Bye-bye crap!

I have been slowly, but steadily working to declutter my house, and as always, if I can combine an activity with income revenue, all the better.

I had sold a few big tickets on Craigslist (snowboard equipment, dress ups and a twin bed) over the past few weeks, which brought in $240. I’d also taken two laundry baskets full of kid books to Powell’s bookstore, which earned $10 for each of my sons. (They bought about a third of them.)

So today, I drank an extra shot of liquid courage, (Red Rose tea) and attacked the boys’ closets. My 14-year-old son has a huge closet in his room, which means that it doesn’t need to be gleaned all that often. This also means it can fill up with clothes he would not wear in a million years, which makes it hard for him to find the clothes he actually likes.

I pulled everything out from the closet and laid it across the bed. This included all the empty toddler size hangers as well as the hand me downs my son would rather die than be caught wearing, (Land’s End wide wale courduroy elastic waisted pants with extra fabric across the knees.) I decided which color hanger we had the most of (dark green) and set aside all the rest. I then ruthlessly culled the clothes that, while perfectly good, and often in like-new condition, would never get worn. This was at least 75% of the content of his closet.

I chatted with my Seattle sister while decluttering, and she begged and pleaded with me to set all the pants aside, (her ten-year-old son is not picky about clothes) but my goal here was to get this stuff out of the house. Out. Out! Not set aside — Out!

I then pulled all the clothes from my 11-year-old son’s closet and went through the same routine, (he got the blue hangers!)

I organized the clothes into bins for the consignment shop and Goodwill and even grabbed a few extra items like child size Harry Potter sleeping bags, the toddler size hangers, some toys from cleaning out my younger son’s room and the laundry basket of kid books that Powell’s had rejected.

I am excited (and frankly, surprised) to announce that the children’s consignment shop took almost all the clothes, all the hangers, about half of the books as well as the sleeping bags! I won’t realize any profit until the stuff sells, but I’m in no hurry.

And really, I have met my goal of Crap out of the house, money in!

And not to toot my own horn, but I batched a few errands since I was driving across town, and bought tons of yummy food at the Grocery Outlet, (including beautifully packaged salmon and organic chai chocolate bars for the Japanese host families) and hormone free milk at Trader Joe’s. I hung two loads of laundry to dry, and will be taking my older son to pick up his glasses, which are finally ready.

And Jennifer H. who won her own copy of The Happiness Project? Your book is on its way.

I will sleep well tonight.

Katy Wolk-Stanley

“Use it up, wear it out, make it do or do without”

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Culture Shock in My Own Culture

by Katy on April 14, 2010 · 25 comments

Gathering all the supplies, gifts and specific clothes necessary for my son’s imminent trip to Japan has brought me closer to consumer America than I’ve been in years. Sure, I’ve bought as much as possible at Goodwill, (his formal outfit and a wristwatch) but there were some things that required a trip to regular stores such as Target and Ikea.

The necessary brand new item? A pair of slippers. The Japanese culture requires that my son bring a pair of slippers for his big ol’ size ten feet, as neither shoes in the house nor going barefoot is an option. And my son begged me to not buy him a pair of used slippers. (Okay, even I wouldn’t buy used slippers. Well. . . maybe if they were in like-new condition.)

I also needed to buy three 11 X 13 black frames for group photos that my husband took of my son’s class. I did look at Goodwill, but wasn’t able to find anything that fit the bill.

The Fred Meyer store that is walkable from home no longer sells apparel, plus their frames looked like crap. So I revved up the mini-van and drove out to the closest Target, which actually isn’t that far from our house. I motivated myself by bringing along a Starbucks gift card (thanks mom!) and my reusable mug, as I knew there was a coffee spot right inside the entrance.

Thus fortified, I found the spot that sold the one type of men’s slippers:

  • Made in China
  • Over-packaged
  • Poor quality
  • Smelling like a Dupont factory

I then rode the escalator up to the second floor to look at frames, which were all:

  • Made in China
  • Poor quality
  • Not all that cheap anyway

At this point, I figured I might as well drive the five miles or so to Ikea and just buy the frames there. I seemed to recall cheap classic black wooden frames from my one visit a few months back to buy my indoor clothesrack.

$12.99 later, I’m on the freeway and making my way to Ikea, where I found:

  • That Ikea was out of the black 11 X 13 frames
  • Which are made in China
  • That I should have just brought three of the $9.99 frames in white or wood to end my misery.

