It’s time for a very random non-consumer-y photo essay.

The first two photos are screen shot from eBay listings that I have scheduled to start next Sunday evening.

Atomic Ranch magazines that I picked up for a quarter apiece at The Title Wave used library store:

And a small $7.99 antique marble bust that I brought home from Goodwill:

Marble bust

Gotta put as much money in my sons’ college accounts as possible. I would hate from them to graduate with a burdensome amount of student loan debt.

This photo is a Goodwill 1970’s book about Portland resources:

 The First Portland Catalog

It features a photo of my step-brother Mike. He’s the toddler on the left side. I love that I can go to Goodwill and find a photo of a family member. Sadly, the book smelled like it had been stored in a damp and mildewy basement. So I took my photos and left it behind.

Brother

The next photo is of a fantastic antique wooden lamp, complete with carved rams’ heads, vines and leaves.

The detail is incredible! I could totally see it in the lobby of a high-end hotel or lodge. Sadly, it was priced at $30, and had a number of chipped areas. I left it at Goodwill for some other avid thrifter to bring home.

The last photo is a hanging rack that I recently received from my sister as a hostess gift. It’s perfect for drying socks and underwear, and although I have it on my summer clothesline, it will come in super handy during the wet winter months.

I would never buy it for myself, (too gadgety, plus it was bought new.) But I was more than happy to receive it as a gift.

My sister, she knows me well.

Hanging rack

Katy Wolk-Stanley

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Two Steps Backwards, One Step Forward

by Katy on September 1, 2013 · 24 comments

I will do most anything to save a few dollars. Hell, I’ll do anything to just save a few cents! But that doesn’t mean that I’m not also spending money left and right.

Does my obsessive thriftiness layered with spendy behavior make me a hypocrite?

Absolutely not.

Because when I am intensely frugal with the stuff that doesn’t matter, then the money is there for the stuff that does matter. I like to think of it as two steps backwards, one step forward. Take last week as an example.

Here’s what I did to save/earn money:

  • We spent three days/two nights at the beach. We stayed at a friend’s $65/night cabin that’s cheap but requires us to put up with some grubbiness and a bat or two.

  • I made sun tea using tea bags that no one will drink as hot tea, yet are pleased to drink when it’s presented as iced tea.

  • I did multiple loads of laundry using my hand-me-down and unattractive washing machine and hung everything to dry on the clothesline.

  • I assembled last night’s hasty dinner using homemade pesto, spelunked frozen shrimp and dried Trader Joe’s tortellini.

  • I put together four Craigslist listings to sell thrifted finds.

  • I put together two eBay listings to sell additional second hand finds.

  • I walked or biked for most of my errands.

  • I read a library copy of Walden on Wheels.

  • I cut my husband’s hair.

  • I picked up at least four pennies from various locales.

  • I fed the neighbor’s cats, (which helps to foster a close neighborhood community) and nibbled (with permission) from her vegetable garden.

  • I helped my mother clean one of her guest cottages, and brought home a bag of food that the previous tenants had left behind.

  • I made waffles to use up the last of the gleaned 2% milk and most of a container of soy milk.

Here’s how I spent money:

  • I made the switch from a regular to a smart cell phone. It’s my husband’s hand-me-down iPhone, and will cost us an extra $25 per month. However, there’s no contract, and I plan on using it to support my reselling and the GPS function. (Eugene’s geography and road closures threw me for a loop!)

  • I paid $90 for my teenage sons to attend the three-day Kumoricon convention. (Anime, manga, cosplay event.) I had originally planned on paying half, but I felt that the price was actually super reasonable, so I ate the entire cost.

  • I handed each kid a twenty dollar bill. I told them it was for food, but I know they’ll spend it on junk.

  • I bought a pack of ping-pong balls so my older son could make a necklace that looked like it was strung with eyeballs.

  • We splurged on a delicious seafood dinner after checking out of the cabin.

  • My husband stopped by Costco after dropping the kids at Kumoricon today. He filled the car with cheap gasoline and bought a tremendous amount of food. I have no idea how much he spent, (probably pretty high) but it was all real food, none of it convenience food and supports our goal of brought-from-home work and school lunches.

