You Asked For it, Before and After

by Katy on August 29, 2010 · 8 comments

I wrote the other day about the never ending remodeling on my 1914 house, and you, the readers asked for some before and after pictures. So here goes . . .

Before -- My house in 1918. Notice how the stairs come from the front of the porch.

Before -- My house in 1933. Notice how the stairs now come from the side of the porch, which will eventually not support the front of the house very well.

Before -- The house in 2002. The asbestos siding has been removed, but the front porch is a danger zone. The cheap lathe railing sways to the touch.


After -- My house in 2006. Notice how the porch steps now come from the front of the porch again, thus supporting the front of the house.

After -- My porch in 2008. (?) It's been painted, but there's still a few spots which need to be touched up.

And don’t worry, there’s more to come.

Katy Wolk-Stanley

“Use it up, wear it out, make it do or do without”

P.S. Here’s a gratuitous before and after photo essay of my lovely, lovely living room chair:

Before -- Goodwill as-is chair sitting on my mother's front porch. I had declined the gift, as it was moist and stanky.

That is, until I saw a reproduction of the same style of chair at Rejuvenation, which looked awesome and cost $1800. It was not as detailed and lower quality.

After -- Hello, reupholstered chair!

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Thank You, Ms. Andersson

by Katy on August 28, 2010 · 9 comments

My boys in their Hanna jammies

I would like to take this opportunity to thank the lovely folks over at Hanna Andersson for producing such high quality children’s pajamas. But at $38 a pop, buying them new was never part of my family’s life. However, Hanna Andersson is a local company, so it’s super easy to find them at thrift stores.

Like yesterday, when I bought seven pairs of new looking Hanna jammies for 50¢ apiece. And now Portland Craigslist followers will be able to pick them up for $15 apiece. And I will have a chunk of change for a short vacation before school starts back up.

Thank you, Hanna Andersson.

Katy Wolk-Stanley

“Use it up, wear it out, make it do or do without”

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My Remodeling Project

by Katy on August 27, 2010 · 13 comments

You think your house was a fixer-upper?!

My husband and I are embarking on a new remodeling project on our 1914 house to add a second bathroom (yay!) and a fifth bedroom (cue blogger looking sheepishly to the side.) We bought our home in 1996, and it was such a fixer-upper that it was a year before we could even move in. Because yes, it was that run down. We have been working on it in fits and spurts ever since. Mostly because 99% of the work has been done by my non-contractor husband.

And in case you think I’m exaggerating, here’s what we’ve done so far:

  • Repaired the coved plaster ceilings in the living room and dining rooms.
  • Tore down the crumbling plaster walls in the living room, dining room and downstairs bedroom.
  • Removed the false ceiling in the downstairs bedroom.
  • Reconfigured the downstairs bedroom to what it used to be.
  • Put in a new bathroom.
  • Redid all the electric and plumbing.
  • Refinished the hardwood floors.
  • Rebuilt the fireplace surround.
  • Replaced all the lighting fixtures, (first with hideous $3 clearance lighting and then slowly with nicer lighting.)
  • Stripped all the downstairs woodwork, and replaced what the previous owners had ripped out.
  • Jacked up the front of the house and had a completely new front porch built.
  • Replaced the nasty kitchen counters with formica.
  • Repainted the kitchen cabinets, although we were able to reuse the hardware, which was inoffensive.
  • Put in new windows in the kitchen and downstairs bedroom where only small ones/none existed.
  • Replaced all the rest of the windows with new wooden double glass, low-E versions.
  • New appliances.
  • Had new brick layed in the fireplace.
  • Addressed all the lead paint issues with an official lead abatement team. This was paid for by a grant from The Portland Development Commission due to elevated lead levels in my younger son.
  • Completely reconfigured one of the upstairs bedrooms to create a hallway to the back bedroom. (It had been that you had to go through this bedroom in order to enter the large unfinished space that is soon to become our new bedroom/bathroom.)
  • Had a cement floor poured for the dirt basement.
  • Replaced the old garage door and front door.
  • Cleaned out the old sump pump that the previous owners had been pouring used motor oil into. Cemented this in.
  • Decommissioned the old oil furnace.
  • Ran a new sewer line under the neighbor’s property to the city sewer line a half block away.
  • Drywalled the only finished room in the basement to create a band practice space for our sons.
  • Put in a new furnace and heat ducts.
  • Built a retaining wall and brick patio in the backyard.
  • Built new cement steps and pathway leading to the front porch.