I did buy three plain solid wood shelves in the as-is section for a project where I’m transforming a useless broom closet into a mini-pantry. And although I did get in line for a yummy treat at the end of my shopping, I got out of line, as I remembered that just because a hot dog is 50¢, doesn’t mean that I have to eat it.

I used to love going to Target, and I can totally see the appeal of Ikea — they had four packs of cute clip frames for a dollar. A dollar! But everything I saw was viewed through the lens of know that all this manufacturing of unnecessary and poor quality Stuff has consequence. At the site of manufacture, during shipping, in my home and then at the landfill. I am totally aware that my son’s slippers will have nowhere to go except the garbage in less than a year. (At least my sheepskin slippers are mendable, which I know from experience.)

It was culture shock, pure and simple. And that Ikea anxiety dream last night? Just the cherry on top.

Katy Wolk-Stanley

“Use it up, wear it out, make it do or do without”

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I’ve been writing a lot recently about happiness, simple living, decluttering and the general challenges of day-to-day life. But I wanted to let you know that my main groove is still money, and how not to spend too much of it.

For example, today I:

  • Rented (for free) the seed spreader and roller to reseed the backyard lawn, which got destroyed during a soccer party last fall. The extra grass seed was $8.99 from the local nursery. This means we’ll have a lawn again for less than ten bucks, and we’re doing this early enough that the grass can establish from rain instead of store bought water.
  • Washed all the towels, cloth napkins and dish towels. I try to only wash these on sunny days, as the outdoor clothesline is the only line that can dry the thick towels within a single day. We don’t own enough nice looking towels to wait out the days necessary to dry them on an inside clothesline.
  • Drove to Goodwill, (batching errands along the way such as dropping off the plastics recycling) returning some too small slacks and buying another pair for my son’s Japan trip. He also needed a wrist watch for the trip, and I found him one for $4.99. I chose the one which was ticking along, thus saving the cost of a new battery. It appears to be working perfectly.
  • I walked to Fred Meyer to buy tomato starts for my garden. They were $1.99 apiece, which I consider to be fabulous bargain, considering that each plant will grow dozens of fresh mouth watering tomatoes. I also bought organic lettuce, which was only 5o¢ more than the non-organic. I will choose organic food, but not if the price difference is astronomical. Bringing my own bags saved me 10¢.
  • Stopped into Papa Murphy’s pizza to buy toppings for tonight’s pizza dinner. $1.50 purchased enough pepperoni and sausage for two pizzas. Plus, I brought my own Pyrex container, so it was packaging free.
  • Enjoyed a lovely hour or so reading a review copy of “Your Money: The Missing Manual” by J.D. Roth while lounging in my luxurious got-it-for-free bed.

Spending as little money as possible is a huge component of my life. Sustainability and simple living are important, but given the choice, I’ll gravitate towards the frugality most any day. Luckily, there are very few times when frugality and sustainability do not intertwine.

I just wanted to make sure you knew that The Non-Consumer Advocate had  not shifted over to a blog about decluttering, productivity and gift giving. It’s actually about living the rich life on a dime. That other stuff just came along for the ride.

Katy Wolk-Stanley

“Use it up, wear it out, make it do or do without”

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I have a tendency to get a little down when I feel like all I’m doing is what I did the day before, and also what I’ll be doing tomorrow. You know, the treading water of day-to-day life.

Kids off to school, get laundry going, write blog, tidy up, run errands, make dinner, take kids to sports practices, clean up from dinner, help with homework, get kids off to bed, collapse into own bed, start over.

It’s far from invigorating.

But I’ve noticed that if I’m able to accomplish even one small task that moves me forward towards a certain goal, (whether it’s decluttering my house or investing in my friendships,) I’m able to feel enough sense of accomplishment. This is far from an earth shattering revelation, but since I started concretely focusing on doing something every day that isn’t just treading water, I really feel as if I am moving forward with my life.

For example, today I did three loads of laundry, made dinner, took my older son to find a formal outfit, walked some errands and then got the recycling and yard debris organized for tomorrow’s pickup. But I also bought the fuschia starts for my hanging baskets, weeded my tiny plot and planted some seeds. The former tasks are revolving and maddeningly never ending, but the latter only have to be done once, and prove (at least to myself) and I am not living the same day over and over again. And these do-them-once tasks will last beyond a 24 hour period.

