.

  72. Seeing my very responsible 21 year-old son happily load everything up for his move back to college for his senior year. I really miss him, but witnessing his happy, independent spirit makes me happy, too!

  73. One thing that makes me very happy is when my bed is freshly made with clean sheets that were washed in homemade laundry detergent and hung outside to dry on the clothesline. The bed is cool, crisp, and fantastic smelling! Ahhhh ... bliss.

  74. One thing that makes me happy is volunteering at our local no-kill animal shelter on our open Adoption Day every month. That is my favorite day of the month--especially when we have a lot of adoptions of our cats and dogs.

  75. One thing that makes me happy are my daily walks with my dear hubby. A great way to get some exercise and have time alone with my sweetheart! 🙂

  76. Watching my little boy - with Down Syndrome - having a belly laugh while playing with his brother and sisters.

  77. My daughter coming home from her first week in 2nd grade and saying that school was good each day! She struggles at school and usually hates it. Her normal response when asked how school went was bad or boring. Hearing her say it was good made momma relax a little after worrying about back to school time 🙂

  78. Putting things I don't need/want anymore out on the curb and having them magically disappear by the morning. I call it the "Miracle of SE Portland".

  79. Thanks for the giveaway!

    One thing that makes me happy: waking up on a rainy Saturday morning when we don't have anywhere to be. I like listening to the rain but not driving in it.

  80. A made bed. (not making my bed, because it's a chore. the part after the making is what makes me happy!)

  81. One thing that makes me happy is seeing my family laugh together. My husband and I have three children, 16, 18 and 22. It's wonderful when we get together and have fun and laugh.

  82. One thing that makes me happy, besides my kids, is the smell of fresh peas cooking. It reminds me of my childhood when we would sit and shell peas with my grandparents.

  83. One thing that makes me happy is watching my students learn not only the language that I teach them, but about life and the world and how to interact with others and respect differences. Once they understand that everyone is different and each person has a different culture, the world becomes a friendlier place.

  84. One thing that makes me happy is: having my two grandsons for the weekend; cooking wholesome, healthy food for them; and watching them eat it up!!

  85. My 16 year old son works at 5 Guys, is a 4.0 student and has high aspirations to become an anesthesiologist. Last night I needed to leave him a message at work. I spoke to his manager, ( only 21 himself) and as I was hanging up said " uhm.. patrick's mom, Can I tell you what an amazing worker your son is, and how lucky I am to have him". Yep, this mom was smiling when she hung up the phone. It was a nice thing to hear and made me quite happy!

  86. Watching my son open doors for all the women in his life, and perfect female strangers to boot, makes me very happy. It makes me happy to know that my husband has passed on to our son something you don't see as often as you should in our society. I get particularly happy when I see my son standing, holding the door open and smiling as a little old lady walks out the door and tells him "thank you young man" 🙂

    BTW, as my son tells me, "chicks dig it" when it comes to a man showing those old fashioned manners....lol His girlfriend definitely sees it as a plus

  87. Watching my kitty sleep makes me happy. Actually, watching my kitty do anything makes me happy, he's too cute!

  88. Making headbands with my friends to send with a friend who is moving to Kenya to work with abandoned babies! I can't wait to see pictures of them!

  89. It makes me so happy when I pay a stranger a geuine compliment or speak a kind word to someone who could use a smile. It is so much fun to strike up conversations and make new friends with mamas of all ages and open the door to share life experiences.

  90. One thing that makes me happy: finding neat, worn-in t-shirts at a new "recycled" clothing boutique around the corner. - Lesley in Sacramento, CA

  91. The aroma of my line-dried linens makes me happy and leaves me with the feeling that the simple things matter most.

  92. Making holiday pies NOW, and freezing them, so when holidays come, I have pies with absolutely no effort, made with the most wonderful apples ever, which are only available NOW. Next up crisps, then apple butter!! Whoo-hoo!!

  93. When a new poem is FINALLY finished---when I can look at it and claim it as something only I could say!

    Justine
    paintmeapoem.com

  94. One thing that makes me happy is the morning cuddle my husband, dogs, & I do for 15 minutes when the alarm goes off. Best way to wake up ever!

  95. One thing that makes me happy - Being able to be generous towards others, because I have recognized where I stop with my own consumerism.

  96. One thing that makes me happy.... spending lots of time laughing with my friends and family. I just love hearing people laugh, especially the ones that are so contagious that it makes you laugh even harder (maybe snort or "tinkle" in your pants - you know what I'm talking about), the kind of laugh that you actually stop inhaling and your face turns red and you start to cry! Pure amazement and joy, I love it and it truly makes me so happy.

  97. Everyday i wake up on this side of the grass, a roof over my head, food, loving family. Every day is a blessing! And the cooler weather today here in NJ was a blessing too! 🙂

  98. Long time reader, first time commenter! I am happy reading your blog 🙂 It really, REALLY inspires me to live on less!

  99. I especially liked that you shared the screen with the news that a cockfighting ring was broken up. Wish I could see your four minutes!

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