Is it any wonder that we’re still standing? I am in no way recommending that anyone ever buy a house that needs this much work. We were naive and had no idea what we were getting ourselves into. This house has sucked up our time, energy and money.

The bedroom and bathroom will be our last hurrah, and I feel like we’re going in with eyes wide open which is a new experience. We’re working with an architect, who is very generously donating his design as a thank you for my husband’s years of coaching his son in soccer. (Yay for volunteering!)

Yes, we have a lovely home in a great neighborhood, but at what cost? If I had to do it all over again I would not have bought my house, but that’s kind of a waste of energy to even think about. So we just move forward.

I need to start shopping for supplies, but am waiting until the kids are back in school. I’ll be looking at The Rebuilding Center, the Habitat for Humanity Re-Store, Rejuvenation, Craigslist and traditional sources. I’m being aware to not rush the process, as this has been a sure recipe for disaster in the past.

Looking through the list, I’m sure there are a number of things that I forgot. I don’t understand why we’re not in ruinous financial shape. Although I do understand why we’re not on track to retire at 50.

I will be chronicling our remodel project as it progresses, so check back often to follow our hopefully angst free remodel.

Wish us luck!

Katy Wolk-Stanley

“Use it up, wear it out, make it do or do without”

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The Millionaire Next Door — A Winner

by Katy on August 26, 2010 · 0 comments

Congratulations to Judyy whose entry was randomly chosen to win a copy of “The Millionaire Next Door: The Surprising Secrets of America’s Wealthy.” Here’s her winning entry:

“My folks always taught me that no matter how much or how little I made to always save at least 10% of it.”

Thank you to everyone who wrote a little something about money to try and win a copy of this great book. (I’m re-reading this book right now and loving it just as much as when I first read it in 1997.) Here are a few of the insightful reader comments:

Katy Akers:

“I live on $750.00 a month. First, pay the necessities – rent, utilities, dog food. Then, spend what’s left on food. Scavenge, garden, trade, re-purpose. I am sheltered, fed, and have good friends and family. ‘Enough is a feast.’ “

Laura:

“I’m feeling very lucky right now…for the first time in our 20 year marriage my husband and I are on the same page regarding money-(spend less) and he’s finally joined me on the de-cluttering and living more simply quest–it’s really lightened up-we are actually moving into the smallest apartment we have lived in since we first married and it feels great.”

Sarah:

“Money stresses me out until I create some systems and rules around it. Then I feel better. Watching my savings account grow makes me so happy!”

Christine S.:

“Being a new mom (and now a stay at home mom) makes me think about money A LOT! But I need to remember that the more I think about it, the more I worry about it — like a dieter that obsesses with food! Its all good, and even if I never become a millionaire, I know I am still rich because of where we live. As Americans, we are so fortunate. Treasure what we have.”

Jennifer:

“Money to me is a mystery. It’s only dirty paper, for God’s sake! But it does rule so much of who we are.”

Barb @ 1 Sentence Diary:

“I struggle with my relationship with money — in some ways I’m a total tightwad, and in others I spend frivolously. And investing? Reading about investing? I’d rather have a root canal treatment.”

ElisaWells:

“I grew up next to a millionaire. He lives a quite modest lifestyle, saves and reuses everything, grows his own veggies, and has a foundation to give away his excess wealth. His favorite saying, even at 96 years old, is ‘Life is good!’ “

Click HERE to read all the comments, and come back next Monday when I’ll have another great Non-Consumer Advocate giveaway. And yes, it will also be from Goodwill!