I have most of the week off from work, so I should be able to get some stuff accomplished. Even if it is just small accomplishments, it’s still something. And I know better than many, that small consistent efforts, (whether they be monetary or otherwise) add up faster than you can say “Coin Girl.”

Do you find this accomplish something small everyday a worthy goal? Have anything to add? Please share your thoughts in the comments section below.

Katy Wolk-Stanley

“Use it up, wear it out, make it do or do without”

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Julie, Julia and Katy

by Katy on April 10, 2010 · 9 comments

I finally watched the movie Julie and Julia last night, which has been #1 on my to-watch list for awhile now. And disappoint, it did not. Yummy food, successful bloggers and a hot husband. (Julie, not Julia.) What’s not to love?

I especially liked how Julie was inundated with calls from literary agents and publishers after her piece ran in The NY Times. I had a similar experience after my interview in the NY Times, but it was one agent, not dozens and she lost interest in me after finding out that publishing houses are experiencing a glut of green/frugality book pitches.

Oh well . . . easy come, easy go.

I do still want to explore writing my own book some day, but with running a household, work, parenting and high puttering around needs, it would be hard to find the time.

Until then, I’ll just enjoy all the other fabulous books out there, courtesy of my public library. And I’ll just wait for all those Hollywood bigwigs who want to turn my blog into a movie. Might be a long wait.

Katy Wolk-Stanley

“Use it up, wear it out, make it do or do without”

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Congratulations to “Jennifer H” whose list of five things that made her happy won her a copy of Gretchen Rubin’s The Happiness Project. And thank you to everyone who took the time to list your five things. Note that there no “my brand new this” or “my super expensive that.”

Here’s just a short list of what you said made you happy:

Jennifer H:

1. Homemade rhubarb-strawberry sauce
2. Taking a nap on the weekend
3. Having a great phone conversation with a friend
4. Rubbing my kitty’s tummy
5. being married to my husband

Mrs. B:

1. My kids and I made it through homeschooling and we are still getting along.
2. My dear sweet husband who is there for me no matter what.
3. That my above husband and I have located our retirement home and have almost paid it off. We are just renting close to work for now.
4. That we will be officially retired in less than 7 years.
5. I was able to use leftovers to make dinner tonight and bake a couple of loaves of bread to go with it. Yum.

Leslie K:

1. Being genuinely surprised (in a good way) – by a book I knew nothing about, by a movie I had no expectations about, or by a friend’s small act of kindness;
2. Grits & shrimp (together or separately);
3. when my kids still want me to give them backrubs;
4. silly poems my husband writes;
5. accomplishing things I’ve put off.

WM:

1) Biking in the just-warm-enough spring air.
2) Snuggling on a Saturday morning.
3) Leisurely weekend cooking. I made the Frugal Girl’s pull apart garlic bread this weekend!
4) Snowshoeing in the sunshine.
5) Mountain Man.

Dawn:

1. The bus pulling up to my stop, especially on a miserably rainy day.
2. Reading a book that makes me want to stay up all night to finish.
3. Indulging in eating a plate lunch.
4. Finding a comfortable, almost new pair of Danskos at Goodwill.
5. Knowing I’m exactly right where I want to be.

Ame:

1. Cuddly husband bringing me coffee to wake me up on a Saturday morning.
2. Clear skin after a life of acne.
3. Rapidly approaching a debt-free life.
4. Brainstorming a fabulous new way to wear clothes I’ve had forever.
5. Sitting down to read in a clean, tidy home.

Connor:

1.Making my daughter laugh so hard she thinks she’ll pee in her pants.
2. Being able to request books from the library over the internet.
3. Browsing at the Farmer’s Market.
4. Movie nights with my daughter.
5. Using my old wooden salad bowl.

Beth C:

1. Curling up under a warm throw with the latest interlibrary loan or Paperback Swap delivery.
2. The way may husband can turn leftovers and stuff in our pantry into delectable creations such as ham and white bean soup.
3. The first bite into a gooey warm chocolate chip cookie.
4. Getting stuff accomplished in my day while allowing for some time spent puttering around.
5. Hugs.

Meghan:

1. Little green sprouts popping up in the garden
2. My newly decluttered living room and dining room
3. My daughter’s sudden moments of overwhelming kindness
4. My cats (all eight of them!) and my stupid, lovable dog
5. Books, which are everywhere in our house.