  • Watched cable TV, which we have because my husband and younger son are unapologetic soccer super fans. It’s almost all my son talks about, and is deeply important to him.

Even though we have no current debt beyond our mortgage, our daughter will starting college next fall. This means I am maniacally intelligently putting extra money toward this goal. But that doesn’t mean that we’re holding back from what is important in the here and now.

I’m picking up pennies, cleaning up after strangers and cutting my husband’s hair so that we won’t have to scrimp when it comes to the important stuff, like education and food.

Two steps backwards, one step forward.

Katy Wolk-Stanley

“Use it up, wear it out, make it do or do without.”

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Random Frugal Stuff

by Katy on August 29, 2013 · 14 comments

I have a number of random frugal things that are swimming around in my head, yet not substantial enough for an entire post. So I present to you . . . Random Frugal Stuff!

1) My friend Karen and her husband were unhappy with their decade old king-sized Tempurpedic mattress which had become saggy in areas. Instead of trashing the behemoth, Scott took a kitchen knife to the mattress and created two twin-size mattresses which work perfectly for their kids. The sagginess is a non-issue for small kids, (their small size doesn’t squish down the sponginess like adults do) and he avoided creating a huge piece of garbage. Aim the raggedy side towards the wall, and Bob’s your uncle!

2) I won a $25 gift certificate The Title Wave used library bookstore a few weeks ago. I stopped in a scooped up an armload of 25¢ Atomic Ranch magazines just for fun. (Although I live in a 1914 Craftsman-style house, I enjoy the eye candy of mid-century modern decor. Plus, it gives me ideas for what to keep an eye out for when thrifting.) I know that mid-century enthusiasts drool over this magazine, so I took a look through completed listings on eBay, and whattayaknow, these puppies sell for a pretty penny. I’ll go ahead and sell the lot and continue to pick up old copies when I come across them. Gotta pad those college accounts!

3) I am an unabashed fangirl (or fanwomyn for all my fellow Antiochians) of Daniel Kanter and his blog, Manhattan Nest. And yesterday’s The Kitchen: The Big Reveal post did not disappoint. My favorite element of his on-the-cheap-but-still-gorgeous kitchen was a humble cast iron hook:

“The hook was salvaged from another area of the room (where it had been coated with a million layers of paint and left to die). I love that I get to reuse things like this——every time I hang that apron up, I think about where that hook was hanging before and what it looked like and how happy I am to give it a second life. I’m a sap.”

You can see why that boy makes my heart melt.

And there it is . . . random frugal stuff!

Do you have any frugal stuff to add to the conversation? Please share your two cents in the comments section below.

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The simple pleasures of the Oregon coast. Brothers taking hours long walks to the end of beach, the stinging cold of the Pacific ocean and the classic gourmet treat of s’mores and weenie roasts. And then at the of the day, putting your feet up in front of a facsimile of crashing waves.

No one here cares about having a bikini-ready body or glowing golden skin. This is Oregon, and we wear coats over bathing suits and light fires for warmth instead of ambiance.

And it’s where I am.

I’d better grab an extra layer, it looks pretty chilly out there.

Katy Wolk-Stanley

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Today I Am . . .

by Katy on August 26, 2013 · 28 comments

Today I am . . . 

  • Waiting for freshly shampooed rugs to dry. My son and I had stopped into the Lincoln City Goodwill, where I picked up two gorgeous tufted wool rugs for $30 and $18. I’ll resell them on Craigslist and add the money to my son’s college account. (I included The Tightwad Gazette for size reference. 😉 )
  • Arranging a spontaneous three day to trip to the beach, as our favorite $65/night cabin was available.
  • Digesting delicious chocolate cake that my birthday-girl next door neighbor brought by last night.
  • Trying to get my sons to finish up their required summer reading.
  • Cursing the fruit flies that swarm throughout my kitchen. (It’s because we eat real fruit, right? Right?!)
  • Still in my pajamas, yet contemplating a nap.

Today I’m not . . . 

  • Shopping for school clothes.
  • Buying school supplies, as we’ll just use last year’s supplies.

