Living in a 1914 fixer-upper home is at once both satisfying and a special kind of hell. Yes, you get so much more house than if you’d bought a suburban turnkey property, but the never ending-ness of it all can be emotionally exhausting.

For me, the many 90% completed projects never seem to fade into the background, but my husband can somehow walk past that last 10% without batting an eye. He’s talented that way.

There are a number of tasks that are within my skill set, (Painting, organizing, etc.) but the carpentry, plumbing and construction jobs are far beyond what I can accomplish on my own.  As you might expect, my husband’s honey-do list is long enough to stretch from Constantinople to Timbuktu. Hiring these jobs out is a no-go, as my husband hates to hire other people to do what he could do for himself. But the poor guy works 44 hours per week, plus he coaches multiple soccer teams and sits on the board of two (maybe three?) different non-profit boards, so his free time is precious.

We tend to work on the house in fits and spurts, mostly motivated by deadlines of houseguests and television filming. I touched up paint, cleaned and organized when TLC filmed at the house, and I somehow magically convinced my husband that The Today Show would require pantry shelf installation.

The memories of appearing on The Today Show will fade with time, but those pantry shelves will last forever . . . .

We re-did our bathroom in 2004, installing a new tile floor, sink, lighting, medicine cabinet and paint. It looks great, but we somehow never installed the trim tiles that hide the space between the floor and the drywall. Even thought those specially purchased tiles are sitting ever-so patiently in our basement. (See above photo.)

However, I have a lovely looming deadline, which is that John and Sherry Petersik from Young House Love will be coming to Portland in January as part of their book tour and have said they would like to House Crash my home. (This is a feature where they go to people’s fixed up homes, take pictures and them share them on their popular blog.) I love a deadline, and am using this particular one to motivate some last-10% action.

I know that their schedule could change at any time, thus removing the Portland leg of their tour. But frankly that’s not even part of my mindset, as it’s the deadline that’s lighting a much needed fire under my complacent tuchus.

Young House Love + Photographing my house = Perfect Motivation.

So I’ll be borrowing a tile cutter from a co-worker, assembling the needed supplies and hauling the box of tiles up from the basement. Then it’s just a matter of locking my husband in the bathroom until he can prove that he’s completed the tile job.

Now, don’t you wish you were married to me?

Do you have an issue with the last 10% of household projects? Please share your stories in the comments section below, as I know I can’t be the only one who struggles this way.

Katy Wolk-Stanley

“Use it up, wear it out, make it do or do without.”

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My mother and I went adventuring today, and Portland’s thrift stores did not fail to deliver.

There was a Miss Piggy bank with a rather unfortunate coin slot. 

A combination pipe/bull dog/Sherlock Homes that was still filled with aftershave!

A figurine of a woman who I think was 47 weeks pregnant with triplets.

She had scary zombie X-ray eyes.

And of course, there were obligatory florist-marbles-glued-onto-knick-knacks. (People, I beg of you. Stop gluing these horrible flat marbles onto stuff! It’s ugly. It’s always ugly. It will always be ugly.)

But then I came across a real bi-plane aeroplane. Sure, the propellor needed replacing, but with a bit of elbow grease, I could totally see my entire family flying on it to Japan! 

What, it’s “for decorative use only?!”

Goddamned, sh*t to hell!

Oops . . . pardon my French. Good thing I came across a swear jar. I might just be able to fund my sons’ college educations with this single jar.

In all seriousness though, I did buy one thing though, which was this incredible hand-crafted chair. Kind of a cross between an primitive Adirondack chair and a Morris chair. It’s beautiful, and was marked at only $29.99. However, subtract the 10% for senior discount day and 5% for using the Goodwill Club card, and this puppy went down to $24.50. Yes, it will need a cushion, but the chair and associated work will to be this year’s Christmas gift from my sewing-capable mother.

Me likey very much.

Katy Wolk-Stanley

“Use it up, wear it out, make it do or do without.”