Barb S:

1. Warm baths
2. Fresh clean sheets on a well-made bed
3. My kids’ laughter
4. Baking
5. Staying in touch with old friends :-)

Jessica Wolk-Stanley:

1. Gardening with my 5-year old daughter.
2. Watching my son playing with his pals after school.
3. Doing dishes and listening to an audiobook and my hubster surprising me with a hug and a kiss.
4. Reading in bed.
5. Knitting, drawing, baking…just making things I guess.

6.I forgot to mention my most happy thing, which is exacting revenge on those who’ve done me wrong.

(Note from Katy — Yup. That’s my sister!)

Click here to read everyone’s happiness lists.

Katy Wolk-Stanley

“Use it up, wear it out, make it do or do without”

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Small Measures — A Guest Post

by Katy on April 8, 2010 · 4 comments

The following is a reprint of a previously published post. Ashley just published not one, but two books through her Lark Books Homemade Living Series titled Keeping Chickens With Ashley English: All You Need to Know to Care for a Happy, Healthy Flock and Canning and Preserving with Ashley English: All You Need to Know to Make Jams, Jellies, Pickles, Chutneys and More.

Enjoy!

Katy Wolk-Stanley

“Use it up, wear it out, make it do or do without”

I went to a very small liberal arts college in Nowheresville, Ohio. There were just a few hundred students on campus at a time, yet somehow each and every one of us seems to have shown up on Facebook. This re-connecting has actually been quite interesting, as many of my past friends and acquaintances have gone on to lead very interesting lives. Television producers, writers, professors, music bigwigs and even a trophy wife or two.

One of my favorite reconnections has been with Glenn English, a man I hardly knew, yet he beats me soundly at online Scrabble on a regular basis. He is a Scrabble God.

A wonderful side affect of this relationship is that I discovered that Glenn’s wife, Ashley English writes a wonderful blog called Small Measure. Ashley is:

Making an attempt to craft a good life in a small mountain community. I find pleasure in the light at dusk, atlases, hard cider, cat antics, dog breath, homemade ice cream and snorty laughter. I’m in the process of writing a series of books, entitled “Homemade Living,” (Lark Books) about the ways people are reconnecting with their food and food communities and taking up sustainable food practices. I also host a weekly column every Friday on Design*Sponge:

Ashley writes about cooking, chicken tending, canning, gardening and bee keeping. But there’s one feature of Small Measure that caught my eye, which is an occasional after-note where she suggests one small change to make. These little blog-lets are simple, yet very appealing.

Ashley, Thank you very much for sharing your Small Measures!

Small Measures:

*Small Measure: Find beauty where you are. It’s everywhere, no matter where you’re calling from (this post’s title is based on a Raymond Carver short story as well as a collection of short stories by the same name; R.C. is an old favorite, a sort of Tom Waits literary kin).

*Small Measure: Plant flowers for bees! If you have access to some grass or lawn or even an abandoned lot, stoop, or balconey (even a median strip will do!), consider sowing some nectar-producing seeds for honeybees and other pollinators. They’re particularly found of bee balm, mint, anise hyssop, borage, catmint, echinacea, buckwheat, yellow mustard, and basil. Bees get a source of food for transforming into honey, humans gain access to some amazing culinary and medicinal herbs-everyone wins!

*Small Measure: Play board games. Decidedly low-fi, board games are a great way to entertain groups of varying ages, political persuasions, and degrees of raucousness. Laughs are usually had, brains are usually given a workout, and allegiances are usually forged. Besides, on what other occasion might you witness your step-mother imitating Cosmo Kramer, your Pop humming “Hound Dog” (while gyrating, for, you know, emphasis), and your husband sculpting a television out of clay (Thank you, Cranium!)?

*Small Measure: Bring your own to-go containers. While I love the occasional Chinese or Mexican take-out, I don’t so much love the styrofoam that such cuisine is sometimes packaged in for transit. So, instead, I schlep my own to-go containers in with me. Most restaurants will gladly accommodate the request to pack your victuals in any clean container you provide. Much like keeping canvas shopping bags in the car at all times, I keep metal Sigg containers on hand so that, should a sudden hankering for lomein hit, I’m prepared to cart away my food in a reusable vessel!