Now you. What are you doing during this precious last week of summer?

Katy Wolk-Stanley

“Use it up, wear it out, make it do or do without.”

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Non-Consumer-ing Around Oregon

by Katy on August 23, 2013 · 10 comments

My son and I are once again on the road, as we check out college choices. This time we’re in Eugene, Oregon to tour The University of Oregon and take advantage of all the deliciousness that this great state has to offer. (Our last college tour was to Walla Walla, Washington where Whitman College and the local Goodwill mightily impressed.)

Although I used Priceline.com to find lodging before, we were lucky enough this time around to connect with an old friend for housing. I had posted a Facebook status asking “Driving down to Eugene with Colin tomorrow for a U of O tour on Friday. Where should we stay, where should we eat, what should we miss?” Not only did I get restaurant recommendations, but my old pal Karen offered us her house to stay in. (How much of an “old pal” is she? We last saw each other in Israel in 1986!) Sadly, her family was heading up to Seattle during our visit, although we did nab a couple of overlap hours.

My college bound son and I spent the early evening exploring Eugene, and chose the locally owned Steelhead Brewery for dinner where we gorged on fish tacos (me) and fish and chips (him.) Afterward I treated my son to a browse at the second hand Buffalo Exchange store, where he picked out a cool flannel shirt. An ice cream cone followed.

Once back at the house, we went for an invigorating walk through the neighborhood. We made sure to return before nightfall, as her wooded neighborhood is both A) winding and confusing and B) overrun with wild turkeys! Sadly, we didn’t come across any of the turkeys that had confused and excited me when earlier driving to the house. (To say I am “a cheap date” is the world’s biggest understatement.) We did come across a slightly demented tree stump that begged to be photographed.

I named him “Mr. Stumpy.”

Today we’ll take our college tour and information session and then scoot over to the Oregon coast where we’ll stay one night before heading back to Portland. I’d thought about making a motel reservation, but instead decided to wing it, as a one night stay is easy to walk in to. (As long as we stay away from Seaside, which will be inundated with Hood to Coast runners.)

The money for our college tours is guilt free, as I’ve been putting money aside for expenses related to visiting and applying to colleges since last year. And I say a day at the beach is as related to college applications as can be.

Just think of all the money we saved by not having to pay to look at wild turkeys!

Katy Wolk-Stanley

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The Soccer Scarf Wall

by Katy on August 21, 2013 · 9 comments

You all know that I’ve slowly but surely been working on redecorating and rejiggering my fifteen-year-old son’s room. Although a teenage boy is not your typical design client, I’ve been enjoying helping his room to become brighter, more organized and cheerful.

Remember the wall stripes? I’m still unabashedly in love with them. Mwah!

Goal of The Week -- After

Unfortunately, the opposite side of the room was pretty bland. Sure, it featured the cool Portland Timbers skateboard shelves, but the wall itself was lacking any pizzazz.  However, my son did have a stack of soccer scarves with potential. I put the word out on Facebook asking if any of my friends had an extra curtain rod lying around, and my friend Heather from Mile73 came through for me. She didn’t have the brackets to secure it to the wall, but I was able to scrounge a pair from my House O’ Odds & Ends. (Coming soon to a mall near you!)

Blank Wall

Look how great this wall now looks with all the scarves!

soccer scarf wall

The best thing is that’s it’s super easy for my son to remove scarves for Timbers games, and also that I spent zero dollars and zero cents on this project!

I didn’t take any close up photos, as installing a curtain rod is just a matter of getting it straight and finding the studs. Also, I have yet to research fixing my digital camera, so my less than pin-worthy photos are grainy and from my husband’s iPhone. Sorry.

I consider having no money for decor projects to be a good thing, as it activates the creative lobe in the brain. And in the end, my son gets a unique and personalized bedroom that is 100% him.

A limited budget can sometimes be a gift.

Katy Wolk-Stanley

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overdressed

One of the biggest downsides of my summer was that Overdressed: The Shockingly High Cost of Cheap Fashion was due back at library before I was able to write a coherent post that would have included quotes and other such grown up references. Elizabeth Cline’s compellingly book takes an in depth look at the societal, economic and ethical issues surrounding the world’s “Fast Fashion” industry.