Katy Wolk-Stanley

“Use it up, wear it out, make it do or do without”

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Is it Okay to Not Be Happy?

by Katy on August 25, 2010 · 28 comments

I’ve written a fair amount about happiness. Gretchen Rubin’s book, The Happiness Project was a huge inspiration to me and I already considered myself a fairly happy person to begin with. But what about when you just want to wallow in an old fashioned bad mood funk?

Is is acceptable to not be happy?

I do worry that the new focus on happiness is placing a unreasonable pressure on women to be happy at all times. Yes women. Not only do we have to do all that we do, but we need to have a smile plastered across our faces while we’re at it.

Doing dishes? Make sure to enjoy the task.

This is bouncing around in my head today because I had a really crappy day at work yesterday. I came home and immediately had to run the kids across town to soccer and martial arts. This wasn’t all that bad, but I was tired and just wanted to put my head down on a pillow. The evening entailed catching up on the latest episodes of Mad Man, but somehow it just didn’t do the trick. I was grumpy, short tempered and it was probably a good idea to give me some elbow room.

I guess what I’m asking is this, is it acceptable to hunker down into a bad mood? Should a person employ all the traditional tricks to stay happy, (sing songs, write gratitude lists, bask in the glow of a perfectly organized closet) or should we accept the mood in order to get through it?

I feel that all emotions need to be experienced in order to move past them. If we bottle up the negative emotions in an effort to be happy at all times, then we’ll eventually implode. Of course, occasional bad moods are an entirely different beast from true depression, which I won’t even attempt to cover in a short quippy column.

I’m feeling better today. I got to sleep in a little bit, and although my house is a revolting mess, I do have a few kid free hours to deal with it. But if I had plastered that smile onto my face yesterday, I would probably still be wallowing in that funk.

Agree, disagree? Please share your thoughts in the comments section below.

Katy Wolk-Stanley

“Use it up, wear it out, make it do or do without”

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Spinning Straw Into Gold

by Katy on August 24, 2010 · 11 comments

The following is a reprint of a previously published post. Enjoy!

Non-Consumer Living Room

I am the queen of spinning straw into gold. I guess you could say I’m theRumpelstiltskin of the non-consumer set. Show me a mostly empty refrigerator and I can pull together a tasty meal, show me an empty bank account and I can find free stuff to do, show me a poorly decorated room and I can tart it up using things found throughout of the house.

Yup, straw into gold.

Sometimes I think we do ourselves a disservice when we are provided with all the resources to everything we could ever possibly need, as this state dulls ingenuity. Some of the most creative people I know are that way precisely because they’ve never had a comfortable living.

Paris Hilton? Not so creative.

Anyone schmo can walk into an Ikea or Pottery Barn and pick out everything needed to outfit their home, but it takes creative and critical thinking skills to figure out how to furnish on a dime. And if done right, can be a much more beautiful and fad-bypassing look than when everything’s bought at once.

Need a bedside table? How about hauling that ugly dresser out from your mother’s garage and stripping off those layers of paint.

Ahh . . . better.

There is little in my home that I paid more than $100 for, yet I think my house looks much more elegant than I could normally afford. My living room is pulled together from Goodwill, craigslist and garage sale finds. My dining room sports 1920’scraftsman-style Carnegie library oak chairs that I bought off somebody’s front porch. (Eleven of them for $75!) The 1914 piano was free, as was my living room rug. (That burned-by-an-iron-mark? Just make sure it’s hidden under a chair!)

I derive a tremendous amount of satisfaction from being able to assemble a great life for my family. And I don’t just mean furnishings. Money is tight at our house right now, yet we’re heading into a Spring break that will include a night at a water park resort and a few nights nestled in a cabin on Mt. Hood. All of this is for free, and all of it will be way more fun and satisfying than if I’d simply booked a trip to Disneyland.