*Small Measure: Visit local farms. In fact, this weekend, the annual Family Farm Tour was happening. I had too much going on to attend, but we actually visited one of the participating farms during the Lavender Festival. Local farm visits, especially during Summer months, are fabulous ways to harvest produce at its peak, both nutritionally and flavor-wise.  Check out pickyourown for locations of local farms in your area.

*Small Measure: Wild forage! It’s entirely possible to eat for free more often than you might think. Fruits that have fallen off the vine, berries growing determinedly in wild bramble, dandelion greens peeking through parking lot cracks, chickweed spreading itself along sidewalks-it’s all there for the taking!

*Small Measure: Plant organic seeds. I opted for Johnny’s and Territorial, as well as High Mowing. Heirloom company Bakers Creek is a perennial favorite as well (be forewarned-their catalogue is straight-up produce porn; you will want everything you see!). Purchasing organically provides you with a foundation of clean, healthy plants, ensures financial viability for organic producers, and promotes genetic diversity.

*Small Measure: Use biodegradable dog and cat waste bags.These break down over time and won’t choke up the landfill. While the dogs don’t have a need for these bags out here (the forest is pretty accepting), the cats’ waste (we have 5!!!) goes into these bags, and then into a reserved pit in the back of the property to decompose. Good sources include Biobags and Four Paws.

*Small Measure: Sow the seeds you want to see in the world.I’m borrowing a bit liberally from Ghandi here, but I think he would approve. If you see something that needs to be done, hop to it!

*Small Measure: Eat a rainbow of colors at each meal. I realize that while this isn’t always achievable, it’s definitely goal-worthy. Different foods pack in different nutrients and eating a variety of hues at each meal goes far in offering an assortment of essential vitamins, nutrients, antioxidants, and phytonutrients. Plus, they make meals more visually arresting, and I think we could all use a bit more visual arrestment in our lives, no?

*Small Measure: Make slow purchases. Take your time when opting to bring something new into your home, whether it be an armchair, a drinking glass, a canister, or pillow. See what might already exist in your community. Find ways to repurpose items gathering dust in your basement, spare room, or nearby antique store. Check the local paper for estate sales and auctions (a riot of fun, especially here in the south-I mean, have you ever actually heard an auctioneer do their thing? It boggles the mind.) You could even simply rearrange your furniture if you’re anxious for a quick, albeit “slow”, fix, which my mom did ALL THE TIME when I was growing up. Whatever you do, just do it thoughtfully. Speed isn’t everything. Like the Aesop fable “The Tortoise and the Hare” indicates, “slow and steady wins the race.” Ready? Set? Mosey…..

*Small Measure: The best things in life are free. That’s it, plain and simple. Hugs, kisses, a hummingbird’s buzz, a wink from a strange old lady-no benjamins necessary.

*Small Measure: Grow something! It needn’t be grandiose or even abundant. Start small if all you have is a windowsill. I once grew beans and tomatoes inside a 3rd floor apartment from the light provided by a skylight. Growing something yourself obviously shortens the transit necessary for foods to reach the table, but it also presents opportunities for eating foods at their peak of ripeness. Growing foods also forces you to slow down. Healthy growth takes time, patience, and love.

*Small Measure: Use cloth napkins. They’re inherently more absorbent than their paper cousins, definitely more attractive, and don’t need to be tossed in the garbage at the end of every feeding session. We keep a large range and use them at every meal. Once they become oil-stained, or have one too many enduring marinara streaks to be guest-worthy, I transition them to the kitchen cloth stash, which, in a similar fashion, I use instead of paper towels. Plus, they give you a polished edge, even if you’re slurping up pizza in your jammies.

*Small Measure: Air dry your laundry. You don’t need a backyard or a clothesline to showcase your business either. If you live in an apartment, simply throwing open the windows and spreading your garments over the backs of chairs or atop windowsills works splendidly. Country or suburban dwellers, well, you’ve got some room, no matter how diminutive, for even the most humble of taught lines to be hung. There’s such easy comfort that comes from watching your things, mentionable and otherwise, blowing in the wind. Plus, it’s good exercise, what with the bending over, pinning up, removing, and folding. As a bonus, you’re saving money-a perk, no doubt, but definitely not the be all, end all. Clothespins up, pin onward!