Not familiar with the term “Fast Fashion?” It’s used to describe the manufacturing and selling of fashion where cheap is king and quality products and worker’s rights are the lowly pauper. Think Forever 21, H&M, Old Navy, JCPenney, Target and Zara. (Although higher end brands are often just as guilty as their country cousins.)

Cute tops for only $5!!! Sure, the quality is crap, but who cares, it’s only $5!

It’s an issue that’s pressing on my mind during this back-to-school season where fashion retailers lure in customers with hard to resist bargains on questionably manufactured clothes.

The book takes a laser sharp look at the worldwide fashion industry, but the whole time I was thinking about how fashion is far from the only industry to be guilty of a fast mindset. Furnishings, cheap electronics, decor items, household goods and just about every other consumer category fall under this umbrella. (And while we’re on the subject of umbrellas, how crappy has the quality on umbrellas become?!)

Although I would like to say that I always take the high road and repair instead of replace, today’s consumer goods are often unrepairable, (particle board Ikea furniture comes to mind) more expensive to repair than replace and become outdated faster than Usain Bolt on a cool Jamaican morning. Not to mention that repair shops are a dying breed.

This is where used goods come into play.

Not only are used goods already manufactured, (thus removing the one-gets-bought-another-one-gets-manufactured cycle) but they’re often better quality. If your item was going to fall apart after normal use, it’s likely to have happened to the original purchaser. And if you’re buying a significantly older item, the quality is likely to be of a much higher standard than its currently manufactured counterpart.

I’m going to use my couch as an example.

My husband and I bought a brand new $600 hide-a-bed couch in 1993. We were super excited to be able to pick out our own fabric and I deliberately chose a classic style that would not scream “outdated” through the years. Within a few years, the couch looked simply awful. The stuffing had shifted over the arms, the fabric was falling apart and the hide-a-bed mechanism broke. I pinned similar fabric over the ripping fabric, used the warranty to get the mechanism replaced and lived with the shifted stuffing. By five years, our fancy new couch looked like we’d pulled it off the Clampett’s front porch.

I started to keep an eye out for a new couch. A vintage couch.

I soon came across a mid-century channel back couch that set me back a whopping $200. I spent an extra $75 to have the cushions plumped up from a local upholsterer and called it good. This quality couch weighs a ton, and has served us well since 2005 without any signs of falling apart. It is the recipient of many a compliment.

The argument that something is cheap and therefor doesn’t need to last really sticks in my craw, as creating goods that are destined for the landfill is both ethically and morally wrong. This is true for rapidly evolving and low quality fashion styles, and it’s equally true for computer printers, cell phones, toys, furniture, shoes and most every other consumer good category.

Does that mean that no one should ever buy anything new again?

No.

There are still companies that take pride in their quality products and worker conditions, (whether those workers are here in the U.S. or abroad.) Pyrex glassware comes to mind, as do Maglight flashlights and New Balance shoes. Finding these products is neither intuitive nor easy. It takes research and removes the opportunity to make impulsive purchases.

Making deliberate consumer choices can be a pain in the tuchus, but if it helps to minimize the fast fashion mindset, then I’m all in!

Have you been trying to make more deliberate consumer decisions? Please share your thoughts in the comments section below.

Katy Wolk-Stanley

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Frugality? It’s All in Your Mind

by Katy on August 19, 2013 · 36 comments

You and I both know frugality is as much about mindset as it is about the math. Frugality is mostly about your attitude. Being satisfied with less expensive options, enjoying free and almost free entertainment and keeping as far away from The Joneses as humanly possible.

I think about how I spent yesterday, and I find a number of perfect examples:

  • I walked to the library, where I both returned a tote bag full of books and picked up a book I’d put on hold.

  • I then walked to my credit union to deposit a stack of checks I’d earned through cleaning my mother’s guest cottages and blogging income.

  • I walked to Zupans (local high-end grocery store) to buy nice sausages, as I had a buy-one-pound-get-one-pound-free coupon.