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I consider myself to be a bit of an expert in decluttering. I am ruthless with my own belongings, and not to brag, (okay, I’m totally bragging) but I’m extremely efficient when it comes to helping other people declutter their homes.

  • Books I’ve finished reading? Pass them along to a friend, sell them or even post them as blog giveaways.
  • Clothing I no longer wear? Consignment shop or Goodwill.
  • Children’s toys? Hand down to new kids, consignment shops or Goodwill.
  • Bulky household items? Put them on the curb with a “Free” sign.
  • Duplicate kitchen implements? Goodwill, Goodwill, Goodwill.

I am a well-oiled decluttering machine.

So it took me by surprise when I experienced a overwhelming pang of nostalgia when going through my son’s juvenile fiction. Books that I had lovingly read aloud, page by page, snuggled in bed together. Always being begged for “One more chapter, please . . . ”

Just writing that sentence make my nose burn and my eyes start to water.

Mind you, these books were coated with dust and hadn’t been touched for years. I knew in my unfailingly logical mind that there is no circumstance where my son will pick these books up and read them to himself. And in the off chance that he did crave a reread of his Zilpha Keatley Snyder books, he could always check them out from the library.

But these books, these objects were infused with deep and overwhelming memories.

So why was I putting myself through such torture?

To begin with, my son’s bedroom was such an unholy disaster that it had become a physical hazard. Plus, my son has been driving me crazy with his constant “Mom, where’s my comb/purple shirt/glasses/whatevers” that intervention had become a necessity.

So armed with library audiobooks of Jackie Collin’s Married Lovers and James Joyce’s The Dubliners, I steeled myself against the emotional barrage. (Yes, I have eclectic taste in books.)

I kept certain authors and categories, (Ursula LeGuin, Pokémon, Harry Potter, John Bellairs, Japanese Manga) and pulled out the Beverly Clearys, the Susan Coopers, the Elizabeth Enrights and a myriad of random authors. I called my son to come upstairs and approve all decisions, as the last thing I want is for my son to feel like he has no control over his possessions and become a hoarder later in life.

He held onto the Susan Coopers and a few other books.

I was able to consolidate two bookshelves and even leave one shelf empty for the Japanese knick-knacks that my son has collected throughout his international travels.

I’ll attempt to sell the books at Powell’s Bookstore today, but so many are older editions and I don’t harbor high hopes that many will sell. The Zilpha Keatly Snyders will go to my niece and the rest I’ll donate to Goodwill.

I’m glad that I soldiered through this task. Yes, it was bittersweet, but I know that my son needs a room that meets his 17-year-old needs rather than functioning as an homage to his nine-year-old self.

And nothing can take away the memories of our late night reading sessions. I can hold onto those memories without holding onto the physical objects.

But there’s nothing wrong with shedding a tear or two in the process.

Katy Wolk-Stanley

“Use it up, wear it out, make it do or do without.”

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I am a lucky person. Why? Because I was lucky enough to be born into a country that values workers’ rights. As a hospital nurse, I take for granted that my enormous hospital has multiple fire extinguishers, fire doors, fire prevention protocols and policies that keep both people and structure from igniting.

Were Americans always so lucky?

No.

The industrial revolution hit our cities hard, and the influx of fresh immigrants meant that labor was both cheap and easily replaceable. Complain about your working conditions? Well there were many others who would be happy to take your job, so keep your mouth shut or get fired was pretty much the policy around the turn of the last century.

The New York City 1911 Triangle Shirtwaist Factory fire was a wake up call to America industry, and it allowed for the union movement to start bringing safe and reasonable working conditions to our workers. Child labor, unending work hours, locked work spaces and other blatantly unsafe working conditions finally got the scrutiny they deserved.

It wasn’t immediate or easy, but unions brought safe workplaces to America.

Problem solved, right?

Wrong.

American manufacturers, now saddled with  the cost of paying working wages built overseas factories in countries that did not require the same workplace safety measures. Where cheap unending labor was once again easy to find and where abject poverty was the norm.