Cause that’s how Rumpelstiltskin rolls.

Do you feel having less inspires more creativity in your life? Please share your thoughts and ideas in the comments section below.

Katy Wolk-Stanley

“Use it up, wear it out, make it do or do without.”

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The Millionaire Next Door — A Giveaway

by Katy on August 23, 2010 · 60 comments

Are you under the impression that millionaires drive expensive cars, live in mansions and spend their days sipping champagne? Well then, you’re in for a bit of a surprise.

The Millionaire Next Door, written by Thomas Stanley and William Danko looks at research related to American millionaires and is not only an interesting read, but extremely informative. I read this book when I was first figuring out how to invest in my retirement account, which means I was 30 years old at the time. But despite the, ahem, 12 years since I read the book, much of it still remains with me.

Millionaires are more likely to drive older cars, you’re more likely to become a millionaire if you own your own business than if you’re employed by someone else, and (here’s the crux) millionaires live below their means.

This copy of The Millionaire Next Door is a second hand, but never read copy from Goodwill. It was a gift at one point, which I know because someone wrote this on the second page:

To: Jeremiah,

From: Cleto

2/11/99

Here is the essence of saving & accumulating wealth!

Apparently, this was not a welcome message, as the book appears untouched. 😉

To win this copy of The Millionaire Next Door, write a little something in the comments section about money. It can be anything you wish, positive or negative, short or long. I will randomly choose a winner Wednesday, August 25th at midnight. U.S. residents only, please enter only once.

Good luck!

Katy Wolk-Stanley

“Use it up, wear it out, make it do or do without”

P.S. This book may look a little worn by the time you get it, because I’m kind of wanting to reread it.

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Time For a Little More Impact, No Impact Style

by Katy on August 22, 2010 · 27 comments

I followed Colin Beavan’s No Impact Man blog during his foray into all things environmental in 2007; read his book when it came out in 2009, and even interviewed him when he came into town for a reading last fall. So I was not exactly running to the theater when his movie came out. I kind of wanted to see it, but felt like I had pretty much learned all there was to learn about No Impact Man. (He did invite me to come to a screening with him after our interview, but I had babysitter issues.)

We’re currently doing a free trial Netflix subscription through our Wii, and I noticed that the No Impact Man documentary was available to instantly watch. I figured it would be a good enough way to relax after a full day at work and making dinner.

I was surprised how much I liked the movie. There’s just something unfiltered about the medium of film that can’t be recreated in the written form. Tone of voice, facial expression and general exasperation lose something in the translation.

Colin’s wife Michelle is an equal partner in the No Impact Man movie, which is great. She is the yin to his yang. A self-professed reality TV junkie and designer clothing aficionado. She explains that she told her husband before marriage that she didn’t like nature and would not be participating in any camping trips. But that despite her wishes, their entire life had since become a never ending camping trip.

Michelle’s transformation through the year is just as compelling, if not more so than Colin’s.

I explained this to my younger son last week:

When you do something difficult, it is more of an accomplishment than for someone else who gets through it easily.

The situation was a long bike ride that my son was struggling with. Others were breezing though it, but my son had to walk his bike at one point.  I was more proud of his cycling that day because it was hard for him than I was for my older son who breezed through the route. This tenet has been ruminating in my brain ever since, and I’ve found it to be relevant a number of times.

I kind of wish I had someone else watching the movie with me to discuss it with, (my son was in the room, but was goofing around on the computer while wearing headphones.) so I guess I’ll have to hit you guys up instead.

Did you see the No Impact Man movie, and if so, do you have any thoughts to share?

Click HERE to read my interview with Colin Beavan.

Katy Wolk-Stanley

“Use it up, wear it out, make it do or do without”

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Waste No Whipped Cream Challenge

by Katy on August 21, 2010 · 9 comments

We made homemade vanilla ice cream the other night, which left us with some leftover whipping cream. And being the waste-avoidance type that I am, I incorprated it into a roux for macaroni and cheese last night.