  • I then stopped off at Fred Meyer, (Kroger) where I picked up a humble head of lettuce, on sale buns and a gallon of milk that had been marked half-off. (The expiration date was still eight days away, so I was happy to snag this bargain.) I used my own bag, which saved me a nickel.

  • Dinner was barbecued sausages on rolls and a big green salad. The meal included sauerkraut that we’ve been chipping away at for a year or so. The Costco-sized jar was leftover from a soccer picnic, and no one else wanted it. (There had also been an enormous jar of relish, but I Freecycle’d it.)

  • After dinner my son and I watched a couple episodes of Netflix TV shows, and enjoyed each other’s company.

My day was based on being satisfied with less.

  • I was happy to get exercise from walking instead of visiting a gym.

  • I was happy to plan a meal around a great coupon. (And those sausages from Zupans? They were fan-flipping-tastic!)

  • I was willing to put a few minutes into washing and chopping a head of lettuce instead of buying a more expensive and highly packaged bag of lettuce.

  • I was not tempted to buy impulse items at the grocery store.

  • I was completely satisfied to spend an evening at home with my son instead of a  more expensive alternative.

  • I was happy to get my new stuff fix from a library instead of a store.

  • I was depositing small checks that added up to a significant amount. A direct result of a willingness to work for small-ish amounts of money. (I may be an experienced labor and delivery nurse, but I am not too high and mighty to earn a few extra bucks cleaning my mother’s rental cottages between tenants.)

When frugality is approached from a mindset of deprivation, everyday decision are resented instead of celebrated. It’s only when the simple joys of a humble meal or a brisk walk are seen in a positive light that the benefits of frugality can truly blossom. 

Are you able to see frugality as a positive part of your life or are you still hating the limitations? Please share your thoughts in the comments section below.

Katy Wolk-Stanley

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Inspiration can come from the least likely of places. Whether it’s the Costco Connection magazine, or a thrifted 1940’s wartime scrapbook, (more on that in a later post) inspiration is everywhere!

I love magazines, but I try to stay away from costly and cluttery subscriptions. I did succumb to a Better Homes and Gardens subscription in a weak moment, as it was only $5, (plus I was able to use Amazon credit I earned through Swagbucks.) The current issue has an article where “Health Stars” dole out health advice that is mostly not up my alley whatsoever. (I could care less about being skinny. So no, Bob Harper, author of “Jumpstart to Skinny,” I will not be purchasing any turkey and swiss sandwiches, only to throw the bread away. But thanks for the wasteful tip all the same.)

However, there was a health tip from Harley Pasternak, “personal trainer to stars like Lady Gaga, Rihanna, Megan Fox and Katy Perry,” where he explained how he treats himself:

“I want to eat chocolate chip cookies every single day. But I don’t buy a box and keep them at home. Instead, when I’m craving one really badly, I make it a special event. I go out and find the best, most delicious chocolate chip cookie to eat. It ends up being so satisfying that the craving doesn’t hit again for a few days.”

I kind of love this mindset. Not for weight management mind you, as chocolate chip cookies are meant to be baked at home in units of dozens, not purchased as a single unit. 🙂

I like the mindset of holding back until you can buy the best.

This technique translates well into areas beyond dieting. How many of us haven’t frittered away a dollar here and a dollar there to the point where the money and space simply doesn’t exist for the big expenditures? A process of holding off on purchases until we find exactly what we want. It means that a number of my household belongings are “place holders” that serve a functional purpose until I can find the exact, thriftiest and most beautiful items to welcome into my home.

I do not grab trendy low quality stuff from Target, instead I wait until I can find classic higher quality equivalents from Goodwill.

Impulse purchases are guilty of both A) draining our bank accounts and B) cluttering our homes. And by buying that the cheap box of dry chocolate chip cookies, we rob ourselves from having the resources for the “most delicious chocolate chip cookie.” Whether that cookie is paying the mortgage or buying the couch of our dreams.

Do you find yourself filling up on dry store brand cookies instead of holding out for the gourmet? Please share your thoughts in the comments section below.

Katy Wolk-Stanley

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