I wrote in 2010 about a factory fire in Bangladesh that killed a least a hundred people, where most deaths were attributed to workers jumping from upper story windows because a gate to the stairwell was locked.

Read that again, the stairwell was locked.

This garment factory was producing clothing for Gap, JCPenney, H & M and Wal Mart.

And now the story of another Bangladeshi garment factory fire has hit the news.

“The Tazreen fire is the latest in a series of deadly blazes at garment factories in Bangladesh, where more than 700 workers, many making clothes for U.S. consumers, have died in factory fires in the past five years. As previously reported by ABC News, Bangladesh has some of the cheapest labor in the world and some of the most deplorable working conditions.”

I like a bargain as much as the next person, probably more. But there is a cost, a human cost to all those super cheap deals.

I will not be taking advantage of all the awesomely cheap consumer goods to support my holiday shopping this year.

Or any year.

Join me and buy used, buy American, buy local, buy from manufacturers who certify their safe labor practices.

And keep those poor workers and their families in your thoughts. They are just as deserving of safe working conditions as you and I.

Katy Wolk-Stanley

“Use it up, wear it out, make it do or do without.”

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Does the holiday gift shopping season make you want to bury your head under the covers until December 26th? Well, you’re not alone. But just because big box retailers get all the press doesn’t mean that the only gift giving options involve the words “big screen and “TV.”

There are countless wonderful free and almost-free presents that do not require parking lot mall camping, and here are just a few:

  1. Give something you already own. This can be as simple as a book (children’s or adult) or as meaningful as a special family heirloom. Grandma’s rolling pin is just gathering dust in your home, but might be a welcome addition to your adult niece’s kitchen.

  2. A gift certificate for your time. Whether it’s babysitting or an afternoon of yard work, nothing is cheaper or more appreciated than lightening the load for a loved one.

  3. Divide and repot your houseplants. Add an already owned pretty vintage tin or a piece of antique pottery and you can help to bring greenery into someone’s home. Not only do houseplants filter indoor air environments, but they also bring the illusion of spring and summer to long winter months.

  4. Share the bounty of your knowledge. Whether it’s your mad sewing skills or your awesome painting abilities, you can help friends and family to craft a project or simply maintain their home.

  5. Frame it, baby! You simply can’t go wrong with a framed photos of the kids for grandparent gifts. Thrift stores are stocked to the gills with gorgeous frames, so there’s no need to ever pay more than a buck or two. And don’t overlook frames you may already own!

  6. Home baked goods. There’s a lot of pricey holiday baking that can break the budget, but remember that there’s nothing more simple and true than a loaf of warm crusty bread. Throw in some herbed butter, and you’ve got an annual tradition.

  7. Fear not the regift. There is nothing wrong with passing gifted items along to a new owner. Whether it’s candles that would irritate your asthma or a book you’ve already read, remember that one man’s clutter is another man’s treasure.

  8. Consignment store treasures. My town has a number of consignment stores that go beyond clothing. (Toys, bedding, household items, furniture, sports equipment come to mind.) Bring in your nice but unwanted items and later cart home some wonderful gifts for friends and family. Trading clutter for gifts, what’s not to love?!

  9. Sew your gifts. Instead of heading to the fabric store, you should look around at what you already own. Unused clothing, bedding and curtains are all possible sources of fabric for projects.

  10. Jewelry. If you are female and over the age of twelve, you have jewelry that you no longer wear. Clean it up and package it up for your sister, your friend, your co-worker. Free bling!

Now your turn. What are your favorite low and no-cost gifts? Please share your ideas in the comments section below.

Katy Wolk-Stanley

“Use it up, wear it out, make it do or do without.”

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Black Friday has become such a big to-do, that Thanksgiving is apparently now called White Thursday. (Seriously, it’s for “early birds.”)

Many adhere to Buy Nothing Day, and make a bold statement to stand against the insane consumer frenzy that has taken over the day after Thanksgiving.

Me? I am neither going to shop nor anti-shop, (is that a valid verb?) but instead am going to spend the day enjoying my kids home from school, and enjoy what the day after Thanksgiving should be focused on, which is:

The best leftovers day of the year!