It turns out that macaraoni and cheese made with whipping cream is rather delicous.

Probably not advisable to repeat this meal. That is, unless I want Jamie Oliver showing up on our doorstep.

At least there were no leftovers.

Katy Wolk-Stanley

“Use it up, wear it out, make it do or do without”

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Link-O-Rama Mama

by Katy on August 20, 2010 · 7 comments

It’s time again for Link-O-Rama Mama, where I lazily just link to other people’s well written and thoroughly researched articles.

This fashion "Don't" becomes . . . .

A fashion "Do!"

365 Dresses

Do you suffer from nothing to wear syndrome? You’ve tried looking for new frocks at your local thrift store, but found nothing but mu-mus and fake Laura Ashley dresses? Well, fret no more, because I have got the solution to all your problems! The ticket to fashion heaven is now within your budget at $1 per dress. But there’s a catch, you have to transform a tacky old dress, and you have to sew one per day for an entire year. (The previous paragraph was to be read aloud in a Guy Smiley voice.)

Add all that together, and you’ve got New Dress a Day, which promises:

365 Days. 365 New Outfits. 365 Dollars

This lighthearted, yet weighty project is the brain child of L.A. resident Marisa Lynch. Mumus become cute little dresses, and bridesmaid dresses become bustiers. She’s 262 days into her project, so there’s lots to look back on, yet still more excitement to come.

It’s super fun reading, and methinks that this super cutie blogger is getting herself a book deal. Probably already has one.

I like her anyway.

Pearls of Wisdom from the Divine Anne Lamott

I was luxuriating in a gleaned-from-the-recycling-bin issue of Sunset Magazine, when I came across an article titled Time Lost and Found. And if the headline hadn’t grabbed me, then the author certainly would have. I was given a copy of Lamott’s Operating Instructions: A Journal of my Son’s First Year when my boys were wee and loved it. It was refreshingly non-sugar coated, which I appreciated.

The Sunset article was all about how we all have the time to do the things we say we want to do, it just has to be stolen from other areas of our lives.

“Creative expression, whether that means writing, dancing, bird-watching, or cooking, can give a person almost everything he or she has been searching for: enlivenment, peace, meaning, and the incalculable wealth of time spent quietly in beauty.

Then I bring up the bad news: you have to make time to do this.

This means that you have to grasp that your manic forms of connectivity — cell phone, e-mail, text, Twitter — steal most chances of lasting connection or amazement. That multitasking can argue a wasted life. That a close friendship is worth more than material success.

Needless to say, this is very distressing for my writing students. They start to explain they they have two kids at home, or five,  a stable of horses or a hive of bees. , and 40-hour workweeks. Or, on the other hand, sometimes they are climbing the walls with boredom, own nearly nothing,  and are looking for work full-time, which is why they can’t make time now to pursue their hearts’ desires. They often add that as soon as they retire, or their last child moves out, or they move to the country, or to the city, or sell the horses, they will. They are absolutely sincere, and they are delusional.”

I’ll let you read the whole article, which isn’t that long. It’s a good reminder to not put off living the life you want, and that it has to be prioritzed in order to happen.

Thanks Anne!

What Do The Ladies Like?

Hot guys reading books! How about a blog entirely devoted to . . .  yes, you guessed it!

Hot Guys Reading Books!

I think I just died and went to heaven. Now if they only had a “Hot guys doing dishes” site. Really, the list goes on. Hot guys giving foot rubs, hot guys putting the laundry away, hot guys packing your work lunch, hot guys buying gifts for their own parents, hot guys actually reading their wives’ blogs, hot guys watching HGTV. Seriously, someone stop me now before I explode!

Thank you to Angela over at My Year Without Spending for, ahem . . . turning me on to this site.

Katy Wolk-Stanley

“Use it up, wear it out, make it do or do without

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