*Small Measure: Carry a hankie (that’s a handkerchief, for those of you not down with nasal cloth colloquialisms). ‘Specially this time of year, when so many folks have colds. My dad has been a life-long proponent of the hankie. Of course, you’ll need more than one, as they get pretty rank pretty fast, but hankies are a much sounder choice than kleenex, environmentally-speaking. Plus, there are some pretty cool ones out there, so, depending on your predilection, you could deposit your precious nasal knowledge into a camouflaged, John Deere, paisley (Pop’s choice), or floral hankie. Allow the hankie to make a statement, about your environmental AND design choices.

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Buy Low, Sell High

by Katy on April 7, 2010 · 7 comments

I’ve been thinking a lot about the annual cost of my family’s belongings. This started when I sold our old washing machine on Craigslist for $20. This may sound hardly worth the effort, but since we bought it around eight years ago for $45, it actually was. Because we had eight year’s washing machine usage for $25. That’s $4.12 per year. Sure, there’s the added cost that this machine was not the most, ahem . . . energy efficient model. But I’ve always washed with cold water, and Oregon is far from drought ridden.

We also just sold our younger son’s captain’s bed on Craigslist. This too was bought on Craigslist, for $100 to be specific, ten years ago. We sold it for $60, which means my son had a bed for $4 per year. Not too shabby.

The annual cost of our belongings would sing a different story if we were to have bought brand new. We would be looking at $400 beds that sell for $60, which changes the equation.

When buying used, the value of your belongings doesn’t drop as steeply, and can even raise in value.

To this, I give the example of my son’s dress-ups, which I sold today on Craigslist for $40. This was an awesome collection of boy dress ups, with lots of animal costumes, as well as wizard, clown, superhero, knight and dinosaur paraphernalia. None of this was bought new, (although a few bits and pieces were presents) and a couple pieces were actually pulled from free boxes, yet they still had value. Play value. Were I to have bought the dress-ups brand new, the overall cost would have been in the hundreds of dollars. But since they weren’t, the value had actually gone up.

Lesson here? Buy low, sell high, and tell Craig I said “hi!” He and I go way back.

Katy Wolk-Stanley

“Use it up, wear it out, make it do or do without”

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Lessons Learned While Decluttering

by Katy on April 6, 2010 · 14 comments

My day was busy, but not really. I got the kids off to school, wrote up a quick blog post and then drove over to my friend’s house to help her declutter a bit. We of course had to eat a little something first before any actual work began, so it was noonish before we got down to business.

We were in the midst of going through piles of stuff when we came up the idea of life lessons one can learn during the act of decluttering. There were:

  • Do not give stuff to people they already have too much of.
  • Just because you bought a dead person’s house, doesn’t mean you have to keep their family photos.
  • Use your gift cards before they expire.
  • Just because somebody gave you something, doesn’t mean you have to be buried with it.
  • When calling to cancel your L.L. Bean catalogs, dial carefully, as there’s a recording of a breathy woman who’s “been waiting to get you off” if you misdial. Also, redialing this number can lead to some raucous laughter.

Next week we’ll be decluttering at casa Wolk-Stanley. At this rate we’ll have nothing left to declutter . . . in a year or two.

I also spent around twenty minutes decluttering my younger son’s room with him this evening. The walkable path is getting wider, which I say is progress.

Katy Wolk-Stanley

“Use it up, wear it out, make it do or do without”

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Happiness. Easy for some, a challenge for others. What makes one person happy can be an empty experience for another. But one thing is certain, happiness is a goal we all work towards. Whether it’s the joy of the perfect manicure or the luxury of a perfect nap, happiness is considered by many to be the meaning of life.

Gretchen Rubin explores the enigma that is happiness in her book  The Happiness Project, which chronicled her year long project.

The fine folks over at Harper Collins are sending a copy of The Happiness Project for one lucky Non-Consumer Advocate reader. To enter this giveaway, list five things in the comments section that make you happy. I will randomly choose a winner Thursday, April 8th at midnight PST. U.S. residents only, please enter only once.

I will start you out with my own list:

  1. Knowing that I was able to pay for my son’s trip to Japan with odds and ends of extra money.
  2. Clearing clutter from my home.
  3. Having something to look forward to, like a walk with a friend or a long awaited book that’s come in at the library.
  4. My warm sheepskin slippers.
  5. When my kids have no homework.

Okay now, it your turn. What makes you happy?

Katy Wolk-Stanley

“Use it up, wear it out, make it do or do without.”

Click here to read Rubin’s Happiness Project blog.

Click here and here to read  my previous columns on what makes me happy.

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