And yes, there will be pie for breakfast.

Katy Wolk-Stanley

“Use it up, wear it out, make it do or do without.”

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P.S. I will be on KQED radio from 9:00 A.M. – 10:00 A.M. talking about alternatives to cray-zay Black Friday fever. You can listen to a live stream HERE, and even call in if the mood strikes. Bonus points if you can make me swear. 😉

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Thankfulness

by Katy on November 22, 2012 · 13 comments

Today I am thankful for:

  • The health and welfare of my family.
  • A roof over my head which includes a safe and functioning kitchen.
  • The ability to walk into a grocery store and buy all the food I both need and want.
  • A safe neighborhood.
  • A stable job which pays me a living wage.
  • The ability to see my way through life’s challenges.
  • Turkey, mashed potatoes, gravy, peas, cranberry sauce, rolls and pie. Always the pie.

Always the pie.

How about you? What are you thankful for?

Katy Wolk-Stanley

“Use it up, wear it out, make it do or do without.”

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How to Make a Union Jack Table

by Katy on November 20, 2012 · 15 comments

I may have already done the big reveal of my Union Jack Table, but I wanted to share the steps I went through to go from messed up curbside find to glorious finished project. (Can you tell that I’m quite pleased with the result?)

I’ll start you off with a nice after shot, as really, I can’t get enough of this table.

Step One:

Find a table that is both free and rectangular. A drop leaf function is a plus.

Step Two:

Take a scrappy wet towel and an iron to steam the veneer to the point where it can be scraped off. This will mess up your iron, so use a projects only iron.

This step will take awhile, so set up in front of Netflix episodes of Buffy The Vampire Slayer.

Step Three:

Fill any gouges with wood putty.

Step Four:

Sand down the wood putty until it is even with the table’s surface.

Step Five:

Prime the table. I used spray primer, but a brush-on primer would work as well.

Step Six:

Paint two coats of semi-gloss cream colored paint. (This is the color of our wood trim, so we already owned the paint.) I waited a day, and then turned the table upside down to paint the underside.

Here was a nifty trick. I put thumbtacks on the feet, so I could paint all the way to the bottom without having the table stick to the newspaper.

Here is my blank slate, all ready for masking off with painter’s tape.

Step Seven:

Measure out your table and then mask off for the first coat of colored paint. I chose different green colors rather than the traditional red and blue as I felt it would look less garish. Also, this allowed me to just mix up colors from paints we already owned. Necessity being the mother of invention and all.

I took the pricey painter’s tape and cut it lengthwise to double the product. I made sure to place the original straight edge where it mattered for nice straight lines.

Step Eight:

Paint inside the tape lines.

Step Nine:

Carefully peel the tape off. I did this step while the paint was still a little wet to ensure crisp lines.

 Step Ten:

Wait a day and then mask off for the big triangular lines. Make sure to leave the spot for the cream colored accents. I reused as much of the tape as possible, as I hate waste. Have your husband snap a blurry photo of you.

See? The paint is all completed, and it’s ready for the tape to be removed.

There is one last step which I did not photograph, which was to spray a coat of polyurethane on the top surface. I want this table to be able to host sloppy cups of tea without having to freak out about it.

And violà, the table is completed! And all it took were 4826 easy steps!

And no shot of this table would be complete without a shot of the sides in the downward position.

There may have been a large number of individual steps in this project, but none of them took that long, and my only cost was the $3.75 can of spray primer, which I still own most of.

There is so much unloved furniture out there on streets, in basements and in attics. Outdated or simply roughed up, there is some serious potential out there, you just have to click your mind over to creative and grab a paint brush. And Buffy, of course.

Katy Wolk-Stanley

“Use it up, wear it out, make it do or do without.”

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P.S. I am completely aware that my table is more Union Jack inspired than actual Union Jack. I’m okay with that. 😀

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Doing More With Less

by Katy on November 18, 2012 · 11 comments

Frugality is not about having more for less. Frugality is about doing more with less.

Katy Wolk-Stanley

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Today I am treating you to a guest post by Julia Park Tracey, author of I’ve Got Some Lovin’ to Do: The Diaries of a Roaring Twenties TeenThis fantastically hilarious diary is from Julia’s spoiled teenage great-aunt and is simply the bee’s knees!

I am also hosting a giveaway for one paper copy of the book, as well as two e-books. Please write your name in the comments section to enter to win. I will choose randomly winners on November 21st at 9:00 P.M. Oregon time. E-books can be won internationally, but the paper copy is just for U.S. residents. Please enter one time only.

Katy Wolk-Stanley

“Use it up, wear it out, make it do or do without”

Leftovers Done Right, or Reusing the Past to Make a Pleasant Present

I wrote a bestselling book using only scrap paper and leftover tape.

Just kidding. Sort of.

I’m one of those Katy Wolk-Stanley types who finds junk on the curb and turns it into treasure. I particularly enjoyed my former barbecue-turned-birdbath, with a little (Freecycled) spray paint and solder to make it water-tight. My raised garden beds were crafted from found wood, including a dresser with no drawers and a park bench that vandals destroyed – it’s one of our favorites. My cats are second-hand (shelter kitties). Even my husband is a previously owned model (though, to be truthful, so am I). They should call me “Second-Hand Rose.”

I’m good with a needle and thread, a glue gun, a canning kettle, and make a stunning soup out of vegetable peelings and leftover bones from the hot wings the boys had on Friday night. That’s how we have raised five kids on a strained income.

I’m a writer, sometimes working fulltime in newspaper, part-time in magazines, or freelance on books, articles and assorted PR campaigns. The needs of the family came first, and sometimes that meant fulltime work to pay the bills, and sometimes that meant I freelanced to keep the kids out of daycare. The skills that Katy and I both possess – that we’ve learned along the way — have made our particular lifestyles doable.

These skills have come in handy many times. In 2011, my great-aunt Doris passed away. She was someone I considered my “fairy godmother,” for how she understood my artistic mind and encouraged me to pursue my dreams. She was always a little aghast at the number of children I had following me (she never had any), but believed in me all the same. The skillset I talk about, in finding creative uses or the best home for the unwanted object – this came heavily into play in cleaning out Doris’s home after her death. From a two-bedroom home that she’d lived in for 50 years, we sent just four bags of actual trash to landfill. All the clothing, tchotchkes, dishes, furniture and odds and ends – even her post-mastectomy prosthesis – found new homes, went to charities, were consigned or otherwise donated. As a six-year member of the Compact (along with Katy), I consider this a huge success.

And amid this dispersal of carloads of goods, there was a box of old papers that my mother handed to me, asking if I wanted them. I said I did, and trucked them home with boxes of china and a bagful of costume jewelry to sort. Some six weeks or more later, I looked into the box and saw letters, photos, and a trove of diaries that dated back to 1925. I began to read, their delicate, curled pages scrawled with blotchy ink in a schoolgirl’s hand. And I laughed and laughed to meet the young Doris, writing at ages 15 and 16 and 17 and beyond. I posted some snippets from these diaries on my Facebook page, to delighted friends who begged for more. Within a few months, Doris had her own Facebook page and Twitter feed, a web site, and a book was underway. Now, about 15 months later, I am just back from a book tour that took me 3800 miles by train (I bought a carbon credit to offset my CO2), and Doris’s fans keep increasing. Volume two of the Doris Diaries series is underway and there are more books to come.

So while I’m not quite a bestseller yet, and I didn’t actually make the books out of leftovers, I did find a creative use for these family heirlooms, and I’m happy to be able to share them with you.

Julia Park Tracey is an award-winning blogger, writer and editor, and her new book, I’ve Got Some Lovin’ to Do: The Diaries of a Roaring Twenties Teen (1925-1926), is available on Amazon or at your local bookstore. Follow Doris’s adventures on Facebook/The Doris Diaries and Twitter @TheDorisDiaries.

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